← Lex Fridman

Jonathan Haidt: The Case Against Social Media

第291期2022-06-04English

嘉宾:Jonathan Haidt

收听本集00:00 / 1:48:45
阅读设置
按你的习惯阅读
正文字号
下载播客精读
把这一篇,带走慢慢读

精读待补充

下载功能还未开放

§01Transcript · 00:00–07:52

00:00The following is a conversation with Jonathan Haidt,

00:02social psychologist at NYU

00:04and critic of the negative effects of social media

00:07on the human mind and human civilization.

00:10He gives a respectful but hard hitting response

00:13to my conversation with Mark Zuckerberg.

00:16And together, him and I try to figure out

00:18how we can do better,

00:20how we can lessen the amount of depression

00:22and division in the world.

00:24He has brilliantly discussed these topics in his writing,

00:28including in his book, "The Coddling of the American Mind"

00:32and in his recent long article in "The Atlantic"

00:35titled, "Why the Past 10 Years of American Life

00:39Have Been Uniquely Stupid."

00:41When Teddy Roosevelt said in his famous speech

00:45that it is not the critic who counts,

00:47he has not yet read

00:48the brilliant writing of Jonathan Haidt.

00:51I disagree with John on some of the details

00:53of his analysis and ideas,

00:55but both his criticism and our disagreement is essential

01:00if we are to build better

01:02and better technologies that connect us.

01:04Social media has both the power to destroy our society

01:08and to help it flourish.

01:10It's up to us to figure out how we take the lighter path.

01:14This is the Lex Friedman Podcast.

01:17To support it,

01:18please check out our sponsors in the description.

01:20And now, dear friends, here's Jonathan Haidt.

01:25- So you have been thinking about the human mind

01:27for quite a long time.

01:29You wrote "The Happiness Hypothesis,"

01:31"The Righteous Mind," "The Coddling of the American Mind,"

01:33and today you're thinking, you're writing a lot

01:35about social media and about democracy.

01:38So perhaps if it's okay,

01:42let's go through the thread that connects all of that work.

01:46How do we get from the very beginning to today

01:49with the good, the bad, and the ugly of social media?

01:53So I'm a social psychologist,

01:55which means I study how we think about other people

01:59and how people affect our thinking.

02:01And in graduate school at the University of Pennsylvania,

02:04I picked the topic of moral psychology,

02:07and I studied how morality varied across countries.

02:10I studied in Brazil and India.

02:13And in the '90s, I began,

02:15this was like I got my PhD in 1992.

02:17And in that decade was really when the American culture war

02:21kind of really began to blow up.

02:23And I began to notice that left and right in this country

02:26were becoming like separate countries.

02:28And you could use the tools of cultural psychology

02:30to study this split,

02:31this moral battle between left and right.

02:34So I started doing that.

02:36And I began growing alarmed in the early 2000s

02:39about how bad polarization was getting.

02:42And I began studying the causes of polarization,

02:46bringing moral psychology to bear on our political problems.

02:50And I was originally gonna write a book

02:52to basically help the Democrats stop screwing up,

02:55because I could see that some of my research showed

02:58people on the right understand people on the left,

03:01they know what they think.

03:02You can't grow up in America

03:03without knowing what progressives think.

03:06But here I grew up generally on the left,

03:08and I had no idea what conservatives thought

03:10until I went and sought it out

03:11and started reading conservative things

03:13like National Review.

03:14So originally I wanted to actually help the Democrats

03:18to understand moral psychology

03:19so they could stop losing to George W. Bush.

03:21And I got a contract to write "The Righteous Mind."

03:24And once I started writing it,

03:25I committed to understanding conservatives

03:27by reading the best writings, not the worst.

03:30And I discovered, you know what?

03:31You don't understand anything

03:32until you look from multiple perspectives.

03:34And I discovered there are a lot of great

03:36social science ideas

03:37in the conservative intellectual tradition.

03:39And I also began to see, you know what?

03:42America's actually in real trouble.

03:43And this is like 2008, 2009.

03:45Things are really, we're coming apart here.

03:47So I began to really focus my research

03:49on helping left and right understand each other

03:51and helping our democratic institutions to work better.

03:54Okay, so all this is before I had any interest

03:56in social media.

03:57I was on Twitter, I guess like 2009,

03:59and not much, didn't think about it much.

04:02And then, so I'm going along

04:05as a social psychologist studying this.

04:07And then everything seems to kind of blow up

04:10in 2014, 2015 at universities.

04:13And that's when Greg Lukianoff came to me

04:16in May of 2014 and said,

04:17"John, weird stuff is happening.

04:20Students are freaking out

04:22about a speaker coming to campus

04:24that they don't have to go see.

04:25And they're saying it's dangerous, it's violence.

04:27Like what is going on?"

04:28And so anyway, Greg's ideas

04:31about how we were teaching students

04:33to think in distorted ways,

04:34that led us to write the "Coddling the American Mind,"

04:37which wasn't primarily about social media either.

04:38It was about, you know,

04:39this sort of a rise of depression, anxiety.

04:42But after that, things got so much worse everywhere.

04:45And that's when I began to think like,

04:47whoa, something systemically has changed.

04:49Something has changed

04:50about the fabric of the social universe.

04:52And so ever since then,

04:52I've been focused on social media.

04:54- So we're going to try to sneak up

04:57to the problems and the solutions at hand

04:59from different directions.

05:00I have a lot of questions

05:02whether it's fundamentally the nature of social media

05:05that's the problem,

05:05it's the decisions of various human beings

05:08that lead the social media companies that's the problem.

05:11Is there still some component

05:12that's highlighted in the "Coddling of the American Mind"

05:16that's the individual psychology at play

05:18or the way parenting and education works

05:22to make sort of emphasize anti-fragility of the human mind

05:27as it interacts with the social media platforms

05:31and the other humans through the social.

05:32So all that beautiful mess.

05:34- That should take us an hour or two to cover.

05:36- Or maybe a couple of years, yes.

05:37But so let's start if it's okay.

05:40You said you wanted to challenge some of the things

05:43that Mark Zuckerberg has said

05:44in a conversation with me.

05:46What are some of the ideas he expressed

05:48that you disagree with?

05:49- Okay, there are two major areas that I study.

05:51One is what is happening with teen mental health?

05:54It fell off a cliff in 2013, it was very sudden.

05:57And then the other is what is happening

06:00to our democratic and epistemic institutions?

06:02That means knowledge generating

06:04like universities, journalism.

06:07So my main areas of research

06:09where I'm collecting the empirical research

06:10and trying to make sense of it

06:12is what's happened to teen mental health

06:14and what's the evidence that social media is a contributor?

06:17And then the other areas,

06:18what's happening to democracies, not just America,

06:22and what's the evidence that social media

06:23is a contributor to the dysfunction?

06:25So I'm sure we'll get to that

06:26'cause that's what the Atlantic article is about.

06:28But if we focus first on

06:30what's happened to teen mental health.

06:32So before I read the quotes from Mark,

06:34I'd like to just give the overview.

06:36And it is this.

06:39There's a lot of data tracking adolescents.

06:43There's self-reports of how depressed, anxious, lonely.

06:47There's data on hospital admissions for self-harm.

06:49There's data on suicide.

06:50And all of these things, they bounce around somewhat,

06:53but they're relatively level in the early 2000s.

06:56And then all of a sudden, around 2010 to 2013,

07:00depending on which statistic you're looking at,

07:02all of a sudden, they begin to shoot upwards.

07:06More so for girls in some cases,

07:08but on the whole, it's like up for both sexes.

07:10It's just that boys have lower levels

07:12of anxiety and depression.

07:13So the curve is not quite as dramatic.

07:15But what we see is not small increases.

07:17It's not like, oh, 10%, 20%.

07:20No, the increases are between 50 and 150%,

07:24depending on which group you're looking at.

07:26Suicide for preteen girls, thankfully, it's not very common,

07:31but it's two to three times more common now.

07:34Or by 2015, it had doubled.

07:36Between 2010 and 2015, it doubled.

07:38So something is going radically wrong

07:40in the world of American preteens.

07:42So as I've been studying it, I found, first of all,

07:46it's not just America.

07:47It's identical in Canada and the UK.

07:50Australia and New Zealand are very similar.

07:52They're just after a little delay.

§02Transcript · 07:53–15:30

07:53So whatever we're looking for here,

07:55but yet it's not as clear in the Germanic countries.

07:58In continental Europe, it's a little different,

08:00and we can get into that when we talk about childhood.

08:02But something's happening in many countries,

08:05and it started right around 2012, 2013.

08:08It wasn't gradual.

08:10It hit girls hardest,

08:11and it hit preteen girls the hardest.

08:13So what could it be?

08:15Nobody has come up with another explanation.

08:18Nobody.

08:19It wasn't the financial crisis.

08:20That wouldn't have hit preteen girls the hardest.

08:23There is no other explanation.

08:25The complexity here in the data is, of course,

08:27as everyone knows, correlation doesn't prove causation.

08:30The fact that television viewing was going up

08:32in the '60s and '70s doesn't mean

08:35that that was the cause of the crime.

08:37So what I've done, and this is Rook with Jean Twenge,

08:40who wrote the book "iGen," is because I was challenged,

08:44when Greg and I put out the book,

08:46"The Coddling of the American Mind,"

08:47some researchers challenged us and said,

08:48"Oh, you don't know what you're talking about.

08:50"The correlations between social media use

08:52"and mental health, they exist, but they're tiny.

08:55"It's like a correlation coefficient of .03,

08:59"or a beta of .05, tiny little things."

09:02And one famous article said,

09:03"It's no bigger than the correlation

09:06"of bad mental health and eating potatoes,"

09:10which exists, but it's so tiny it's zero, essentially.

09:14And that claim, that social media's no more harmful

09:17than eating potatoes or wearing eyeglasses,

09:19it was a very catchy claim, and it's caught on,

09:21and I keep hearing that.

09:22But let me unpack why that's not true,

09:25and then we'll get to what Mark said.

09:26'Cause what Mark basically said,

09:27here, I'll actually read it.

09:29- And by the way, just to pause real quick,

09:31is you implied, but just to make it explicit,

09:35that the best explanation we have now,

09:36as you're proposing, is that a very particular aspect

09:39of social media is the cause,

09:42which is not just social media,

09:43but the like button and the retweet,

09:46a certain mechanism of virality that was invented,

09:51or perhaps some aspect of social media is the cause.

09:53- Okay, good idea.

09:54Let's be clear.

09:55Connecting people is good.

09:56I mean, overall, the more you connect people, the better.

10:00Giving people the telephone was an amazing step forward.

10:02Giving them free telephone, free long distance,

10:05is even better.

10:06Video is, I mean, so connecting people is good.

10:08I'm not a Luddite.

10:10And social media, at least the idea of users posting things,

10:14like that happens on LinkedIn, and it's great.

10:16It can serve all kinds of needs.

10:17What I'm talking about here is not the internet.

10:20It's not technology.

10:21It's not smartphones.

10:23And it's not even all social media.

10:25It's a particular business model

10:28in which people are incentivized to create content.

10:31And that content is what brings other people on.

10:34And the people on there are the product

10:36which is sold to advertisers.

10:38It's that particular business model

10:39which Facebook pioneered,

10:41which seems to be incredibly harmful for teenagers,

10:45especially for young girls, 10 to 14 years old

10:47is where they're most vulnerable.

10:50And it seems to be particularly harmful

10:51for democratic institutions

10:53because it leads to all kinds of anger, conflict,

10:55and the destruction of any shared narrative.

10:57So that's what we're talking about.

10:59We're talking about Facebook, Twitter.

11:00I don't have any data on TikTok.

11:01I suspect it's gonna end up being,

11:03having a lot of really bad effects

11:05because the teens are on it so much.

11:07And to be really clear,

11:08since we're doing the nuance now in this section,

11:10lots of good stuff happens.

11:11There's a lot of funny things on Twitter.

11:14I use Twitter because it's an amazing way to put out news,

11:17to put out when I write something,

11:19you and I use it to promote things.

11:22We learn things quickly.

11:24- Well, there's gonna be,

11:25now this is harder to measure.

11:28And we'll probably,

11:29I'll try to mention it

11:30because so much of our conversation

11:32will be about rigorous criticism.

11:34I'll try to sometimes mention

11:37what are the possible positive effects of social media

11:39in different ways.

11:40So for example, in the way I've been using Twitter,

11:45not the promotion or any of that kind of stuff,

11:48it makes me feel less lonely to connect with people,

11:53to make me smile, a little bit of humor here and there.

11:56And that at scale is a very interesting effect,

11:59being connected across the globe,

12:00especially during times of COVID and so on.

12:03It's very difficult to measure that.

12:05So we kind of have to consider that and be honest.

12:08There is a trade-off.

12:10We have to be honest about the positive and the negative.

12:13And sometimes we're not sufficiently positive

12:16or in a rigorous scientific way about the,

12:18we're not rigorous in a scientific way about the negative.

12:22And that's what we're trying to do here.

12:25And so that brings us to the Mark Zuckerberg email.

12:31- Okay, but wait,

12:31let me just pick up on the issue of trade-offs

12:33because people might think like,

12:35well, how much of this do we need?

12:37If we have too much, it's bad.

12:38No, that's a one-dimensional conceptualization.

12:42This is a multi-dimensional issue.

12:44And a lot of people seem to think like,

12:45oh, what would we have done

12:46without social media during COVID?

12:47Like we would have been sitting there alone in our homes.

12:49Yeah, if all we had was texting, telephone, Zoom, Skype,

12:54multiplayer video games, WhatsApp,

12:57all sorts of ways of communicating with each other.

13:00Oh, and there's blogs and the rest of the internet.

13:02Yeah, we would have been fine.

13:03Did we really need the hyper-viral platforms

13:06of Facebook and Twitter?

13:07Now those did help certain things get out faster.

13:09And that did help science Twitter sometimes,

13:12but it also led to huge explosions of misinformation

13:14and the polarization of our politics to such an extent

13:17that a third of the country, you know,

13:19didn't believe what the medical establishment was saying.

13:22And we'll get into this.

13:23The medical establishment sometimes

13:25was playing political games that made them less credible.

13:27So on net, it's not clear to me,

13:30if you've got the internet, smartphones, blogs,

13:33all of that stuff, it's not clear to me

13:36that adding in this particular business model

13:39of Facebook, Twitter, TikTok,

13:40that that really adds a lot more.

13:43- And one interesting one we'll also talk about is YouTube.

13:46I think it's easier to talk about Twitter and Facebook.

13:50YouTube is another complex beast that's very hard to,

13:53'cause YouTube has many things.

13:54It's a content platform,

13:56but it also has a recommendation system.

13:59That's, let's focus our discussion

14:02on perhaps Twitter and Facebook,

14:04but you do in this large document

14:06that you're putting together on social media

14:09called "Social Media and Political Dysfunction

14:11Collaborative Review" with Chris Bale.

14:14That includes, I believe, papers on YouTube as well.

14:18- It does, but yeah, again,

14:19just to finish up with the nuance,

14:20yeah, YouTube is really complicated

14:23because I can't imagine life without YouTube.

14:25It's incredibly useful.

14:26It does a lot of good things.

14:28It also obviously helps to radicalize

14:30terrorist groups and murderers.

14:32So I think about YouTube

14:34the way I think about the internet in general,

14:37and I don't know enough to really comment on YouTube.

14:39So I have been focused, and it's also interesting.

14:42One thing we know is teen social life changed radically

14:45between about 2010 and 2012.

14:47Before 2010, they weren't mostly on every day

14:49'cause they didn't have smartphones yet.

14:51By 2012 to '14, that's the area

14:53in which they almost all get smartphones,

14:55and they become daily users of the, what?

14:58So the girls go to Instagram and Tumblr.

15:00They go to the visual ones.

15:02The boys go to YouTube and video games.

15:04Those don't seem to be as harmful to mental health

15:06or even harmful at all.

15:07It's really Tumblr, Instagram particularly,

15:11that seem to really have done in girls' mental health.

15:14So now, okay, so let's look at the quote

15:16from Mark Zuckerberg.

15:18So at 64 minutes and 31 seconds on the video,

15:23I time-coded this.

15:25- This is excellent.

15:26- This is the very helpful YouTube transcript.

15:28YouTube's an amazing program.

15:30You ask him about Francis Haugen.

§03Transcript · 15:33–22:44

15:33You give him a chance to respond.

15:34And here's the key thing.

15:37So he talks about what Francis Haugen said.

15:41He said, "No, but that's mischaracterized.

15:42"Actually, on most measures, the kids are doing better

15:45"when they're on Instagram.

15:46"It's just on one out of the 18."

15:48And then he says, "I think an accurate characterization

15:52"would have been that kids using Instagram,"

15:55or not kids, but teens,

15:56"is generally positive for their mental health."

15:59That's his claim, that Instagram is overall,

16:03taken as a whole, Instagram is positive

16:05for their mental health.

16:06That's what he says.

16:07Now, is it really?

16:10Is it really?

16:11So first, just a simple, okay, now here,

16:14what I'd like to do is turn my attention

16:16to another document that we'll make available.

16:18So I was invited to give testimony

16:20before a Senate subcommittee two weeks ago,

16:22where they were considering

16:23the Platform Accountability Act.

16:25Should we force the platforms to actually tell us

16:27what our kids are doing?

16:28Like, we have no idea, other than self-report.

16:30We have no idea.

16:32They're the only ones who know, like, the kid does this,

16:34and then over the next hours, the kid's depressed or happy.

16:36We can't know that, but Facebook knows it.

16:39So should they be compelled to reveal the data?

16:42We need that.

16:43- So you raised just, to give people a little bit of context,

16:47and this document is brilliantly structured with questions,

16:51studies that indicate that the answer to a question is yes,

16:54indicate that the answer to a question is no,

16:57and then mixed results.

16:58And questions include things like,

17:00does social media make people more angry

17:02or effectively polarized?

17:03- Right, wait, so that's the one that we're gonna get to.

17:06That's the one for democracy.

17:07- Yes, that's for democracy.

17:08- So I've got three different Google Docs here,

17:10'cause I found this is an amazing way,

17:11and thank God for Google Docs.

17:13It's an amazing way to organize the research literature,

17:16and it's a collaborative review,

17:17meaning that, so on this one,

17:19Gene Twenge and I put up the first draft,

17:21and we say, please, comment, add studies,

17:23tell us what we missed.

17:24And it evolves in real time.

17:25- In any direction, the yes or the no.

17:27- Oh yeah, we specifically encourage,

17:29'cause look, the center of my research

17:31is that our gut feelings drive our reasoning.

17:34That was my dissertation, that was my early research.

17:37And so if Gene Twenge and I are committed to,

17:39but we're gonna obviously preferentially believe

17:41that these platforms are bad for kids,

17:43'cause we said so in our books.

17:44So we have confirmation bias,

17:47and I'm a devotee of John Stuart Mill,

17:49the only cure for confirmation bias

17:51is other people who have a different confirmation bias.

17:53So these documents evolve because critics then say,

17:55no, you missed this, or they say,

17:57you don't know what you're talking about.

17:58It's like, great, say so, tell us.

17:59So I put together this document,

18:02and I'm gonna put links to everything on my website.

18:05If listeners, viewers go to jonathanheit.com/socialmedia.

18:11It's a new page I just created.

18:13I'll put everything together in one place there,

18:15and we'll put those in the show notes.

18:17- Like links to this document,

18:19and other things like it that we're talking about.

18:21- That's right, exactly.

18:22So yeah, so the thing I wanna call attention to now

18:24is this document here with the title,

18:27Teen Mental Health is Plummeting,

18:29and Social Media is a Major Contributing Cause.

18:32So Ben Sass and Chris Coons are on the Judiciary Committee.

18:34They had a subcommittee hearing

18:36on Nate Priscilli's bill,

18:38Platform Accountability Transparency Act.

18:40So they asked me to testify on what do we know,

18:42what's going on with teen mental health?

18:44And so what I did was I put together everything I know

18:46with plenty of graphs to make these points.

18:49That first, what do we know about the crisis?

18:52Well, that the crisis is specific to mood disorders,

18:55not everything else.

18:56It's not just self-report, it's also behavioral data,

18:59because suicide and self-harm go skyrocketing after 2010.

19:02The increases are very large,

19:05and the crisis is gendered, and it's hit many countries.

19:08So I go through the data on that.

19:10So we have a pretty clear characterization,

19:12and nobody's disputed me on this part.

19:14- So can we just pause real quick,

19:16just so for people who are not aware.

19:17So self-report, just how you kind of collect data

19:20on this kind of thing.

19:21- Sure.

19:22- You have a self-report, a survey, you ask people--

19:26- Yeah, how anxious are you these days?

19:29- Yeah.

19:30- How many hours a week do you use social media?

19:31- That kind of stuff.

19:32And you do, it's maybe,

19:35you can collect large amounts of data that way,

19:38'cause you can ask a large number of people

19:40that kind of question.

19:41And but then there's, I forget the term you use,

19:43but more, so non-self-report data.

19:46- Behavioral data.

19:47- Behavioral data, that's right.

19:48Where you actually have self-harm and suicide numbers.

19:53- Exactly.

19:54So there are a lot of graphs like this.

19:55So this is from the National Survey on Drug Use and Health.

19:58So the federal government, and also Pew and Gallup,

20:01there are a lot of organizations

20:03that have been collecting survey data for decades.

20:05So this is a gold mine.

20:07And what you see on these graphs over and over again

20:09is relatively straight lines up until around 2010 or 2012.

20:12- And on the X-axis, we have time,

20:14years going from 2004 to 2020.

20:17And the Y-axis is the percent of US teens

20:20who had a major depression in the last year.

20:22- That's right.

20:23So when this data started coming out around,

20:24so Jean Twain's book, "I, Jen," 2017,

20:27a lot of people said, "Oh, she doesn't know

20:29"what she's talking about.

20:29"This is just self-report."

20:30Like, Gen Z, they're just really comfortable

20:32talking about this.

20:33This is a good thing.

20:34This isn't a real epidemic.

20:36And literally the day before my book with Greg was published,

20:39the day before, there was a psychiatrist in "New York Times"

20:42who had an op-ed saying, "Relax.

20:44"Smartphones are not ruining your kid's brain."

20:47And he said, "It's just self-report.

20:48"It's just that they're giving higher rates.

20:50"There's more diagnosis.

20:50"But underlying, there's no change."

20:52No, because it's theoretically possible,

20:56but all we have to do is look at the hospitalization data

20:59for self-harm and suicide, and we see the exact same trends.

21:03We see also a very sudden, big rise

21:06around between 2009 and 2012.

21:08You have an elbow, and then it goes up, up, up.

21:10So, and that is not self-report.

21:11Those are actual kids admitted to hospitals

21:13for cutting themselves.

21:15So we have a catastrophe, and this was all true before COVID.

21:18COVID made things worse, but we have to realize,

21:21you know, COVID's going away.

21:22Kids are back in school, but we're not gonna go back

21:25to where we were because this problem is not caused by COVID.

21:29What is it caused by?

21:31Well, just again, to just go through the point,

21:33then I'll stop.

21:34I just feel like I just really wanna get out the data

21:38to show that Mark is wrong. - This is amazing.

21:40- So first point, correlational studies

21:42consistently show a link.

21:43They almost all do, but it's not big.

21:45Equivalent to a correlation coefficient

21:47around 0.1, typically.

21:49That's the first point.

21:51The second point is that the correlation

21:55is actually much larger than for eating potatoes.

21:58So that famous line wasn't about social media use.

22:01That was about digital media use.

22:04That included watching Netflix,

22:05doing homework on everything.

22:07And so what they did is they looked at all screen use,

22:10and then they said, "This is correlated

22:12"with self-reports of depression, anxiety."

22:15Like, you know, 0.03, it's tiny.

22:17And they said that clearly in the paper,

22:20but the media has reported it as social media is 0.03,

22:24or tiny, and that's just not true.

22:26What I found digging into it,

22:28you don't know this until you look at the,

22:29there's more than 100 studies in the Google Doc.

22:32Once you dig in, what you see is,

22:34okay, you see a tiny correlation.

22:36What happens if we zoom in on just social media?

22:38It always gets bigger, often a lot bigger,

22:40two or three times bigger.

22:42What happens if we zoom in on girls and social media?

22:44It always gets bigger, often a lot bigger.

§04Transcript · 22:46–30:44

22:46And so what I think we can conclude,

22:48in fact, what one of the authors

22:49of the potato studies herself concludes,

22:52Amy Orban says, I think I have a quote from here,

22:55she reviewed a lot of studies,

22:56and she herself said that, quote,

22:59"The associations between social media use and wellbeing

23:02therefore range from about R equals 0.15 to R equals 0.10."

23:07So that's the range we're talking about.

23:09And that's for boys and girls together.

23:11And a lot of research, including hers and mine,

23:14show that girls, it's higher.

23:15So for girls, we're talking about correlations

23:17around 0.15 to 0.2, I believe.

23:19Gene Twenge and I found it's about 0.2 or 0.22.

23:22Now this might sound like an arcane social science debate,

23:24but people have to understand,

23:26public health correlations are almost never above 0.2.

23:29So the correlation of childhood exposure to lead

23:31and adult IQ, very serious problem, that's 0.09.

23:35Like the world's messy and our measurements are messy.

23:37And so if you find a consistent correlation of 0.15,

23:41like you would never let your kid do that thing.

23:43That actually is dangerous.

23:45And it can explain, when you multiply it

23:47over tens of millions of kids spending,

23:50you know, years of their lives,

23:51you actually can explain the mental health epidemic

23:54just from social media use.

23:56- Well, and then there's questions.

23:58By the way, this is really good to learn

24:00because I quit potatoes and it had no effect on me.

24:04And as a Russian, that was a big sacrifice.

24:06They're quite literal actually,

24:08because I'm mostly eating keto these days.

24:10But that's funny that they're actually

24:12literally called the potato studies.

24:14Okay, but given this,

24:17and there's a lot of fascinating data here,

24:19there's also a discussion of how to fix it.

24:23What are the aspects that if fixed

24:28would start to reverse some of these trends?

24:32So if we just linger on the Mark Zuckerberg statements.

24:37So first of all, do you think Mark is aware

24:40of some of these studies?

24:43So if you put yourself in the shoes of Mark Zuckerberg

24:48and the executives at Facebook and Twitter,

24:51how can you try to understand the studies?

24:53Like the Google Docs you put together

24:55to try to make decisions that fix things?

24:59Is there a stable science now

25:02that you can start to investigate?

25:03And also maybe if you can comment

25:06on the depth of data that's available,

25:08because ultimately, and this is something you argue,

25:11that the data should be more transparent,

25:14should be provided.

25:15But currently, if it's not,

25:18all you have is maybe some leaks of internal data.

25:22- That's right, that's right.

25:23And we could talk about the potential.

25:25You have to be very sort of objective

25:27about the potential bias in those kinds of leaks.

25:29You want to, it would be nice to have a non-leak data.

25:33Like--

25:35- Yeah, it'd be nice to be able to actually

25:36have academic researchers able to access

25:39in de-individuated, de-identified form

25:41the actual data on what kids are doing

25:44and how their mood changes.

25:45And when people commit suicide, what was happening before.

25:48And it'd be great to know that.

25:49We have no idea.

25:51- So how do we begin to fix social media, would you say?

25:55- Okay, so here's the most important thing to understand.

25:58In the social sciences, we say,

26:00is social media harmful to kids?

26:02That's a broad question.

26:03You can't answer that directly.

26:04You have to have much more specific questions.

26:06You have to operationalize it

26:08and have a theory of how it's harming kids.

26:11And so almost all of the research

26:13is done on what's called the dose response model.

26:16That is, everybody, including most of the researchers,

26:19are thinking about this like,

26:20let's treat this like sugar.

26:22You know, 'cause the data usually shows

26:23a little bit of social media use

26:24isn't correlated with harm, but a lot is.

26:26So, you know, think of it like sugar.

26:28And if kids have a lot of sugar, then it's bad.

26:31So how much is okay?

26:32But social media is not like sugar at all.

26:35It's not a dose response thing.

26:37It's a complete rewiring of childhood.

26:40So we evolved as a species in which kids play

26:43in mixed age groups.

26:44They learn the skills of adulthood.

26:46They're always playing and working

26:47and learning and doing errands.

26:48That's normal childhood.

26:49That's how you develop your brain.

26:50That's how you become a mature adult, until the 1990s.

26:53In the 1990s, we dropped all that.

26:55We said, it's too dangerous.

26:56If we let you outside, you'll be kidnapped.

26:58So we completely, we began rewiring childhood

27:00in the '90s before social media.

27:03And that's a big part of the story.

27:05I'm a big fan of Lenore Scanese,

27:07who wrote the book "Free-Range Kids."

27:08If there are any parents listening to this,

27:10please buy Lenore's book "Free-Range Kids,"

27:13and then go to letgrow.org.

27:15It's a nonprofit that Lenore and I started

27:18with Peter Gray and Daniel Shookman

27:21to help change the laws and the norms

27:24around letting kids out to play.

27:25They need free play.

27:26So that's the big picture.

27:28They need free play.

27:29And we started stopping that in the '90s

27:31that we reduced it.

27:32And then Gen Z, kids born in 1996,

27:35they're the first people in history

27:37to get on social media before puberty.

27:41Millennials didn't get it until they were in college.

27:43But Gen Z, they get it 'cause you can lie.

27:46You just lie about your age.

27:48So they really began to get on around 2009, 2010,

27:51and boom, two years later, they're depressed.

27:53It's not because they ate too much sugar necessarily.

27:56It's because even normal social interactions

27:59that kids had in the early 2000s, largely,

28:02well, they decline because now everything's

28:04through the phone.

28:05And that's what I'm trying to get across,

28:08that it's not just a dose response thing.

28:10It's imagine one middle school

28:13where everyone has an Instagram account

28:15and it's constant drama.

28:16Everyone's constantly checking and posting

28:18and worrying and imagine going through puberty that way

28:21versus imagine there was a policy, no phones in school.

28:24You have to check them in a locker.

28:26No one can have an Instagram account.

28:27All the parents are on board.

28:29Parents only let their kids have Instagram

28:31because the kid says everyone else has it.

28:33And we're stuck in a social dilemma.

28:35We're stuck in a trap.

28:36So what's the solution?

28:38Keep kids off until they're done with puberty.

28:40There's a new study actually by Amy Orban

28:42and Andy Shabilsky showing that the damage is greatest

28:45for girls between 11 and 13.

28:47So there is no way to make it safe for preteens

28:50or even 13, 14 year olds.

28:51We've gotta, kids should simply not be allowed

28:54on these business models where you're the product.

28:57They should not be allowed until you're 16.

28:59We need to raise the age and enforce it.

29:00That's the biggest thing.

29:01- So I think that's a really powerful solution,

29:03but it makes me wonder if there's other solutions

29:08like controlling the virality of bullying.

29:15Sort of if there's a way that's more productive

29:18to childhood to use social media.

29:21So of course one thing is putting your phone down,

29:24but first of all from the perspective

29:25of social media companies, it might be difficult

29:28to convince them to do so.

29:29And also for me as an adult who grew up

29:34without social media, social media is a source of joy.

29:39So I wonder if it's possible to design the mechanisms

29:43both challenge the ad driven model,

29:47but actually just technically the recommender system

29:49and how virality works on these platforms.

29:55If it's possible to design a platform

29:57that leads to growth, anti-fragility,

30:00but does not lead to depression, self-harm, and suicide.

30:05Like finding that balance and making that

30:08as the objective function, not engagement or--

30:12- Yeah, I don't think that can be done for kids.

30:15So I am very reluctant to tell adults what to do.

30:18I have a lot of libertarian friends

30:20and I would lose their friendship if I started saying,

30:22oh, it's bad for adults and we should stop adults

30:24from using it.

30:25But by the same token, I'm very reluctant

30:27to have Facebook and Instagram tell my kids

30:29what to do without me even knowing

30:31or without me having any ability to control it.

30:33As a parent, it's very hard to stop your kid.

30:35I have stopped my kids from getting on Instagram

30:38and that's caused some difficulties,

30:39but they also have thanked me

30:42'cause they see that it's stupid.

30:44They see that what the kids are really on it,

§05Transcript · 30:46–37:44

30:46what they post, they see that the culture of it

30:48is stupid, as they say.

30:50So I don't think there's a way to make it healthy for kids.

30:54I think there's one thing which is healthy for kids,

30:56which is free play.

30:57We already robbed them of most of it in the '90s.

30:59The more time they spend on their devices,

31:01the less they have free play.

31:03Video games is a kind of play.

31:04I'm not saying that these things are all bad,

31:06but 12 hours of video game play

31:08means you don't get any physical play.

31:10So anyway--

31:11- To me, physical play is the way

31:13to develop physical antifragility.

31:17- And especially social skills.

31:19Kids need huge amounts of conflict

31:21with no adult to supervise or mediate,

31:24and that's why we robbed them of.

31:25So anyway, we should move on

31:26'cause I get really into the evidence here

31:29because I think the story's actually quite clear now.

31:32There was a lot of ambiguity.

31:33There are conflicting studies,

31:34but when you look at it all together,

31:36the correlational studies are pretty clear

31:38and the effect sizes are coming in around 0.1 to 0.15,

31:41whether you call that a correlation coefficient or a beta.

31:43It's all standardized beta.

31:44It's all in that sort of range.

31:46There's also experimental evidence.

31:48We collect true experiments with random assignment

31:50and they mostly show an effect.

31:52And there's eyewitness testimony.

31:55With the kids themselves,

31:58you talk to girls and you poll them.

32:00Do you think overall Instagram

32:01is good for your mental health or bad for it?

32:04You're not gonna find a group saying,

32:05"Oh, it's wonderful.

32:05Oh yeah, yeah, Mark, you're right.

32:07It's mostly good."

32:08No, the girls themselves say,

32:09"This is the major reason."

32:10And I've got studies in the Google Doc

32:13where there've been surveys.

32:13What do you think is causing depression and anxiety?

32:16And the number one thing they say is social media.

32:19So there's multiple strands of evidence.

32:20- Do you think the recommendation is, as a parent,

32:25that teens should not use Instagram, Twitter?

32:30- Yes.

32:31- That's ultimately, maybe in the longterm,

32:33there's a more nuanced solution.

32:34- There's no way to make it safe.

32:36It's unsafe at any speed.

32:38I mean, it might be very difficult to make it safe.

32:41And then the short term,

32:42while we don't know how to make it safe, put down the phone.

32:45- Well, hold on a second.

32:47Play with other kids via a platform

32:50like Roblox or multiplayer video games.

32:52That's great.

32:52I have no beef with that.

32:54You focus on bullying before.

32:56That's one of five or seven different avenues of harm.

32:59The main one I think, which does in the girls,

33:02is not being bullied.

33:03It's living a life where you're thinking all the time

33:07about posting.

33:09Because once a girl starts posting,

33:11so it's bad enough that they're scrolling through,

33:12and this is, everyone comments on this,

33:14you're scrolling through

33:15and everyone's life looks better than yours

33:16because it's fake and all that you see

33:19are the ones the algorithm picked that were the night.

33:21Anyway, so the scrolling, I think, is bad for the girls.

33:24But I'm beginning to see, I can't prove this,

33:26but I'm beginning to see from talking to girls,

33:27from seeing how it's used, is once you start posting,

33:31that takes over your mind.

33:32And now you're, basically, you're no longer present.

33:34Because even if you're only spending

33:36five or six hours a day on Instagram,

33:39you're always thinking about it.

33:40And when you're in class, you're thinking about

33:43how are people responding to the post that I made

33:46between period, between classes.

33:48I mean, I do it.

33:49I try to stay off Twitter for a while,

33:51but now I've got this big article, I'm tweeting about it,

33:54and I can't help it.

33:55I check 20 times a day, I'll check.

33:56Like, what are people saying?

33:57What are people saying?

33:58This is terrible.

33:59And I'm a 58-year-old man.

34:01Imagine being a 12-year-old girl going through puberty,

34:04you're self-conscious about how you look.

34:06And I see some young women,

34:07I see some professional young women,

34:09women in their 20s and 30s,

34:10who are putting up sexy photos of themselves.

34:12Like, and this is so sad, so sad, don't be doing this.

34:16- Yeah, see, the thing where I disagree a little bit is,

34:20I agree with you in the short term,

34:22but in the long term,

34:23I feel it's the responsibility of social media,

34:26not in some kind of ethical way,

34:27not just in an ethical way,

34:29but it'll actually be good for the product

34:31and for the company to maximize the long-term happiness

34:34and well-being of the person.

34:36So not just engagement.

34:37So consider--

34:38- But the person is not the customer.

34:40So the thing is not to make them happy,

34:42it's to keep them on.

34:43- That's the way it is currently, that driven.

34:45- If we can get a business model, as you're saying,

34:47I'd be all for it.

34:48- And I think that's the way to make much more money.

34:51- So like a subscription model,

34:52where the money comes from paying?

34:54- It's not--

34:57- That would work, wouldn't it?

34:58That would help.

34:58- So subscription definitely would help,

34:59but I'm not sure it's so much,

35:01I mean, a lot of people say it's about the source of money,

35:05but I just think it's about

35:06the fundamental mission of the product.

35:09If you want people to really love a thing,

35:13I think that thing should maximize

35:17your long-term well-being.

35:19- It should, in theory, in morality land, it should.

35:23- I don't think it's just morality land.

35:25I think in business land, too.

35:26But that's maybe a discussion for another day.

35:29We're studying the reality of the way things currently are,

35:33and they are as they are, as the studies are highlighting.

35:36So let us go then in from the land of mental health

35:41for young people to the land of democracy.

35:45By the way, in these big umbrella areas,

35:49is there a connection, is there a correlation

35:52between the mental health of a human mind

35:55and the division of our political discourse?

35:59- Oh yes, oh yes.

36:00So our brains are structured

36:02to be really good at approach and avoid.

36:06So we have circuits, the front left circuit,

36:08this is an oversimplification, but there's some truth to it.

36:10There's what's called the behavioral activation system,

36:12front left cortex.

36:13It's all about approach, opportunity,

36:16kid in a candy store.

36:17And then the front right cortex has circuits

36:19specialized for withdrawal, fear, threat.

36:22And of course, students, I'm a college professor,

36:24and most of us think about our college days like,

36:27you know, yeah, we were anxious at times, but it was fun.

36:29And it was like, I can take all these courses,

36:32I can do all these clubs, I know all these people.

36:35Now imagine if in 2013, all of a sudden,

36:38students are coming in

36:39with their front right cortex hyperactivated,

36:41everything's a threat, everything is dangerous,

36:43there's not enough to go around.

36:45So the front right cortex puts us into

36:48what's called defend mode as opposed to discover mode.

36:51Now let's move up to adults.

36:53Imagine a large, diverse, secular, liberal democracy

36:57in which people are most of the time in discover mode.

37:00And you know, we have a problem,

37:01hmm, let's think how to solve it.

37:03And this is what de Tocqueville said about Americans,

37:05like, there's a problem, we get together,

37:07we figure out how to solve it.

37:08And he said, whereas in England and France,

37:10people would wait for the king to do it.

37:12But here, like, you know, let's roll up our sleeves,

37:14let's do it.

37:15That's the can-do mindset.

37:16That's front left cortex discover mode.

37:19If you have a national shift

37:21of people spending more time in defend mode,

37:24now you, so everything that comes up,

37:26whatever anyone says, you're not looking like,

37:27oh, is there something good about it?

37:29You're thinking, you know, how is this dangerous?

37:31How is this a threat?

37:31How is this violence?

37:32How can I attack this?

37:33How can I, you know, so if you imagine, you know,

37:35God up there with a little lever, like,

37:38okay, let's push everyone over into, you know,

37:40more into discover mode.

37:41And it's like joy breaks out, age of Aquarius.

37:44All right, let's shift them back into,

§06Transcript · 37:45–45:50

37:45let's put everyone in defend mode.

37:47And I can't think of a better way

37:48to put people in defend mode

37:49than to have them spend some time on partisan

37:52or political Twitter,

37:53where it's just a stream of horror stories,

37:55including videos about how horrible the other side is.

37:58And it's not just that they're bad people.

38:00It's that if they win this election,

38:02then we lose our country or then it's catastrophe.

38:06So Twitter, and again, we're not saying all of Twitter,

38:09you know, most people aren't on Twitter

38:11and people that are mostly not talking about politics,

38:14but the ones that are on talking about politics

38:16are flooding us with stuff.

38:18All the journalists see it.

38:20All the mainstream media is hugely influenced by Twitter.

38:23So if we put everyone,

38:26if there's more sort of anxiety, sense of threat,

38:29this colors everything.

38:30And then you're not, you know,

38:32the great thing about a democracy and especially,

38:36you know, a legislature that has some diversity in it,

38:39is that the art of politics is that you can grow the pie

38:42and then divide it.

38:43You don't just fight zero sum.

38:45You find ways that we can all get 60% of what we want.

38:48And that ends when everyone's anxious and angry.

38:52- So let's try to start to figure out who's to blame here.

38:57Is it the nature of social media?

38:59Is it the decision of the people

39:03at the heads of social media companies

39:04that they're making in the detailed engineering designs

39:07of the algorithm?

39:09Is it the users of social media that drive narratives

39:13like you mentioned journalists,

39:15that want to maximize drama in order to

39:18drive clicks to their off-site articles?

39:25Is it just human nature that loves drama,

39:30can't look away from an accident when you're driving by?

39:33Is there something to be said about,

39:35the reason I ask these questions is to see,

39:38can we start to figure out what the solution would be

39:42to alleviate, to deescalate the-

39:44- Not yet, not yet.

39:45Let's first, we have to understand,

39:47as we did on the teen mental health thing,

39:51okay, now let's lay out what is the problem?

39:53What's messing up our country?

39:54And then we can talk about solutions.

39:56So it's all the things you said,

39:58interacting in an interesting way.

40:00So human nature is tribal.

40:03We evolved for intergroup conflict.

40:05We love war.

40:07The first time my buddies and I played paintball,

40:10I was 29.

40:12And we were divided into teams with strangers

40:14to shoot guns at each other and kill each other.

40:16And we all, afterwards, it was like,

40:18oh my God, that was incredible.

40:21Like it really felt like we'd opened a room in our hearts

40:23that had never been opened.

40:25But as men, testosterone changes our brains and our bodies

40:29and activates the war stuff, like we've got more stuff.

40:31And that's why boys like certain team sports, it's play war.

40:35So that's who we are.

40:37It doesn't mean we're always tribal.

40:38It doesn't mean we're always wanting to fight.

40:40We're also really good at making peace and cooperation

40:42and finding deals.

40:43We're good at trade and exchange.

40:45So you want your country to,

40:48you want a society that has room for conflict,

40:52ideally over sports, like that's great.

40:53That's totally, it's not just harmless, it's actually good.

40:57But otherwise you want cooperation

40:58to generally prevail in the society.

41:00That's how you create prosperity and peace.

41:02And if you're gonna have a diverse democracy,

41:04you really better focus on cooperation,

41:06not on tribalism and division.

41:09And there's a wonderful book by Yasha Monk

41:11called "The Great Experiment"

41:12that talks about the difficulty of diversity and democracy

41:15and what we need to do to get this right

41:19and to get the benefits of diversity.

41:21So that's human nature.

41:22Now let's imagine that the technological environment

41:26makes it really easy for us to cooperate.

41:28Let's give everyone telephones and the postal service.

41:31Let's give them email, like, wow,

41:32we can do all these things together with people far away.

41:35It's amazing.

41:35Now, instead of that, let's give them a technology

41:38that encourages them to fight.

41:40So early Facebook and Twitter were generally lovely places.

41:44People old enough to remember, like, they were fun.

41:46There was a lot of humor.

41:48You didn't feel like you were gonna get your head blown off

41:50no matter what you said.

41:512007, 2008, 2009, it was still fun.

41:55These were nice places mostly.

41:57And like almost all the platforms start off as nice places.

42:00But, and this is the key thing in the article,

42:03in the Atlantic article on Babel, on after Babel.

42:06- The Atlantic article, by the way,

42:07is why the past 10 years of American life

42:09have been uniquely stupid.

42:11- Yeah, my title in the magazine was,

42:15After Babel, Adapting to a World We Can No Longer Share,

42:18is what I proposed.

42:19But they A/B tested, what's the title

42:21that gets the most clicks,

42:22and it was why the past 10 years have been unique.

42:24- So Babel, the Tower of Babel,

42:25is a driving metaphor in the piece.

42:29So first of all, what is it, what's the Tower of Babel?

42:31What's Babel, what are we talking about?

42:33- Okay, so the Tower of Babel is a story early in Genesis

42:36where the descendants of Noah are spreading out

42:39and repopulating the world.

42:40And they're on the plain of Shinar,

42:42and they say, "Let us build us a city with a tower

42:45to make a name for ourselves, lest we be scattered again."

42:48And so it's a very short story, there's not a lot in it,

42:50but it looks like they're saying,

42:52we don't want God to flood us again,

42:54let's build a city and a tower to reach the heavens.

42:57And God is offended by the hubris of these people

43:00acting again like gods.

43:02And he says, and here's the key line,

43:05he says, "Let us go down and confuse their language

43:10so that they may not understand one another."

43:13So in the story, he doesn't literally knock the tower over,

43:15but many of us have seen images or movie dramatizations

43:20where a great wind comes and the tower is knocked over

43:23and the people are left wandering amid the rubble,

43:26unable to talk to each other.

43:28So I've been grappling, I've been trying to say,

43:30what the hell happened to our society?

43:33Beginning in 2014, what the hell is happening

43:35to universities?

43:36And then it spread out from universities,

43:38it hit journalism, the arts, and now it's all over companies.

43:41What the hell happened to us?

43:44And it wasn't until I reread the Babel story

43:46a couple of years ago that I thought,

43:47whoa, this is it, this is the metaphor.

43:51Because I'd been thinking about tribalism

43:53and left-right battles and war,

43:55and that's easy to think about.

43:57But Babel isn't like, and God said,

44:00"Let half of the people hate the other half."

44:01No, it wasn't that.

44:02It's God said, "Let us confuse their language

44:05"that they, none of them can understand each other

44:07"ever again, or at least for a while."

44:09So it's a story about fragmentation.

44:12And that's what's unique about our time.

44:14So Meta or Facebook wrote a rebuttal to my article.

44:19They disputed what I said, and one of their arguments was,

44:23oh, but polarization goes back way before social media

44:27and it was happening in the '90s.

44:29And they're right, it does.

44:31And I did say that, but I should have said it more clearly

44:33with more examples.

44:34But here's the new thing.

44:36Even though left and right were beginning

44:38to hate each other more,

44:39we weren't afraid of the person next to us.

44:42We weren't afraid of each other.

44:43Cable TV, Fox News, whatever you want to point to

44:47about increasing polarization,

44:48it didn't make me afraid of my students.

44:50And that was new in around 2014, 2015.

44:53We started hearing, getting articles,

44:55I'm a liberal professor and my liberal students frightened me.

44:58It was in Vox in 2015.

45:00And that was after Greg and I had turned in

45:02the draft of our first draft of our coddling article.

45:05And surveys show over and over again,

45:07students are not as afraid of their professors,

45:09they're actually afraid of other students.

45:11Most students are lovely.

45:12It's not like the whole generation has lost their minds.

45:15What happens, a small number,

45:17a small number are adept at using social media

45:22to destroy anyone that they think

45:25they can get credit for destroying.

45:27And the bizarre thing is it's never,

45:30it's rarely about what ideas you express.

45:31It's usually about a word, like he used this word,

45:35or this was insensitive,

45:36or I can link this word to that word.

45:38So they don't even engage with ideas and arguments.

45:42It's a real sort of gotcha, prosecutable,

45:45it's like a witch trial mindset.

45:47- So the unique thing here,

45:50there's something about social media in those years

§07Transcript · 45:53–53:43

45:53that a small number of people

45:54can sort of be catalysts for this division.

45:56They can start the viral wave

45:58that leads to a division that's different

46:00than the kind of division we saw before.

46:02- It's a little different than a viral wave.

46:04Once you get some people

46:05who can use social media to intimidate,

46:08you get a sudden phase shift.

46:10You get a big change in the dynamics of groups.

46:12And that's the heart of the article.

46:13This isn't just another article

46:15about how social media is polarizing us

46:16and destroying democracy.

46:18The heart of the article is an analysis

46:21of what makes groups smart and what makes them stupid.

46:24And so because, as we said earlier,

46:27my own research is on post-hoc reasoning,

46:30post-hoc justification, rationalization.

46:32The only cure for that is other people

46:33who don't share your biases.

46:35And so if you have an academic debate,

46:37as like the one I'm having with these other researchers

46:40over social media, I write something, they write something,

46:43I have to take account of their arguments

46:45and they have to take account of mine.

46:46When the academic world works,

46:48it's because it puts us together

46:49in ways that things cancel out.

46:51That's what makes universities smart.

46:53It's what makes them generators of knowledge.

46:55Unless we stop dissent, what if we say,

46:59on these topics, there can be no dissent.

47:01And if anyone says otherwise,

47:02if any academic comes up with research that says otherwise,

47:05we're gonna destroy them.

47:06And if any academic even tweets a study

47:10contradicting what is the official word,

47:13we're gonna destroy them.

47:14And that was the famous case of David Shore,

47:16who in the days after George Floyd was killed

47:19and there were protests, and the question is,

47:21are these protests gonna be productive?

47:23Are they gonna backfire?

47:24Now, most of them were peaceful, but some were violent.

47:27And he tweeted a study, he just simply tweeted a study

47:30done by an African-American,

47:32I think sociologist at Princeton, Omar Wasow.

47:35And Wasow's study showed that when you look back

47:38at the '60s, you see that where there were violent protests,

47:40it tended to backfire, peaceful protests tend to work.

47:43And so he simply tweeted that study.

47:46And there was a Twitter mob after him,

47:48this was insensitive, this was anti-black,

47:51I think he was accused of,

47:53and he was fired within a day or two.

47:55So this is the kind of dynamic.

47:56This is not caused by cable TV.

47:58This is not caused, this is something new.

48:00- Can I, just on a small tangent there,

48:04in that situation, because it happens time and time again,

48:06you highlight in your current work,

48:08but also in the coddling of the American mind,

48:11is the blame on the mob, the mechanisms that enables the mob

48:17or the people that do the firing?

48:19The administration does the firing.

48:21- Yeah, it's all of them.

48:22- Well, can I, I sometimes feel

48:26that we don't put enough blame

48:28on the people that do the firing.

48:30Which is, that feels like,

48:33in the long arc of human history,

48:36that is the place for courage and for ideals, right?

48:40That's where it stops.

48:41That's where the buck stops.

48:43So there's going to be new mechanisms for mobs

48:46and all that kind of stuff.

48:47There's going to be tribalism.

48:49But at the end of the day,

48:50that's what it means to be a leader,

48:52is to stop the mob at the door.

48:56- But I'm a social psychologist,

48:57which means I look at the social forces that work on people.

49:00And if you show me a situation

49:02in which 95% of the people behave one way,

49:05and it's a way that we find surprising and shameful,

49:08I'm not going to say, wow, 95% of the people are shameful.

49:11I'm going to say, wow, what a powerful situation.

49:14We've got to change that situation.

49:16So that's what I think is happening here,

49:17because there are hardly any in the first few years,

49:20you know, it began around 2018, 2019,

49:22it really enters the corporate world.

49:24There are hardly any leaders who stood up against it.

49:26But I've talked to a lot, and it's always the same thing.

49:29You have these, you know, people in their,

49:33usually in their 50s or 60s,

49:35generally they're progressive or on the left.

49:37They're accused of things by their young employees.

49:40They don't have the vocabulary to stand up to it.

49:43And they give in very quickly.

49:45And because it happens over and over again,

49:47and there's only a few examples of university presidents

49:49who said like, no, we're not going to stop this talk

49:52just because you're freaking out.

49:53No, you know, we're not going to fire this professor

49:55because he wrote a paper that you don't like.

49:59There are so few examples,

50:01I have to include that the situational forces are so strong.

50:04Now, I think we are seeing,

50:06we are seeing a reversal in the last few weeks or months.

50:10A clear sign of that is that the New York Times

50:12actually came out with an editorial

50:14from the editorial board

50:16saying that free speech is important.

50:18Now that's amazing that the Times had the guts

50:21to stand up for free speech because, you know,

50:24they're the people, well,

50:27what's been happening with the Times

50:28is that they've allowed Twitter

50:29to become the editorial board.

50:31Twitter has control over the New York Times

50:33and the New York Times literally will change papers.

50:36I have an essay in Politico with Nadine Strassen,

50:39Steve Pinker and Pamela Peresky

50:41on how the New York Times

50:44retracted and changed an editorial by Brett Stevens.

50:48And they did it in a sneaky way and they lied about it.

50:50And they did this out of fear because he mentioned IQ.

50:53He mentioned IQ and Jews.

50:55And then he went on to say,

50:57it probably isn't a genetic thing,

50:58it's probably cultural, but he mentioned it.

51:00And the New York Times, I mean, they were really cowardly.

51:03Now, I think they, from what I hear,

51:05they know that they were cowardly.

51:07They know that they should not have fired James Bennett.

51:10They know that they gave in to the mob.

51:12And that's why they're now poking their head up

51:13above the parapet and they're saying,

51:15oh, we think that free speech is important.

51:16And then of course they got their heads blown off

51:18'cause Twitter reacted like, how dare you say this?

51:20Are you saying racist speech is okay?

51:22But they didn't back down.

51:23They didn't retract it.

51:24They didn't apologize for defending free speech.

51:27So I think the Times might be coming back.

51:30- Can I ask you an opinion on something here?

51:32What, in terms of the Times coming back,

51:34in terms of Twitter being the editorial board

51:38for the prestigious journalistic organizations,

51:43what's the importance of the role of Mr. Elon Musk in this?

51:48So, you know, it's all fun and games,

51:52but here's a human who tweets about the importance

51:55of freedom of speech and buys Twitter.

51:59What are your thoughts on the influence,

52:02the positive and the negative possible consequences

52:05of this particular action?

52:07- So, you know, if he is gonna succeed

52:09and if he's gonna be one of the major reasons

52:11why we decarbonize quickly and why we get to Mars,

52:14then I'm willing to cut him a lot of slack.

52:17So I have an overall positive view of him.

52:19Now where I'm concerned and where I'm critical

52:22is we're in the middle of a raging culture war

52:25and this culture war is making our institutions stupid.

52:28It's making them fail.

52:30This culture war, I think, could destroy our country.

52:32And by destroy, I mean we could descend

52:34into constant constitutional crises, a lot more violence.

52:38You know, not that we're gonna disappear,

52:39not that we're gonna kill each other,

52:40but I think there will be a lot more violence.

52:42So we're in the middle of this raging culture war.

52:45It's possibly turning to violence.

52:48You need to not add fuel to the fire.

52:51And the fact that he declared

52:53that he's gonna be a Republican

52:54and the Democrats are the bad party.

52:56And, you know, as an individual citizen,

52:59he's entitled to his opinion, of course,

53:01but as an influential citizen,

53:03he should at least be thoughtful.

53:06And more importantly,

53:10companies need and I think would benefit

53:14from a Geneva Convention for the culture war

53:16in which, 'cause they're all being damaged

53:20by the culture war coming to the companies.

53:22What we need to get to, I hope,

53:24is a place where companies do,

53:27they have strong ethical obligations

53:30about the effects that they cause,

53:31about how they treat their employees,

53:32about their supply chain.

53:33They have strong ethical obligations,

53:35but they should not be weighing in on culture war issues.

53:39- Well, if I can read the exact tweet,

53:41'cause part of the tweet I like,

53:43he said, "In the past, I voted Democrat

§08Transcript · 53:45–1:01:34

53:45"because they were mostly the kindness party,

53:50"but they have become the party of division and hate,

53:53"so I can no longer support them and will vote Republican."

53:58And then he finishes with,

53:59"Now watch their dirty tricks campaign against me unfold."

54:03Okay.

54:04- What do you make of that?

54:05Like, what do you think he was thinking

54:07that he came out so blatantly as a partisan?

54:10- Because he's probably communicating with the board,

54:13with the people inside Twitter,

54:14and he's clearly seeing the lean.

54:16And he's responding to that lean.

54:18He's also opening the door to the potential,

54:23bringing back the former president onto the platform,

54:27and also bringing back,

54:29which he's probably looking at the numbers

54:31of the people who are behind Truth Social,

54:34saying that, okay,

54:35it seems that there's a strong lean in Twitter

54:39in terms of the left.

54:41And in fact, from what I see,

54:45it seems like the current operation of Twitter

54:49is the extremes of the left get outraged by something,

54:54and the extremes of the right point out

54:58how the left is ridiculous.

55:00Like, that seems to be the mechanism.

55:02And that's the source of the drama,

55:07and then the left gets very mad at the right

55:09that points out the ridiculousness,

55:11and there's this vicious kind of cycle.

55:13- That's the polarization cycle.

55:14That's what we're in.

55:15- There's something that happened here

55:17that there's a shift where,

55:19there's a decline, I would say,

55:20in both parties towards being shitty.

55:23- Okay, but look,

55:23with everything with the parties, that's not the issue.

55:26The issue is, should the most important CEO in America,

55:29the CEO of some of our biggest and most important companies,

55:32so let's imagine five years from now,

55:35two different worlds.

55:36In one world, the CEO of every Fortune 500 company has said,

55:41I'm a Republican because I hate those douchebags,

55:44or I'm a Democrat because I hate those Nazi racists.

55:47That's one world where everybody,

55:48everybody puts up a thing in their window,

55:50everybody, it's culture war everywhere, all the time,

55:5324 hours a day.

55:54You pick a doctor based on whether he's red or blue.

55:56Everything is culture war.

55:57That's one possible future, which we're headed towards.

56:00The other is, we say, you know what?

56:02Political conflict should be confined to political spaces.

56:05There is a room for protest,

56:06but you don't go protesting at people's private homes.

56:08You don't go threatening their children.

56:09You don't go doxing them.

56:11We have to have channels

56:12that are not culture war all the time.

56:14When you go shopping, when you go to a restaurant,

56:16you shouldn't be yelled at and screamed at.

56:18When you buy a product,

56:19you should be able to buy products from an excellent company.

56:21You shouldn't have to always think, what's the CEO?

56:23What is the, I mean, what an insane world,

56:25but that's where we're heading.

56:25So I think that Elon did a really bad thing

56:29in launching that tweet.

56:31That was, I think, really throwing fuel on a fire

56:33and setting a norm in which businesses

56:36are gonna get even more politicized than they are.

56:39- And you're saying specifically the problem

56:41was that he picked the side.

56:43- As the head of, yes, as the CEO,

56:45as the head of several major companies,

56:48of course we can find out what his views are.

56:50You know, it's not like it's, I mean,

56:52actually with him, it's maybe hard to know,

56:53but it's not that a CEO can't be a partisan or have views,

56:58but to publicly declare it in that way,

57:00in such a really insulting way,

57:03this is throwing fuel on the fire

57:05and it's setting a precedent that corporations

57:07are major players in the culture war.

57:09And I'm trying to reverse that.

57:10We've got to pull back from that.

57:11- Let me play devil's advocate here.

57:13So, 'cause I've gotten a chance to interact

57:15with quite a few CEOs,

57:17there is also a value for authenticity.

57:22So I'm guessing this was written while sitting

57:24on the toilet and I could see in a day from now

57:30saying, "LOL, just kidding."

57:32There's a humor, there's a lightness,

57:35there's a chaos element, and that's, chaos is not--

57:39- Yeah, that's not what we need right now.

57:40We don't need more chaos.

57:41- Well, so yes, there's a balance here.

57:45The chaos isn't engineered chaos,

57:47it's really authentically who he is.

57:50And I would like to say that there's--

57:51- I agree with that.

57:52- That's a trade-off, because if you become a politician,

57:55so there's a trade-off between, in this case,

57:58maybe authenticity and civility, maybe,

58:01like being calculating about the impact you have

58:06with your words versus just being yourself.

58:09And I'm not sure calculating is also a slippery slope.

58:13Both are slippery slopes, you have to be careful.

58:15- So when we have conversations in a vacuum

58:18and we just say like, "What should a person do?"

58:20Those are very hard, but our world is actually structured

58:23into domains and institutions.

58:25And if it's just like, "Oh, talking here among our friends,

58:29"like we should be authentic," sure.

58:31But the CEO of a company has fiduciary duties,

58:34legal fiduciary duties to the company,

58:36he owes loyalty to the company.

58:38And if he is using the company for his own political gain

58:42or other purposes or social standing,

58:44that's a violation of his fiduciary duty to the company.

58:48Now there's debate among scholars

58:49whether your fiduciary duty is to the shareholders,

58:51I don't think it's the shareholders.

58:53I think many legal experts say

58:55the company's a legal person,

58:57you have duties to the company,

58:58employees owe a duty to the company.

59:00So he's got those duties and I think he,

59:03you can say he's being authentic,

59:05but he's also violating those duties.

59:06So it's not necessarily he's violating a law by doing it,

59:10but he certainly is shredding any notion

59:12of professional ethics around leadership

59:14of a company in the modern age.

59:16- I think you have to take it in the full context

59:18because you see that he's not being a political player,

59:23he's just saying quit being douchey.

59:24- Suppose the CEO of Ford says,

59:27"You know what, let's pick a group."

59:30Well, I shouldn't do a racial group

59:32'cause that would be different.

59:32Let's just say, "You know what,

59:35"left-handed people are douchebags, I hate them."

59:37Like, why would you say that?

59:38Like, why would you drag away left-handed people?

59:40- What you said now is not either funny or like-hearted

59:45because I hate them, it wasn't funny.

59:47I'm not picking on you, I'm saying that statement.

59:49Words matter, there's a lightness to the statement

59:53in the full context.

59:54If you look at the timeline of the man,

59:57there's ridiculous memes and there's nonstop jokes

60:01that my big problem with the CEO of Ford

60:03is there's never any of that.

60:04Not only is there any of that,

60:06there's not a celebration of the beauty of the engineering

60:09of the different products.

60:10It's all political speak,

60:12channeled through multiple meetings of PR.

60:15There's levels upon levels upon levels

60:18where you think that it's really not authentic.

60:22And there, you're actually, by being polite,

60:26by being civil, you're actually playing politics

60:29because all of your actual political decision-making

60:34is done in the back channels.

60:36That's obvious.

60:37Here, here's a human being authentic

60:41and actually struggling with some of the ideas

60:43and having fun with it.

60:45I think this lightness represents the kind of positivity

60:50that we should be striving for.

60:52It's funny to say that

60:53because you're looking at these statements

60:56and they seem negative,

60:57but in the full context of social media,

60:59I don't know if they are.

61:01- But look at what you just said, in the full context.

61:03You're taking his tweets in context.

61:05You know who doesn't do that?

61:07Twitter.

61:07Like, that's the Twitter--

61:09- Well, that's the problem you're highlighting.

61:10- The rule of Twitter is there is no context.

61:12Everything is taken in the maximum possible way.

61:14There is no context.

61:14- Oh, you're saying--

61:15- So this is not like,

61:16you know, yes, I wish we did take people in context.

61:20I wish we lived in that world.

61:21But now that we have Twitter and Facebook,

61:22we don't live in that world anymore.

61:23- So you're saying it is a bit of responsibility

61:26for people with a large platform

61:28to consider the fact that

61:30there is the fundamental mechanism of Twitter

61:32where people don't give you the benefit of the doubt.

61:34- Well, I don't wanna hang it on large platform

§09Transcript · 1:01:36–1:09:52

61:36because then that's what a lot of people say.

61:38Like, well, you know, she shouldn't say that

61:40because she has a large platform

61:41and she should say things that agree with my politics.

61:43I don't wanna hang it on large platform.

61:44I wanna hang it on CEO of a company.

61:47CEOs of a company have duties and responsibilities.

61:50And, you know, Scott Galloway,

61:52I think is very clear about this.

61:53You know, he criticized Elon a lot

61:54as being a really bad role model for young men.

61:57Young men need role models

61:59and he is a very appealing, attractive role model.

62:01- So I agree with you,

62:02but in terms of being a role model,

62:04I think, I don't wanna put a responsibility on people,

62:08but yes, he could be a much, much better role model.

62:11There's--

62:12- You can't insult sitting senators by calling them old.

62:14I mean, that's, you know.

62:15- Yeah, I won't do a both-side-ism of like,

62:19well, those senators can be assholes too.

62:21- Yeah, yes, yes. - But that's fair enough.

62:23Respond intelligently, as I tweeted,

62:25to unintelligent treatment, yes, yes.

62:29So the reason I like, and he's now a friend,

62:31the reason I like Elon is because of the engineering,

62:34because of the work he does.

62:35- No, I admire him enormously for that.

62:37- But what I admire on the Twitter side is the authenticity

62:41because I've been a little bit jaded and worn out

62:43by people who have built up walls,

62:48people in the position of power,

62:49the CEOs and the politicians who built up walls

62:51and you don't see the real person.

62:53That's one of the reasons I love long-form podcasting,

62:55is especially if you talk more than 10 minutes,

62:58it's hard to have a wall up.

62:59It all kind of crumbles away.

63:01So I don't know, but yes, yes, you're right.

63:03That is a step backwards to say,

63:10at least to me, the biggest problem is to pick sides,

63:12to say I'm not going to vote this way or that way.

63:16That's, like leave that to the politicians.

63:21You have much, like the importance of social media

63:26is far bigger than the bickering,

63:30the short-term bickering of any one political party.

63:33It's a platform where we make progress,

63:35where we develop ideas through sort of rigorous discourse,

63:40all those kinds of things.

63:43- So, okay, so here's an idea about social media

63:45developed through social media from Elon,

63:48which is everyone freaks out because they think either,

63:52oh, he's going to do less content moderations.

63:54The left is freaking out

63:55because they want more content moderation.

63:57The right is celebrating

63:58because they think the people doing the content moderation

63:59are on the left.

64:01But there was one, I think it was a tweet,

64:04where he said like three things

64:05he was going to do to make it better.

64:06And it was, I would defeat the bots or something.

64:08But he said, authenticate all humans.

64:11And this is a hugely important statement.

64:13And it's pretty powerful that this guy

64:15can put three words in a tweet.

64:17And actually, I think this could change the world.

64:19Even if the bid fails, the fact that Elon said that,

64:22that he thinks we need to authenticate all humans is huge.

64:26Because now we're talking about solutions here.

64:29What can we do to make social media a better place

64:32for democracy,

64:33a place that actually makes democracy better?

64:35As Tristan Harris has pointed out,

64:38social media and digital technology,

64:39the Chinese are using it really skillfully

64:41to make a better authoritarian nation.

64:44And by better, I don't mean morally better.

64:45I mean like more stable, successful.

64:48Whereas we're using it to make ourselves weaker,

64:51more fragmented, and more insane.

64:53So we're on the way down.

64:55We're in big trouble.

64:57And all the argument is about content moderation.

65:01And what we learned from Francis Haugen

65:02is that what, five or 10% of what they might call

65:06hate speech gets caught, 1% of violence and intimidation.

65:09Content moderation, even if we do a lot more of it,

65:11isn't gonna make a big difference.

65:13All the powers and the dynamics changes to the architecture.

65:18And as I said in my Atlantic article,

65:20what are the reforms that would matter for social media?

65:22And the number one thing I said,

65:23the number one thing I believe is user authentication

65:27or user verification.

65:28And people freak out and they say like,

65:30oh, but we need anonymous.

65:31Like, yeah, fine, you can be anonymous.

65:33But what I think needs to be done is

65:36anyone can open an account on Twitter, Facebook, whatever,

65:39as long as you're over 16, and that's another piece.

65:41Once you're 16 or 18, at a certain age,

65:44you can be treated like an adult.

65:46You can open an account and you can look, you can read,

65:50and you can make up whatever fake name you want.

65:52But if you want to post,

65:54if you want the viral amplification

65:57on a company that has section 230 protection from lawsuits,

66:00which is a very special privilege,

66:01I understand the need for it,

66:03but it's an incredibly powerful privilege

66:05to protect them from lawsuits.

66:07If you want to be able to post on platforms that,

66:10as we'll get to in the Google Doc,

66:13there's a lot of evidence that they are undermining

66:15and damaging democracy.

66:16Then the company has this minimal responsibility

66:20it has to meet.

66:21Banks have know your customer laws.

66:23You can't just walk up to a bank with a bag of money

66:25that you stole and say, here, deposit this for me.

66:27My name's John Smith.

66:29You have to actually show who you are.

66:31And the bank isn't gonna announce who you are publicly,

66:33but you have to, if they're gonna do business with you,

66:35they need to know you're a real person, not a criminal.

66:39And so there's a lot of schemes for how to do this.

66:42There's multiple levels.

66:44People don't seem to understand this.

66:45Level zero of authentication is nothing.

66:48That's what we have now.

66:49Level one, this might be what Elon meant,

66:51authenticate all humans,

66:53meaning you have to at least pass a CAPTCHA or some test

66:55to show you're not a bot.

66:57There's no identity, there's nothing.

66:58Just something that, you know,

67:00it's a constant cat and mouse struggle between bots.

67:03So we try to just filter out pure bots.

67:06The next level up, there are a variety of schemes

67:08that allow you to authenticate identity

67:11in ways that are not traceable or kept.

67:13So some, whether you show an ID, whether you use biometric,

67:17whether you have something on the blockchain

67:19that establishes identity, whether it's linked to a phone,

67:22whatever it is, there are multiple schemes now

67:24that companies have figured out for how to do this.

67:27And so if you did that, then in order to get an account

67:30where you have posting privileges on Facebook or Twitter

67:33or TikTok or whatever, you have to at least do that.

67:36And if you do that, you know,

67:39now the other people are real humans too.

67:44And suddenly our public square's a lot nicer

67:46'cause you don't have bots swarming around.

67:48This would also cut down on trolls.

67:49You still have trolls who use their real name,

67:51but this would just make it a little scarier for trolls.

67:54Some men turn into complete assholes.

67:57They can be very polite in real life,

67:59but some men, as soon as they have the anonymity,

68:01they start using racial slurs.

68:03They're horrible.

68:04One troll can ruin thousands of people's day.

68:08- You know, I'm somebody who believes in free speech.

68:12And so there's been a lot of discussions about this.

68:15And we'll ask you some questions about this too.

68:18But there is, the tension there is the power of a troll

68:26to ruin the party.

68:27- Yeah, that's right.

68:28- So like this idea of free speech,

68:31boy, do you have to also consider

68:35if you wanna have a private party and enjoy your time,

68:39challenging, lots of disagreement,

68:43debate, all that kind of stuff, but fun.

68:45No like annoying person screaming,

68:48just not disagreeing, but just like spilling

68:52like the drinks all over the place.

68:55Yeah, all that kind of stuff.

68:57So see, you're saying it's a step in the right direction

69:02to at least verify the humanness of a person

69:07while maintaining anonymity.

69:08So that's one step, but the further step,

69:12that's maybe doesn't go all the way

69:15because you can still figure out ways

69:17to create multiple accounts and you can--

69:19- But it's a lot harder.

69:19So actually there's a lot of ways to do this.

69:21There's a lot of creativity out there

69:23about solving this problem.

69:24So if you go to the social media and political dysfunction,

69:27Google Doc that I created with Chris Bale,

69:29and then you go to section 11,

69:32proposals for improving social media.

69:35So we're collecting there now some of the ideas

69:39for how to do user authentication.

69:41And so one is WorldCoin, there's one human-id.org.

69:46This is a new organization created by an NYU Stern student

69:50who just came into my office last week,

69:52working with some other people.

§10Transcript · 1:09:54–1:18:01

69:54And what they do here is they have a method

69:56of identity verification that is keyed to your phone.

70:00So you do have to have a phone number.

70:03And of course you can buy seven different phone numbers

70:06if you want, but it's gonna be about 20 or $30 a month.

70:08So nobody's gonna buy a thousand phones.

70:11So yeah, you don't have just one unique ID,

70:15but most people do and nobody has a thousand.

70:18So just things like this

70:20that would make an enormous difference.

70:22So here's the way that I think about it.

70:24Imagine a public square in which the incentives

70:27are to be an asshole,

70:28that the more you kick people in the shins

70:30and spit on them and throw things at them,

70:32the more people applaud you.

70:34Okay, so that's the public square we have now.

70:37Not for most people, but as you said,

70:39just one troll can ruin it for everybody.

70:41If there's a thousand of us in the public square

70:43and 10 are incentivized to kick us and throw shit at us,

70:48it's no fun to be in that public square.

70:50So right now, I think Twitter in particular

70:52is making our public square much worse.

70:54It's making our democracy much weaker,

70:56much more divided, it's bringing us down.

70:59Imagine if we changed the incentives.

71:01Imagine if the incentive was to be constructive.

71:04And so this is an idea that I've been kicking around.

71:05I talked about it with Reid Hoffman last week

71:07and he seemed to think it's a good idea.

71:09And it would be very easy to,

71:14rather than trying to focus on posts,

71:16what post is fake or whatever,

71:19focus on users, what users are incredibly aggressive.

71:22And so people just use a lot of

71:24obscenity and exclamation points.

71:27AI could easily code nastiness or just aggression, hostility.

71:30And imagine if every user is rated

71:33on a one to five scale for that.

71:35And the default, when you open an account

71:37on Twitter or Facebook, the default is four.

71:40You will see everybody who's a four and below,

71:43but you won't even see the people who are fives

71:45and they don't get to see you.

71:46So they can say what they want, free speech.

71:49We're not censoring them, they can say what they want.

71:52But now there's actually an incentive to not be an asshole.

71:55'Cause the more of an asshole you are,

71:57the more people block you out.

71:59So imagine our country goes in two directions.

72:01In one, things continue to deteriorate

72:03and we have no way to have a public square

72:05in which we could actually talk about things.

72:06And in the other, we actually try to disincentivize

72:10being an asshole and encourage being constructive.

72:13What do you think?

72:14- Well, this is because I'm an AI person.

72:17And I very much, ever since I talked to Jack

72:20about the health of conversation,

72:22I've been looking at a lot of the machine learning models

72:23involved and I believe that the nastiness classification

72:27is a difficult problem automatically.

72:29- I'm sure it is.

72:30- So I personally believe in crowdsourced nastiness labeling.

72:35But in an objective way where it doesn't become

72:39viral mob cancellation type of dynamics.

72:43But more sort of objectively,

72:46is this a shitty, almost out of context,

72:49with only local context.

72:52Is this a shitty thing to say at this moment?

72:54Because here's the thing.

72:55- Well, wait, no, but we don't care about individual posts.

72:57- No, no, but--

72:58- All that matters is the average.

72:59- The posts make the man.

73:01- They do, but the point is,

73:02as long as we're talking about averages here,

73:04one person has a misclassified post, it doesn't matter.

73:07- Right, right, right.

73:08Yeah, yeah, but you need to classify posts

73:10in order to build up the average.

73:12That's what I mean.

73:13And so I really like that idea,

73:16the high level idea of incentivizing people

73:20to be less shitty.

73:22'Cause that's what, we have that incentive in real life.

73:25- Yeah, that's right.

73:26- It's actually really painful to be a full-time asshole,

73:29I think, in physical reality.

73:30- That's right, you'd be cut off.

73:32- It should be also pain to be an asshole on the internet.

73:36There could be different mechanisms for that.

73:38I wish AI was there, machine learning models were there.

73:41They just aren't yet.

73:42But how about we have,

73:44so one track is we have AI machine learning models

73:46and they render a verdict.

73:48Another class is crowdsourcing.

73:49You get, and then whenever the two disagree,

73:52you have staff at Twitter or whatever,

73:55they look at it and they say, "What's going on here?"

73:57And that way you can refine both the AI

73:59and you can refine whatever the algorithms are

74:01for the crowdsourcing.

74:02Because of course that can be gamed

74:03and people can only, "Hey, let's all rate this guy

74:05as really aggressive."

74:06So you wouldn't want just to rely on one single track.

74:09But if you have two tracks, I think you could do it.

74:12- What do you think about this word misinformation

74:15that maybe connects to our two discussions now?

74:18So one is the discussion of social media and democracy.

74:23And then the other is the coddling of the American mind.

74:27I've seen the word misinformation misused

74:31or used as a bullying word, like racism and so on,

74:35which are important concepts to identify,

74:41but they're nevertheless instead overused.

74:45Does that worry you?

74:46Because that seems to be the mechanism

74:49from inside Twitter, from inside Facebook,

74:52to label information you don't like

74:54versus information that's actually

74:58fundamentally harmful to society.

75:00- So I think there is a meaning of disinformation

75:03that is very useful and helpful,

75:06which is when you have a concerted campaign

75:09by Russian agents to plant a story and spread it.

75:14And they've been doing that since the '50s or '40s even.

75:17- That's what this podcast actually is.

75:19- Is what? (laughs)

75:21- It's a disinformation campaign by the Russians.

75:21- Yeah, you seem really Soviet to me, buddy.

75:24- It's subtle, it's between the lines.

75:28Okay, I'm sorry.

75:29- So I think to the extent that there are campaigns

75:33by either foreign agents or just by

75:36the Republican or Democratic parties,

75:38there have been examples of that,

75:39there are all kinds of concerted campaigns

75:43that are intending to confuse or spread lies.

75:48This is the Soviet, the firehose of falsehood tactic.

75:52So it's very useful for that.

75:53All the companies need to have pretty large staffs,

75:56I think, to deal with that,

75:57'cause that will always be there.

75:58And that is really bad for our country.

76:00So Renee Duresta is just brilliant on this.

76:03Reading her work has really frightened me

76:05and opened my eyes about how easy it is

76:07to manipulate and spread misinformation

76:12and especially polarization.

76:14The Russians have been trying since the '50s,

76:17they would come to America and they would do hate crimes.

76:19They would spray swastikas in synagogues

76:21to make, and they spray anti-blackslurs.

76:24They try to make Americans feel

76:25that they're as divided as possible.

76:27Most of the debate nowadays, however, is not that.

76:31It seems to be people are talking about

76:32what the other side is saying.

76:34So if you're on the right,

76:37then you're very conscious of the times when,

76:39well, the left wouldn't let us even say,

76:42could COVID be from a lab?

76:44They would, you literally would get shut down

76:46for saying that, and it turns out,

76:47well, we don't know if it's true,

76:49but there's at least a real likelihood that it is,

76:51and it certainly is something

76:52that should have been talked about.

76:53So I tend to stay away from any such discussions.

76:57And the reason is twofold.

76:58One is because they're almost entirely partisan.

77:01It generally is each side thinks

77:03what the other side is saying is misinformation

77:07or disinformation, and they can prove certain examples.

77:10So we're not gonna get anywhere on that.

77:12We certainly are never gonna get 60 votes in the Senate

77:14for anything about that.

77:16I don't think content moderation

77:17is nearly as important as people think.

77:19It has to be done, and it can be improved.

77:21Almost all the action is in the dynamics,

77:23the architecture, the virality,

77:25and then the nature of who is on the platform,

77:30unverified people, and how much amplification they get.

77:33That's what we should be looking at,

77:34rather than wasting so much of our breath

77:36on whether we're gonna do a little more

77:38or a little less content moderation.

77:40- So the true harm to society on average

77:44and over the long term is in the dynamics,

77:47is fundamentally in the dynamics of social media,

77:49not in the subtle choices of content moderation,

77:53aka censorship.

77:55- Exactly.

77:55There've always been conspiracy theories.

77:57You know, "The Turner Diaries" is this book written in 1978.

78:01It introduced the replacement theory to a lot of people.

§11Transcript · 1:18:05–1:26:12

78:05Timothy McVeigh had it on him when he was captured in 1995

78:09after the Oklahoma City bombing.

78:10It's a kind of a Bible of that fringe,

78:12violent, racist, white supremacist group.

78:16So the killer in "Buffalo"

78:20was well acquainted with these ideas.

78:22They've been around, but this guy's from a small town.

78:25I forget where he's from.

78:26But he was, as he says in a manifesto,

78:30he was entirely influenced by things he found online.

78:33He was not influenced by anyone he met in person.

78:36Ideas spread and communities can form,

78:40these like micro communities can form

78:43with bizarre and twisted beliefs.

78:45And this is, again, back to the "Atlantic" article.

78:49I've got this amazing quote from Martin Goury.

78:52I mean, just find it.

78:53But Martin Goury, he was a former CIA analyst,

78:56wrote this brilliant book called "The Revolt of the Public"

78:59or, and he has this great quote.

79:04He says, he talks about how in the age of mass media,

79:09we were all in a sense looking at a mirror,

79:11looking back at us.

79:12And it might've been a distorted mirror,

79:14but we had stories in common, we had facts in common.

79:18It was mass media.

79:20And he describes how the flood of information

79:22with the internet is like a tsunami washing over us.

79:25It has all kinds of effects.

79:26And he says, this isn't a comment in an interview on Vox.

79:30He says, "The digital revolution has shattered that mirror.

79:33And now the public inhabits those broken pieces of glass.

79:37So the public isn't one thing.

79:39It's highly fragmented and it's basically mutually hostile.

79:43It's mostly people yelling at each other

79:45and living in bubbles of one sort or another."

79:48And so, we now see clearly there's this little bubble

79:51of just bizarre nastiness in which the killer

79:56in Christchurch and the killer in Norway

79:58and now in Buffalo, they're all put into a community

80:01and posts flow up within that community

80:03by a certain dynamic.

80:05So we can never stamp those words or ideas out.

80:09The question is not, can we stop them from existing?

80:12The question is, what platforms,

80:14what are the platforms by which they spread

80:16all over the world and into every little town

80:18so that the 1% of whatever,

80:21whatever percentage of young men are vulnerable to this,

80:23that they get exposed to it.

80:25It's in the dynamics and the architecture.

80:27- It's a fascinating point to think about

80:29'cause we often debate and think about

80:33the content moderation, the censorship,

80:36the ideas of free speech, but you're saying,

80:38yes, that's important to talk about,

80:40but much more important is fixing the dynamics.

80:43- That's right, 'cause everyone thinks

80:44if there's regulation, it means censorship.

80:45At least people on the right think

80:46regulation equals censorship.

80:49And I'm trying to say, no, no,

80:50that's only if all we talk about is content moderation.

80:53Well, then yes, that is the framework.

80:55You know, how much or how little do we, you know,

80:57but I don't even wanna talk about that

80:59'cause all the action is in the dynamics.

81:00That's the point of my article.

81:02It's the architecture changed

81:03and our social world went insane.

81:05- So can you try to steel man the other side?

81:09So the people that might say that social media

81:12is good for society overall,

81:15both in the dimension of mental health,

81:18as Mark said, for teenagers, teenage girls,

81:23and for our democracy.

81:24Yes, there's a lot of negative things,

81:26but that's slices of data.

81:30If you look at the whole, which is difficult to measure,

81:33it's actually good for society.

81:35And to the degree that it's not good,

81:37it's getting better and better.

81:38Is it possible to steel man their point?

81:40- Yeah.

81:41It's hard, but I should be able to do it.

81:44I need to put my money where my mouth is,

81:45and that's a good question.

81:47So on the mental health front,

81:48you know, the argument is usually what they say is,

81:52well, you know, for communities that are cut off,

81:54especially LGBTQ kids, they can find each other.

81:59So it connects kids,

82:01especially kids who wouldn't find connection otherwise.

82:04It exposes you to a range of ideas and content,

82:09and it's fun.

82:13- Is there, in the studies you looked at,

82:16is there inklings of data that's maybe early data

82:22that shows that there is positive effects

82:23in terms of self-report data,

82:25or how would you measure behavioral positive?

82:28It's difficult.

82:29- Right, so if you look at how do you feel

82:33when you're on the platform,

82:34you get a mix of positive and negative,

82:36and people say they feel supported.

82:38And this is what Mark was referring to when he said,

82:41you know, there was like 18 criteria,

82:42and on most it was positive, and on some it was negative.

82:45So if you look at how do you feel

82:46while you're using the platform,

82:48look, most kids enjoy it, they're having fun,

82:51but some kids are feeling inferior, cut off, bullied.

82:56So if we're saying what's the average experience

83:01on the platform, that might actually be positive.

83:04If we just measured the hedonics,

83:06like how much fun versus fear is there,

83:08it could well be positive.

83:09But what I'm trying to, okay,

83:11so is that enough steel manning?

83:12Can I?

83:13- That's pretty good.

83:15- Okay.

83:15- You held your breath.

83:16- Yeah.

83:18But what I'm trying to point out is

83:20this isn't a dose response sugar thing,

83:22like how do you feel while you're consuming heroin?

83:24Like while I'm consuming heroin, I feel great,

83:27but am I glad that heroin came into my life?

83:29Am I glad that everyone in my seventh grade class

83:31is on heroin?

83:32Like, no, I'm not.

83:33Like I wish that people weren't on heroin,

83:35and they could play on the playground,

83:36but instead they're just, you know,

83:37sitting on the bench shooting up during recess.

83:40So when you look at it as an emergent phenomenon

83:42that changed childhood, now it doesn't matter

83:45what are the feelings while you're actually using it.

83:47We need to zoom out and say, how has this changed childhood?

83:50- Can you try to do the same for democracy?

83:52- Yeah.

83:54So we can go back to, you know,

83:56what Mark said in 2012 when he was taking Facebook public,

84:01and you know, this is the wake of the Arab Spring.

84:04I think people really have to remember

84:05what an extraordinary year 2011 was.

84:08It starts with the Arab Spring.

84:10Dictators are pulled down.

84:11Now people say, you know, Facebook took them down.

84:13I mean, of course it was the citizen,

84:15the people themselves took down dictators,

84:18aided by Facebook and Twitter and,

84:21I don't know if it was, or texting,

84:23there were some other platforms they used.

84:24So the argument that Mark makes in this letter

84:28to potential shareholders, investors,

84:31is, you know, we're at a turning point in history,

84:34and, you know, social media is rewiring.

84:38We're giving people the tools to rewire their institutions.

84:42So this all sounds great.

84:43Like this is the democratic dream.

84:45And what I write about in the essay

84:47is the period of techno-democratic optimism,

84:50which began in the early '90s

84:51with the fall of the Iron Curtain and the Soviet Union.

84:54And then the internet comes in and, you know,

84:56people, I mean, people my age remember

84:58how extraordinary it was, how much fun it was.

85:01I mean, the sense that this was the dawning of a new age,

85:04and there was so much optimism.

85:06And so this optimism runs all the way from the early '90s,

85:09all the way through 2011 with the Arab Spring.

85:12And of course that year ends with Occupy Wall Street.

85:15And there were also big protest movements in Israel,

85:18in Spain, and in a lot of areas.

85:19Martin Goury talks about this.

85:21So there certainly was a case to be made

85:24that Facebook in particular, but all these platforms,

85:28these were God's gift to democracy.

85:30What dictator could possibly keep out the internet?

85:33What dictator could stand up to people

85:35connected on these digital media platforms?

85:38So that's the strong case

85:39that this is gonna be good for democracy.

85:41And then we can see what happened in the years after.

85:43Now, first of all, so in Mark's response to you,

85:47so here, let me read from what he said

85:49when you interviewed him.

85:51He says, "I think it's worth grounding this conversation

85:55"in the actual research that has been done on this,

85:57"which by and large finds that social media

85:59"is not a large driver of polarization."

86:01He says that.

86:02Then he says, "Most academic studies that I've seen

86:05"actually show that social media use

86:07"is correlated with lower polarization."

86:09That's a factual claim that he makes,

86:11which is not true.

86:12But he asserts that, well, actually, wait, it's tricky

§12Transcript · 1:26:15–1:33:52

86:15because he says the studies he has seen.

86:18So I can't, so it might be that the studies he has seen

86:20say that, but if you go to the Google Doc with Chris Bale,

86:23you see there's seven different questions

86:25that can be addressed.

86:26And on one of them, which is filter bubbles,

86:29the evidence is very mixed.

86:30And he might be right that Facebook overall

86:32doesn't contribute to filter bubbles.

86:33But on the other six, the evidence is pretty strongly

86:36on the yes side, it is a cause.

86:38- He also draws a line between the United States

86:40versus the rest of the world.

86:41- Right, and there's one thing true about that,

86:43which is that polarization has been rising

86:46much faster in the US than in any other major country.

86:48So he's right about that.

86:49So we're talking about an article by Matthew Genscow

86:53and a few other researchers.

86:56A very important article, we've got it

86:57in the political dysfunction database.

87:01- And we should say that in this study,

87:02there's, like I started to say,

87:04there's a lot of fascinating questions

87:06that it's organized by, whether studies indicate yes or no,

87:10question one is does social media make people more angry

87:12or effectively polarized?

87:15Question two is does social media create echo chambers?

87:17These are fascinating, really important questions.

87:19Question three is does social media amplify posts

87:22that are more emotional, inflammatory, or false?

87:25Question four is does social media increase

87:27the probability of violence?

87:29Question five is does social media enable

87:31foreign governments to increase political dysfunction

87:34in the US and other democracies?

87:36Question six, does social media decrease trust?

87:39Seven, is the social media strengthen populist movements?

87:44And then there's other sections, as you mentioned.

87:47- Yeah, that's right.

87:47But once you operationalize it as seven different questions,

87:52so one is about polarization and there are measures of that,

87:56the degree to which people say they hate the other side.

87:58And so in this study by Boxell, Genscow, and Shapiro, 2021,

88:02they looked at all the measures of polarization

88:06they could find going back to the 1970s

88:09for about 20 different countries.

88:10And they show plots, you have these nice plots

88:13with red lines showing that in some countries

88:15it's going up, like the United States especially,

88:17in some countries it's going down,

88:19and in some countries it's pretty flat.

88:20And so Marx says, well, you know,

88:22if polarization's going up a lot in the US

88:24but not in most other countries,

88:26well, maybe Facebook isn't responsible.

88:28But so much depends on how you operationalize things.

88:31Are we interested in the straight line, regression line,

88:35going back to the '70s?

88:37And if so, well, then he's right in what he says.

88:40But that's not the argument.

88:41The argument isn't that, you know,

88:43it's been rising and falling since the '70s.

88:44The argument is it's been rising and falling since 2012

88:47or so.

88:48And for that, now I just spoke with,

88:50I've been emailing with the authors of the study

88:53and they say there's not really enough data

88:54to do it statistically reliably

88:56'cause there's only a few observations after 2012.

88:58But if you look at the graphs in their study,

89:00and they actually do provide, as they pointed out to me,

89:02they do provide a statistical test

89:04if you break the data at the year 2000.

89:07So actually, a polarization is going up pretty widely

89:11if you just look after 2000,

89:12which is when the internet would be influential.

89:15And if you look just after 2012,

89:17you have to just do it by eye.

89:18But if you do it on their graphs by eye,

89:21you see that actually a number of countries

89:22do see a sudden sharp upturn.

89:24Not all, not all by any means.

89:26But my point is, Mark asserts,

89:28he points to one study and he points to this

89:29over and over again.

89:30I have had two conversations with him.

89:31He pointed to this study both times.

89:34He asserts that this study shows

89:37that polarization is up some places, down other places.

89:40There's no association.

89:41But actually, we have another section in the Google Doc

89:45where we review all the data on the decline of democracy.

89:47And the high point of democracy,

89:49of course, it was rising in the '90s.

89:50But if you look around the world,

89:52by some measures it begins to drop in the late 2000s,

89:55around 2007, 2008.

89:57By others, it's in the early to mid 2010s.

90:00The point is, there is a, by many measures,

90:03there's a drop in the quality and the number

90:06of democracies on this planet that began in the 2010s.

90:09And so, yes, Mark can point to one study.

90:13But if you look in the Google Doc,

90:14there are a lot of other studies that point the other way.

90:16And especially about whether things

90:18are getting more polarized or less, more polarized.

90:20Not in all countries, but in a lot.

90:22- So you've provided the problem,

90:25several proposals for solutions.

90:27Do you think Mark, do you think Elon or whoever

90:32is at the head of Twitter would be able

90:35to implement these changes?

90:36Or does there need to be a competitor,

90:38social network to step up?

90:40If you were to predict the future,

90:42now this is you giving sort of financial advice to me.

90:45No. - No, not that I can't do.

90:47- Definitely not financial advice.

90:48- I can give you advice.

90:48Do the opposite of whatever I've done.

90:50- Okay, excellent. (laughs)

90:52But what do you think, when we talk again in 10 years,

90:57what do you think we'd be looking at if it's a better world?

91:00- Yeah, so you have to look at each,

91:03the dynamics of each change that needs to be made.

91:05And you have to look at it systemically.

91:07And so the biggest change for teen mental health,

91:09I think, is to raise the age from 13,

91:12it was set to 13 in COPPA in like 1997 or six or whatever,

91:16that was eight, whatever it was.

91:17It was set to 13 with no enforcement.

91:19I think it needs to go to 16 or 18 with enforcement.

91:22Now, there's no way that Facebook can say,

91:25actually, so look, Instagram, the age is 13,

91:29but they don't enforce it.

91:30And they're under pressure to not enforce it

91:32because if they did enforce it,

91:34then all the kids would just go to TikTok,

91:36which they're doing anyway.

91:36But if we go back a couple of years,

91:38when they were talking about rolling out Facebook for kids,

91:42'cause they need to get those kids,

91:43they need to get kids under 13.

91:45There's a business imperative to hook them early

91:47and keep them.

91:48So I don't expect Facebook to act on its own accord

91:51and do the right thing because then they--

91:52- So regulation is the only way.

91:53- Exactly.

91:54When you have a social dilemma,

91:56like what economists call like a prisoner's dilemma

91:58or a social dilemma is generalized to multiple people.

92:01And when you have a social dilemma,

92:03each player can't opt out because they're gonna lose.

92:06You have to have central regulation.

92:07So I think we have to raise the age.

92:09The UK parliament is way ahead of us.

92:11I think they're actually functional.

92:12The US Congress is not functional.

92:14So the parliament is implementing

92:16the age appropriate design code

92:18that may put pressure on the platforms globally

92:21to change certain.

92:22So anyway, my point is, we have to have regulation

92:25to force them to be transparent

92:28and share what they're doing.

92:30There are some good bills out there.

92:31So I think that if the companies and the users,

92:34if we're all stuck in a social dilemma

92:36in which the incentives against doing the right thing

92:40are strong, we do need regulation on certain matters.

92:44And again, it's not about content moderation,

92:46who gets to say what,

92:47but it's things like the Platform Accountability

92:49and Transparency Act, which is from Stanardoz Kunz,

92:52Portman and Klobuchar.

92:54This would force the platforms to just share information

92:56on what they're doing.

92:57Like we can't even study what's happening

92:59without the information.

93:01So that I think is just common sense.

93:03Senator Michael Bennett introduced

93:05the Digital Platforms Commission Act of 2022,

93:09which would create a body tasked with actually regulating

93:12and having oversight.

93:13Right now, the US government doesn't have a body.

93:16I mean, the FTC can do certain things.

93:17We have things about antitrust,

93:19but we don't have a body that can oversee or understand

93:22these things that are transforming everything

93:24and possibly severely damaging our political life.

93:28So I think there's a lot of, oh, and then the,

93:31the state of California is actually currently considering

93:35a version of the UK's, the age appropriate design code,

93:39which would force the companies to do some simple things

93:42like not be sending alerts and notifications to children

93:45at 10 or 11 o'clock at night,

93:47just things like that to make platforms just less damaging.

93:52So I think there's an essential role for regulation.

§13Transcript · 1:33:55–1:41:53

93:55And I think if the US Congress is too paralyzed by politics,

93:58if the UK and the EU and the state of California

94:01and the state, a few other states,

94:02if they enact legislation,

94:05the platforms don't wanna have different versions

94:07in different states or countries.

94:08So I think there actually is some hope,

94:10even if the US Congress is dysfunctional.

94:12- So there is, 'cause I've been interacting

94:15with certain regulations hitting,

94:17designed to hit Amazon, but it's hitting YouTube.

94:19YouTube folks have been talking to me,

94:21which is recommender systems.

94:23The algorithm has to be public, I think,

94:26versus private, which completely breaks.

94:30It's way too clumsy a regulation

94:33that where the unintended consequences

94:35break recommender systems, not for Amazon,

94:38but for other platforms.

94:40That's just to say that government can sometimes

94:43be clumsy with the regulation.

94:45- Usually is.

94:46- And so my preference is the threat of regulation

94:51in a friendly way encourages--

94:54- Good behavior. - You really shouldn't need it.

94:56You really shouldn't need it.

94:57My preference is great leaders lead the way

95:01in doing the right thing.

95:03And I actually, honestly, this, to our earlier

95:05kind of maybe my naive disagreement

95:08that I think it's good business to do the right thing

95:11in these spaces.

95:12So creating a problem-- - Sometimes it is.

95:14Sometimes it loses you, most of your users.

95:18- Well, I think it's important because I've been thinking

95:20a lot about World War III recently.

95:22- Yeah. - And it might be silly

95:26to say, but I think social media has a role

95:30in either creating World War III or avoiding World War III.

95:34It seems like so much of wars throughout history

95:37have been started through very fast escalation.

95:42And it feels like just looking at our recent history,

95:44social media is the mechanism for escalation.

95:47And so it's really important to get this right,

95:49not just for the mental health of young people,

95:52not just for the polarization of bickering

95:54over small-scale political issues,

95:57but literally the survival of human civilization.

96:01So there's a lot at stake here.

96:04- Yeah, I certainly agree with that.

96:05I would just say that I'm less concerned

96:07about World War III than I am about Civil War II.

96:09I think that's a more likely prospect.

96:11- Yeah, yeah, yeah.

96:13Can I ask for your wise sage advice to young people?

96:19So advice number one is put down the phone.

96:22Don't use Instagram and social media.

96:25But to young people in high school and college,

96:28how to have a career,

96:30or how to have a life they can be proud of.

96:33- Yeah, I'd be happy to,

96:34'cause I teach a course at NYU in the business school

96:38called Work, Wisdom, and Happiness.

96:40And the course is,

96:42it's advice on how to have a happy,

96:44a successful career as a human being.

96:47But the course has evolved that it's now about three things,

96:50how to get stronger, smarter, and more sociable.

96:54If you can do those three things,

96:56then you will be more successful

96:59at work and in love and friendships.

97:01And if you are more successful in work,

97:03love, and friendships, then you will be happier.

97:05You will be as happy as you can be, in fact.

97:07So the question is,

97:08how do you become smarter, stronger, and happier?

97:11And the answer to all three is,

97:15it's a number of things,

97:16but it's you have to see yourself

97:18as this complex adaptive system.

97:20You've got this complicated mind

97:22that needs a lot of experience to wire itself up.

97:25And the most important part of that experience is

97:28that you don't grow

97:30when you are with your attachment figure.

97:31You don't grow when you're safe.

97:33You have an attachment figure to make you feel confident

97:35to go out and explore the world.

97:37In that world, you will face threats,

97:39you will face fear,

97:40and sometimes you'll come running back.

97:42But you have to keep doing it

97:43because over time, you then develop the strength

97:46to stay out there and to conquer it.

97:48That's normal human childhood.

97:50That's what we blocked in the 1990s in this country.

97:52So young people have to get themselves the childhood,

97:56and this is all the way through adolescence

97:58and young adulthood,

97:59they have to get themselves the experience

98:00that older generations are blocking them from out of fear

98:04and that their phones are blocking them from

98:06out of just hijacking almost all the inputs into their life

98:09and almost all the minutes of their day.

98:10So go out there, put yourself out in experiences.

98:14You are anti-fragile and you're not gonna get strong

98:17unless you actually have setbacks

98:19and criticisms and fights.

98:21So that's how you get stronger.

98:24And then there's an analogy in how you get smarter,

98:27which is you have to expose yourself to other ideas,

98:29to ideas that people that criticize you,

98:32people that disagree with you.

98:34And this is why I co-founded Heterodox Academy

98:36because we believe that faculty need to be in communities

98:41that have political diversity and viewpoint diversity,

98:43but so do students.

98:45And it turns out students want this.

98:47The surveys show very clearly Gen Z

98:50has not turned against viewpoint diversity.

98:52Most of them want it,

98:54but they're just afraid of the small number

98:55that will sort of shoot darts at them

98:57if they say something wrong.

98:59So anyway, the point is you're anti-fragile

99:02and so you have to realize that to get stronger,

99:05you have to realize to get smarter.

99:07And then the key to becoming more sociable is very simple.

99:10It's just always looking at it

99:10through the other person's point of view.

99:12Don't be so focused on what you want

99:14and what you're afraid of.

99:16Put yourself in the other person's shoes,

99:17what's interesting to them, what do they want?

99:19And if you develop the skill of looking at it

99:21from their point of view,

99:23you'll be a better conversation partner,

99:24you'll be a better life partner.

99:27So there's a lot that you can do.

99:28I mean, I could say,

99:29go read "The Coddling of the American Mind."

99:32I could say, go read Dale Carnegie,

99:33"How to Win Friends and Influence People."

99:36But take charge of your life and your development

99:39'cause if you don't do it,

99:40then the older protective generation and your phone

99:45are gonna take charge of you.

99:47- So on anti-fragility and coddling the American mind,

99:51if I may read just a few lines

99:53from Chief Justice John Roberts,

99:55which I find is really beautiful.

99:58So it's not just about viewpoint diversity,

100:00but it's real struggle, absurd, unfair struggle

100:04that seems to be formative to the human mind.

100:07He says, "From time to time in the years to come,

100:10I hope you will be treated unfairly

100:13so that you will come to know the value of justice.

100:16I hope that you will suffer betrayal

100:18because that will teach you the importance of loyalty.

100:21Sorry to say, but I hope you will be lonely

100:24from time to time

100:25so that you don't take friends for granted.

100:27I wish you bad luck again from time to time

100:30so that you will be conscious of the role of chance in life

100:33and understand that your success is not completely deserved

100:37and that the failure of others

100:39is not completely deserved either.

100:41And when you lose, as you will from time to time,

100:44I hope every now and then,

100:46your opponent will gloat over your failure.

100:49It is a way for you to understand

100:51the importance of sportsmanship.

100:53I hope you'll be ignored

100:55so you know the importance of listening to others.

100:57And I hope you will have just enough pain

101:00to learn compassion.

101:01Whether I wish these things or not,

101:04they're going to happen.

101:05And whether you benefit from them or not

101:08will depend upon your ability

101:09to see the message in your misfortunes.

101:13He read that in a middle school graduation.

101:15- Yes, for his son's middle school graduation.

101:18That's what I was trying to say,

101:19only that's much more beautiful.

101:21- Yeah, and I think your work is really important

101:24and it is beautiful and it's bold and fearless

101:27and it's a huge honor that you would sit with me.

101:29I'm a big fan.

101:30Thank you for spending your valuable time with me today,

101:32John, thank you so much.

101:33- Thanks so much, Lex, what a pleasure.

101:35- Thanks for listening to this conversation

101:37with Jonathan Haidt.

101:38To support this podcast,

101:39please check out our sponsors in the description.

101:42And now, let me leave you with some words from Carl Jung.

101:45"Everything that irritates us about others

101:50"can lead us to an understanding of ourselves."

101:53Thank you for listening and hope to see you next time.

§14Transcript · 1:41:57–1:41:59

101:57(upbeat music)

101:59(upbeat music)

— 读到这里,多懂一点。 —