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Chamath Palihapitiya: Money, Success, Startups, Energy, Poker & Happiness

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00:00In terms of your mistakes, society tells you don't make them because we will judge you and

00:06we will look down on you. And I think the really successful people realize that actually, no,

00:11it's the cycle time of mistakes that gets you to success. Because your error rate will diminish

00:18the more mistakes that you make. You observe them, you figure out where it's coming from.

00:23Is it a psychological thing? Is it a, you know, cognitive thing? And then you fix it.

00:27The following is a conversation with Chamath Palihapitiya, a venture capitalist and engineer,

00:35founder and CEO of Social Capital, previously an early senior executive at Facebook, and is the

00:43co-host of the All In podcast, a podcast that I highly recommend for the wisdom and the camaraderie

00:50of the four co-hosts, also known as besties. This is the Lex Friedman podcast. To support it,

00:58please check out our sponsors in the description. And now, dear friends, here's Chamath Palihapitiya.

01:04You grew up in a dysfunctional household on welfare. You've talked about this before.

01:11What were, for you personally, psychologically, some difficult moments in your childhood?

01:16I'll answer that question in a slightly different way, which is that I think when you grow up

01:21in a household that's defined by physical abuse and psychological abuse,

01:28you're hypervigilant all the time. And so it's actually easier for me to point to moments where

01:35I was happy or I felt compassion or I felt safe. Otherwise, every moment, I'll give you a couple

01:43of examples. I was thinking about this a while ago. There was a tree outside of my apartment

01:51where we lived when I was growing up, and my father sometimes would make me go outside

01:58to take the tree branch that he would hit me with. And so you can imagine if you're a 10,

02:0411-year-old kid and you have to deal with that, what do you do? Well, a hypervigilant child

02:09learns how to basically estimate the strength of these branches. How far can he go before it breaks?

02:19You have to estimate his anger and estimate the effective strength of branches and bring back

02:27something. Because I remember these moments where if it was, he would look at it and then he would

02:31make me go out again and get it, get a different one. Or there was a certain belt that he wore

02:39that had this kind of belt buckle that stuck out. And you just wanted to make sure if that was the

02:47thing that you were going to get hit by, that it wasn't the buckle facing out because that really

02:52hurt. And so you became hyperaware of which part of the buckle was facing out versus facing in in

02:59those moments. And there are hundreds of these little examples, which essentially I would say

03:06the through line is that you're just so on edge. And you walk into this house and you're just

03:12basically trying to get to the point where you leave the house. And so in that microcosm of

03:19growing up, any moment that's not like that is seared in my memory in a way that I just can't

03:26describe to a person. I'll give you an example. I volunteered when I was in grade five or six,

03:33I can't remember which it was, in the kindergarten of my school. And I would just go and the teacher

03:40would ask you to clean things up. And at the end of that grade five year, she took me and two other

03:47kids to Dairy Queen. And I'd never gone to a restaurant, literally, because we just didn't

03:56have the money. And I remember the first time I tasted this Dairy Queen meal, it was like a

04:02hamburger, fries, a Coke, and a Blizzard. And I was like, "What is this?" And I felt

04:09so special, because you're getting something that most people would take for granted. Oh,

04:15it's a Sunday or I'm really busy, let me go take my kid to fast food. I think that until I left

04:22high school, I think, and this is not just specific to me, but a lot of other people,

04:30you're in this hypervigilant loop, punctuated with these incredibly visceral moments of compassion

04:37by other people. A different example, we had such a strict budget and we didn't have a car.

04:45And so I was responsible with my mom to always go shopping. And so I learned very early on how to

04:54look for coupons, how to buy things that were on sale or special. And we had a very basic diet,

05:00because you have to budget this thing really precisely. But the end of every year where I

05:07lived, there was a large grocery chain called Loblaws. And Loblaws would discount a cheesecake

05:16from 7.99 to 4.99. And my parents would buy that once a year. And we probably did that six or seven

05:26times. And you can't imagine how special we felt, myself, my two sisters. We would sit there,

05:33we would watch the New Year's Eve celebration on TV, we would cut this cheesecake into five pieces.

05:41It felt like everything. So that's sort of how my existence when I was at that age is,

05:50for better or for worse, that's how I remember it.

05:53The hypervigilant loop, is that still with you today? What are the echoes of that still with

05:59you today, the good and the bad? If you put yourself

06:05in the mind of a young child, the thing that that does to you is at a very core basic level,

06:18it says you're worthless. Because if you can step outside of that and you think about any child in

06:25the world, they don't deserve to go through that. And at some point, by the way, I should tell you,

06:32I don't blame my parents anymore. It was a process to get there, but I feel like they did the best

06:37they could. And they suffered their own issues and enormous pressures and stresses. And so,

06:45I've really, for the most part, forgiven them. >> How did you, sorry to interrupt,

06:50let go of that blame? >> That was a really long process where,

06:56I would say the first 35 years of my life, I compartmentalized and I avoided all of those

07:03memories. And I sought external validation. Going back to this self-worth idea, if you're taught as

07:12a child that you're worthless, because why would somebody do these things to you? It's not because

07:16you're worth something, you think to yourself, very viscerally, you're worth nothing. And so

07:22then you go out and you seek external validation. Maybe you try to go and get into a great college,

07:27you try to get a good job, you try to make a lot of money, you try to demonstrate in superficial

07:34ways with the car you drive or the clothes you wear that you deserve people to care about you,

07:40to try to make up for that really deep hole. But at some point, it doesn't get filled in.

07:47And so you have a choice. And so for me, what happened was in the course of a six-month period,

07:52I lost my best friend and I lost my father. And it was really like the dam broke loose,

07:59because the compartmentalization stopped working because the reminder

08:04of why I was compartmentalizing was gone. And so I had to go through this period of disharmony

08:12to really understand and steel man his perspective. And can you imagine trying to do that,

08:22to go through all of the things where you have to now look at it from his perspective

08:27and find compassion and empathy for what he went through? And then I shift the focus to my mom and

08:36I said, "Well, you were not the victim, actually. You were somewhat complicit as well, because

08:41you were of sound mind and body and you were in the room when it happened."

08:45So then I had to go through that process with her and steel man her perspective.

08:50At the end of it, I never justified what they did, but I've been able to forgive what they did.

08:56I think they did the best they could. And at the end of the day, they did the most important thing,

09:03which is they gave me and my sisters a shot by emigrating, by giving up everything,

09:10by staying in Canada and doing whatever it took between the two of them

09:14to sort of claw and scrape together enough money to live so that my sisters and I could have a

09:21shot. And I'm very thankful for them. Could they have done better? Obviously. But I'm okay with

09:26what has taken place. But it's been a long process of that steel manning so that you

09:31can develop some empathy and compassion and forgive. >> BOWEN Do you think if you talk to

09:36your dad shortly after he died and you went through that process or today, you'll be able to

09:43have the same strength to forgive him? >> SUBRATA I think it would be a very

09:53complicated journey. I think I've learned to be incredibly open about what has happened.

10:01And all of the mistakes I've made, I think it would require him to be pretty radically honest

10:11about confirming what I think he went through, because otherwise it just wouldn't work. Otherwise,

10:18I would say, let's keep things where they are, which is I did the work with people that have

10:24helped me, obviously. But it's better for him to just kind of hopefully he's looking

10:30from some place and he's thinking it was worth it. I think he deserves to think that all of this,

10:36because I think the immigrant challenge, or not even the immigrant challenge, the

10:42lower middle class challenge, anybody who really wants better for their kids and doesn't have a

10:46good toolkit to give it to them, some of them just they choke up on the bat. They just get so

10:54agitated about this idea that all this sacrifice will not be worth it,

10:58that it spills out in really unproductive ways. And I would put him in that category.

11:04Yeah. And there is self-evaluation, introspection, they have tunnel vision, so they're not

11:10able to often see the damage that did. I mean, I know, like yourself, a few successful people that

11:19had very difficult relationships with their dad. And when you take the perspective of the dad,

11:27they're completely in denial about any of it. So if you actually have a conversation,

11:31there would not be a deep honesty there. And I think that's maybe in part the way of life.

11:38Yeah. And I remember pretty distinctly after I left and in my middle 30s, where

11:46by all measure, I had roughly become reasonably successful. And my dad didn't particularly care

11:54about that, which was so odd, because I had to confront the fact that whether it was a title or

12:01money or press clippings, he never really cared. He moved on to a different set of goals, which was

12:07more about my character and being a good person to my family and really preparing me to lead our

12:16family when he wasn't there. And that bothered me, because I thought I got to the finish line,

12:22and I thought there was going to be a medal, meaning I can tell you, Lex, he never told me

12:27that he loved me. I'm not sure if that's normal or not. It was my normality. And I thought there's

12:33going to be something, some gold star, which never appeared. And so that's a hard thing

12:40to confront, because you're like, well, now what is this all about? Was this all just a ruse?

12:49But then I realized, well, hold on a second. There were these moments where in his way, again,

12:54putting yourself in his shoes, I think he was trying to say he was sorry. He would hold my hand,

13:01and he would interlock the fingers, which I felt that's a really intimate way of holding

13:06somebody's hand, I think. So I remember those things. So these are the things that are just

13:11etched at least in my mind. And at the end of it, I think I've done a decent job in repairing

13:20my relationship with him, even though it was posthumous. >> It does make me wonder in which way

13:26you and I, we might be broken and not see it. It might be hurting others and not see it.

13:33>> Well, I think that when you grow up in those kinds of environments, and they're all different

13:38kinds of this kind of dysfunction, but if what you get from that is that you're not worthwhile,

13:45you're less than many, many other people, when you enter adulthood or semi-adulthood in your

13:53early 20s, you will be in a cycle where you are hurting other people. You may not know it.

14:00Hopefully, you find somebody who holds you accountable and tells you and loves you enough

14:05through that. But you are going to take all of that disharmony in your childhood, and you're

14:11going to inject that disharmony into whether it's your professional relationships or your

14:16personal relationships or both until you get to some form of rock bottom and you start to repair.

14:23And I think there's a lot of people that resonate with that because they have each suffered their

14:29own things that at some point in their lives have told them that they're less than. And then they go

14:37and cope. And when you cope, eventually those coping mechanisms escalate, and at some point,

14:44it'll be unhealthy either for you, but oftentimes it's for the people around you.

14:48>> Well, from those humble beginnings, you are now a billionaire. How has money changed your life,

14:57or maybe the landscape of experience in your life? Does it buy happiness?

15:04>> It doesn't buy happiness, but it buys you a level of comfort for you to really amplify what

15:12happiness is. I kind of think about it in the following way. Let's just say that there's a

15:18hundred things on a table, and the table says, "Find happiness here." And there are different

15:25prices. The way that the world works is that many of these experiences are cordoned off a little bit

15:33behind a velvet rope where you think that there's more happiness as the prices of things escalate.

15:41If you live in an apartment, you admire the person with the house. If you live in a house,

15:47you admire the person with the bigger house. That person admires the person with an island.

15:55Right? Some person drives their car, admires the person who flies, who admires the person who flies

16:01business class, who admires the person who flies first to private. There's all of these escalations

16:07on this table, and most people get to the first five or six. And so they just naturally assume

16:14that items seven through a hundred is really where happiness is found. And just to tell you

16:24the finish line, I've tried a hundred and back, and I've tried two more hundred to it,

16:29and happiness isn't there. But it does give you a level of comfort. I read a study,

16:36and I don't know if it's true or not, but it said that the absolute maximal link between

16:45money and happiness is around $50 million. And it was just like a social studies kind of thing,

16:54that I think one of the Ivy Leagues put out. And underneath it, the way that they explained it was

16:58because you could have a home, you could have all kinds of the creature comforts, you could take

17:03care of your family, and then you were left to ponder what it is that you really want.

17:08I think the challenge for most people is to realize that this escalating arms race of

17:16more things will solve your problems is not true. More and better is not the solution.

17:24It's this idea that you are on a very precise journey that's unique to yourself. You are

17:33playing a game of which only you are the player. Everybody else is an interloper,

17:41and you have a responsibility to design the gameplay. And I think a lot of people don't

17:47realize that, because if they did, I think they would make a lot of different decisions about how

17:51they live their life. And I still do the same thing. I mean revert to basically running around

17:59asking other people, "What will make you like me more? What will make me more popular in your eyes?"

18:06And I try to do it, and it never works. It is just a complete dead end.

18:12Is there negative aspects to money? Like, for example, it becoming harder to find people you

18:19can trust? I think the most negative aspect is that it amplifies a 360-degree view of your

18:26personality, because there are a lot of people, and society tells you that more money is actually

18:34better. You are a better person somehow, and you're factually more worthwhile than some other

18:39people that have less money. That's also a lie. But when you're given that kind of attention,

18:46it's very easy for you to become a caricature of yourself. That's probably the single worst thing

18:52that happens to you. But I say it in the opposite way. I think all I've ever seen in Silicon Valley,

18:57as an example, is that when somebody gets a hold of a lot of money, it tends to cause them to become

19:04exactly who they were meant to be. They're either a kind person, they're either a curious person,

19:10they're either a jerk, they're either cheap. They can use all kinds of masks, but now that there's

19:16no expectations and society gives you a get-out-of-jail-free card, you start to behave

19:21the way that's most comfortable to you. So you see somebody's innate personality.

19:25And that's a really interesting thing to observe, because then you can very quickly bucket sort

19:29where do you want to spend time and who is really additive to your gameplay,

19:34and who is really a negative detractor to your gameplay.

19:38You're an investor, but you're also a kind of philosopher. You analyze the world

19:45in all its different perspectives on all in podcasts, on Twitter, everywhere.

19:52Do you worry that money puts you out of touch from being able to truly empathize with the experience

20:02of the general population, which in part, first of all, on a human level, that could be limiting,

20:08but also as an analyst of human civilization, that could be limiting?

20:12I think it definitely can for a lot of people, because it's an abstraction for you to stop

20:18caring. I also think the other thing is that you can very quickly, especially in today's world,

20:27become the scapegoat. Just to use a Girardian, like Rene Girard, if you think about mimetic

20:33theory in a nutshell, we're all competing for these very scarce resources that we are told

20:40is worthwhile. And if you view the world through that Girardian lens, what are we really doing?

20:47We are all fighting for scarce resources, whether that's Twitter followers, money,

20:53acclaim, notoriety, and we all compete with each other. And in that competition,

20:58Girard writes, "The only way you escape that loop is by scapegoating something or somebody."

21:06And I think we are in that loop right now where just the fact of being successful is a thing that

21:13one should scapegoat to end all of this tension that we have in the world. I think that it's a

21:20little misguided, because I don't think it solves the fundamental problem. And we can talk about

21:25what the solution to some of these problems are, but that's, I think, the loop that we're all

21:31living. And so if you become a caricature and you feed yourself into it, I mean, you're not doing

21:37anything to really advance things. >> Your nickname is The Dictator. How'd

21:41you get the nickname? We're talking about the corrupting nature of money.

21:45>> That came from poker. In a poker game, when you sit down, it's chaos, especially like in our

21:51home game. There's a ton of big egos. There's people always watching, rail birding the game,

21:57all kinds of interesting folks. And in that, somebody needs to establish hygiene and rules.

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22:04And I really care about the integrity of the game. And it would just require somebody to just say,

22:10"Okay, enough." And then people were just like, "Okay, stop dictating." And that's where that

22:16nickname came from. >> So who to you,

22:17speaking of which, is the greatest poker player of all time, and why is it Phil Hellmuth?

22:22>> Exactly. You know, Muth probably knew this question was coming. Here's what I'll say. I

22:28think Hellmuth is the antidote to computers, more than any other player playing today.

22:35And when you see him in a heads up situation, so I think he's played nine or 10 heads up

22:42tournaments in a row. And he's played, basically call it 10 of the top 20 people so far.

22:47And he's beaten all but one of them. When you're playing heads up, one V one, that is the most

22:58GTO understandable spot, meaning game theory optimal position. That's where computers can

23:05give you an enormous edge. The minute you add even a third player, the value of computers and the

23:11value of their recommendations basically falls off a cliff. So one way to think about it is Hellmuth

23:18is forced to play against people that are essentially trained like AIs. And so to be

23:24able to beat, you know, eight out of nine of them means that you are playing so orthogonally

23:29to what is considered game theory optimal, and you're overlaying human reasoning.

23:35The judgment to say, well, in this spot, I should do x, but I'm going to do y. It's not

23:40dissimilar in chess, like what makes, you know, Magnus Carlsen so good. You know, sometimes he

23:45takes these weird lines, he'll sacrifice positions, you know, he'll overplay certain positions for

23:50certain, you know, bishops versus knights and all of these spots that are very confusing.

23:54And what it does is it throws people off their game. I think he just won a recent

23:59online tournament and it's like by move six, there is no GTO move for his opponent to make,

24:07because it's like out of the rule book. Maybe he read some game. You know, I read the quote,

24:11it was like he probably read some game in some bar in Russia in 1954, memorized it.

24:16And all of a sudden by six moves in, the computer AI is worthless. So that's what makes Helmuth

24:21great. There is one person that I think is superior. And I think it's what Daniel also

24:31said, and I would echo that because I played Phil as well, but Phil Ivey is the most well-rounded,

24:41cold-blooded, bloodthirsty animal. He's just, and he sees into your soul, Lex, in a way where

24:49you're just like, oh my God, stop looking at me. Have you ever played him? Yeah, yeah, we've played.

24:55We've played and you know, he crushes the games, crushes the games. So what does feeling crushed

25:01mean and feel like in poker? Is it like that you just can't read at all? You're being constantly

25:07pressured. You feel off balance. You try to bluff and the person reads you perfectly,

25:13that kind of stuff. - This is a really, really excellent question because I think this has

25:17parallels to a bunch of other things. Okay, let's just use poker as a microcosm to explain a bunch

25:23of other systems or games. Maybe it's running a company or investing. Okay, so let's use those

25:31three examples, but we use poker to explain it. What does success look like? Well, success looks

25:36like you have positive expected value, right? In poker, the simple way to summarize that is

25:42your opponent, let's just say you and I are playing, are going to make a bunch of mistakes.

25:48There's a bunch of it that's going to be absolutely perfect. And then there's a few

25:52spots where you make mistakes. And then there's a bunch of places in the poker game where I play

25:57perfectly and I make a few mistakes. Basically, your mistakes minus my mistakes is the edge,

26:07right? That's how poker works. If I make fewer mistakes than you make, I will make money and I

26:14will win. That is the objective of the game. Translate that into business. You're running a

26:20company. You have a team of employees. You have a pool of human capital that's capable of being

26:26productive in the world and creating something. But you are going to make mistakes in making that.

26:33Maybe it doesn't completely fit the market. Maybe it's mispriced. Maybe it actually doesn't require

26:40all of the people that you need, so the margins are wrong. And then there's the competitive set

26:45of all the other alternatives that customer has. Their mistakes minus your mistakes is the expected

26:52value of Google, Facebook, Apple, et cetera. Now take investing. Every time you buy something,

27:00somebody else on the other side is selling it to you.

27:03Is that their mistake? We don't know yet. But their mistakes minus your mistakes is how you

27:12make a lot of money over long periods of time as an investor. Somebody sold you Google at $40 a

27:18share. You bought it and you kept it. Huge mistake on their part, minimum mistakes on your part.

27:24The difference of that is the money that you made. So life can be summarized in many ways in that

27:30way. So the question is, what can you do about other people's mistakes? And the answer is nothing.

27:35That is somebody else's game. You can try to influence them. You could try to subvert them.

27:41Maybe you plant a spy inside of that other person's company to sabotage them. I guess

27:46there are things at the edges that you can do. But my firm belief is that life success really

27:52boils down to how do you control your mistakes? Now this is a bit counterintuitive. The way you

28:00control your mistakes is by making a lot of mistakes. So taking risks is somehow a way to

28:08minimize the number of mistakes. Let's just say you want to find love. You want to find somebody

28:13you're deeply connected with. Do you do that by not going out on dates? Yes. Sorry. You're the

28:24only person that thinks that's the answer to that question. No, I'm joking. I'm joking. No,

28:27but you know what I mean? You have to date people. You have to open yourself up. You have to be

28:31authentic. You give yourself a chance to get hurt. But you're a good person. So you know what happens

28:38when you get hurt? That is actually their mistake. And if you are inauthentic, that's your mistake.

28:44That's a controllable thing in you. You can tell them the truth, who you are, and say,

28:50here's my pluses and minuses. My point is there are very few things in life

28:55that you can't break down, I think, into that very simple idea.

28:59And in terms of your mistakes, society tells you don't make them because we will judge you,

29:07and we will look down on you. And I think the really successful people realize that actually,

29:12no, it's the cycle time of mistakes that gets you to success. Because your error rate will diminish

29:20the more mistakes that you make. You observe them. You figure out where it's coming from.

29:25Is it a psychological thing? Is it a cognitive thing? And then you fix it.

29:30So the implied thing there is that there is, in business and investing, in poker, in dating,

29:38in life, is that there's this platonic GTO, game theory, optimal thing out there. And so when you

29:44say mistakes, you're always comparing to that optimal path you could have taken.

29:49I think slightly different, I would say, mistake is maybe a bad proxy, but it's the best proxy I

29:55have for learning. But I'm using the language of what society tells you.

29:59Sure, got it.

30:01Society tells you that when you try something and it doesn't work, it's a mistake. So I just

30:07use that word because it's the word that resonates most with most people.

30:10Got it.

30:11The real thing that it is is learning.

30:14Yeah, it's like in neural networks, it's lost.

30:16It's a neural network, it's lost, exactly.

30:17Yeah, right. So you're using the mistake that is most, the word that is most understandable,

30:23especially by the way people experience it. I guess most of life is a sequence of mistakes.

30:29The problem is when you use the word mistake and you think about mistakes, it actually has a

30:34counterproductive effect of you becoming conservative in just being risk averse.

30:40So if you flip it and say, try to maximize the number of successes,

30:47somehow that leads you to take more risk. Mistake scares people.

30:54I think mistakes scare people because society likes these very simplified boundaries of who

31:04is winning and who is losing. And they want to reward people who make traditional choices

31:12and succeed. But the thing is, what's so corrosive about that is that they're actually not even

31:23being put in a position to actually make a quote unquote mistake and fail.

31:27So I'll give you a, if you look at like getting into an elite school,

31:31society rewards you for being in the Ivy Leagues in a way that, in my opinion, incorrectly,

31:38doesn't reward you for being in a non Ivy League school. There's a certain level of status

31:43and presumption of intellect and capability that comes with being there.

31:47But that system doesn't really have a counterfactual because it's not as if you both

31:54go to MIT and Ohio State. And then we can see two versions of Lex Friedman so that we can figure out

32:00that the jig is up and there was no difference. And so instead it reinforces this idea that there

32:08is no truth seeking function. There is no way to actually make this thing whole. And so it tells

32:15you, you have to get in here. And if you don't, your life is over. You've made a huge mistake

32:19or you've failed completely. And so you have to find different unique ways of dismantling this.

32:26This is why part of what I've realized where I got very lucky is I had no friends in high school.

32:35I had a few cohort of acquaintances. But part of being so hypervigilant when I grew up

32:41was I was so ashamed of that world that I had to live in. I didn't want to bring anyone into it.

32:48I could not see myself that anybody would accept me. But the thing with that is that I had no

32:56definition of what expectations should be. So they were not guided by the people around me.

33:02And so I would escape to define my expectations. - It's interesting, but you didn't feel

33:07like your dad didn't put you in a prison of expectation? 'Cause like that's, if you don't

33:16have a friend, so the flip side of that, you don't have any other signals. It's very easy to believe

33:21like when you're in a cult that-- - Well, he was angry. He pushed me.

33:29He used me as a mechanism to alleviate his own frustration. And this may sound very crazy,

33:34but he also believed in me. And so that's what created this weird duality where you were just,

33:41I was always confused about-- - You could be somebody great.

33:44He believed that you could be somebody truly special. - I didn't believe him because I

33:50couldn't reconcile then the other half of the day, those behaviors. But what it allowed me to do was

33:57I escaped in my mind and I found these archetypes around me that were saviors to me.

34:06So I grew up in Ottawa, Ontario, Canada. I grew up right at the point where the telecom boom was

34:14happening. Companies like Nortel and Newbridge Networks and Mitel, Bell Northern Research,

34:19these were all built in the suburbs of Ottawa. And so there were these larger than life figures,

34:26entrepreneurs, Terry Matthews, Michael Copeland. And so I thought I'm gonna be like them. I would

34:32read Forbes Magazine. I would read Fortune Magazine. I would look at the rich people on

34:36that list and say, I would be like them. Not knowing that maybe that's not who you wanted to

34:43be, but it was a lifeline. And it kept my mind relatively whole because I could direct my

34:50ambition in a direction. And so why that's so important, just circling back to this is

34:57I didn't have a group of friends who were like, I'm gonna go to community college.

35:00I didn't have a group of friends that said, well, the goal is just to go to university,

35:05get a simple job and join the public service, have a good life. And so because I had no

35:11expectations and I was so afraid to venture out of my own house, I never saw what middle-class

35:16life was like. And so I never aspired to it. Now, if I was close to it, I probably would have

35:21aspired to it because my parents in their best year made 32,000 Canadian together.

35:27And if you're trying to raise a family of five people on $32,000, it's a complicated job.

35:32And most of the time they were probably making 20 something thousand. And I was working since I was

35:3714. So I knew that our station in life was not the destination. We had to get out. But because I

35:46didn't have an obvious place, it's not like I had a best friend whose house I was going to. And

35:50I saw some normal functional home. If I had had that in this weird way, I would have aspired to

35:56that. >> What was the worst job you had to do?

35:59>> The best job, but the worst job was I worked at Burger King when I was 14 years old and I would

36:07do the closing shift. And that was from like 6 PM till about 2 in the morning. And in Ontario,

36:15where I lived, Ottawa borders Quebec. In Ontario, the drinking age is 19. You can see where I'm

36:20going with this. The drinking age in Quebec is 18. And that year made all the difference to all

36:26these kids. And so they would go get completely drunk. They would come back. They would come to

36:31the Burger King. You would see all these kids you went to high school with. Can you imagine how

36:35mortifying it is? You're working there in this getup. And they would light that place on fire,

36:43vomit everywhere, puking, pooing, peeing. And when the thing shuts down at one o'clock,

36:49you got to clean that all up, all of it, changing the garbage, taking it out. It was a grind.

36:59And it really teaches you, okay, I do not want this job. I don't want to.

37:07>> But it's funny that that didn't push you towards the stability and the security of the

37:11middle class like life. >> I didn't have any good examples of that.

37:15I didn't have those around me. I was so ashamed. I could have never built a relationship where I

37:21could have seen those interactions to want that. And so my desires were framed by these two random

37:26rich people that lived in my town who I'd never met, and what I read in magazines about people

37:31like Bill Gates and Warren Buffett. >> You were an early senior executive

37:38at Facebook during a period of a lot of scaling in the company history. I mean,

37:43it's actually a fascinating period of human history in terms of technology.

37:46Well, in terms of human civilization, honestly. What did you learn from that

37:53time about what it takes to build and scale a successful tech company,

37:58a company that has almost immeasurable impact on the world?

38:05>> That was an incredible moment in time because everything was so new. To your point,

38:11like even how the standards of Web 2.0 at that time were being defined, we were defining them.

38:16I mean, I think if you search in the patent library, there's a bunch of these patents that

38:24me and Zuck have for random things like cookies or cross-site JavaScript, all these crazy things

38:31that are just like these duh kind of ideas in 2023. We had to invent our way around how do

38:38websites communicate with each other? How do we build in the cloud versus in a data center? How

38:43do we actually have high-performance systems? >> You mentioned data science, the term and the idea.

38:49>> I invented this thing called data scientist because we had a PhD from Google that refused

38:54to join because he got a job offer that says data analyst. And so we said, "Call him a scientist,"

39:01because he was a PhD in particle physics. So he was a scientist. I said, "Great, you're a scientist

39:05here." >> That launched a discipline.

39:07>> That launched a discipline. >> I mean, a term, what's a rose by

39:11any other name? But yeah, sometimes words like this can launch entire fields. And it did in that

39:18case. I mean, I guess at that time you didn't anticipate the impact of machine learning on

39:24the entirety of this whole process because you need machine learning to have both ads and

39:30recommender systems to have the feed for the social networks. >> Exactly right. The first

39:35real scaled version of machine learning, not AI, but machine learning was this thing that Facebook

39:40introduced called PYMK, which is people you may know. And the simple idea was that can we initiate

39:45a viral mechanic inside the application where you log in, we grab your credentials, we go to your

39:52email inbox, we harvest your address book, we do a compare, we make some guesses, and we start to

40:00present to other people that you may actually know that may not be in your address book.

40:04Really simple, a couple of joins of some tables, whatever. And it started to just go crazy. And

40:09the number of people that you were creating this density and entropy inside this social graph

40:16with what was some really simple, basic math. And that was eye opening for us. And what it led us

40:23down this path of is really understanding the power of all this machine learning. And so that

40:28infused itself into News Feed and how the content that you saw could be tailored to who you were

40:34and the type of person that you were. So there was a moment in time that all of this stuff was so new.

40:39How did you translate the app to multiple languages? How do you launch the company in

40:44all of these countries? - How much of it is just kind of

40:49stumbling into things using your best first principles gut thinking? And how much is it

40:54like five, 10, 15, 20 year vision? How much was thinking about the future of the internet

41:02and the metaverse and the humanity and all that kind of stuff? Because the News Feed,

41:07sounds trivial. - I'll say something.

41:09- But that's like changes everything. - Well, you have to remember, News Feed,

41:14was named and we had this thing where we would just name things what they were. And at the time,

41:23all of these other companies, and if you go back into the Wayback Machine, you can see this,

41:28people would invent an MP3 player and they would come up with some crazy name. Or they would invent

41:37a software product and come up with a crazy name. And it sounded like the pharma industry,

41:43blow Casimab, tag your best friends. And you think, what is this? This makes no sense.

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41:50And this was Zuck's thing. He was like, well, this is a feed of news, so we're going to call it

41:54News Feed. This is where you tag your photos, so we're going to call that photo tagging.

41:59I mean, literally, pretty obvious stuff. So the way that those things came about though,

42:07was very experimentally. And this is where I think it's really important for people

42:11to understand. I think Bezos explains this the best. There is a tendency after things work

42:18to create a narrative fallacy because it feeds your ego. And you want to have been the person

42:25that saw it coming. And I think it's much more honest to say, we were very good probabilistic

42:35thinkers that tried to learn as quickly as possible, meaning to make as many mistakes as

42:42possible. I mean, if you look at this very famous placard that Facebook had from back in the day,

42:47what did it say? It said, move fast and break things. In societal language, that's saying,

42:53make mistakes as quickly as you can. Because the minute you break something, you don't do that by

42:58design. It's not a feature. Theoretically, it's a bug. But he understood that, and we embraced that

43:04idea. I used to run this meeting once a week where the whole goal was, I want to see that there was

43:10a thousand experiments that were run and show me them all from the dumbest to the most impactful.

43:15And we would go through that loop and what did it train people? Not that you got celebrated

43:21for the right answer, but you got celebrated for trying. I ran 12 experiments, 12 failed,

43:28and we'd be like, you're the best. >>COREY: Can I just take a small tangent on

43:33that is that move fast and break things has become like a catchphrase of the thing that

43:41embodies the toxic culture of Silicon Valley in today's discourse, which confuses me. Of course,

43:49words and phrases get sort of captured and so on.

43:52>>COREY: Becomes very reductive. That's a very loaded set of words that together can be,

43:56many years later, people can view very reductive. >>LUIS: Can you steel man each side of that?

44:02So pro move fast and break things and against move fast and break things.

44:08>>COREY: So I think the pro of move fast and break things is saying the following.

44:12There's a space of things we know and a massive space of things we don't know.

44:18And there's a rate of growth of the things we know, but the rate of growth of the things we

44:25don't know is actually, we have to assume growing faster. So the most important thing is to move

44:32into the space of the things we don't know as quickly as possible. And so in order to acquire

44:38knowledge, we're going to assume that the failure mode is the nominal state.

44:44And so we just need to move as quickly as we can, break as many things as possible,

44:50which means things are breaking in code. Do the root cause analysis, figure out how to make things

44:57better and then rapidly move into the space. And he or she who moves fastest into that space will

45:03win. >>LUIS: It doesn't imply

45:05carelessness, right? It doesn't imply moving fast without also aggressively picking up the lessons

45:15from the mistakes you make. >>COREY: Well, again, that's steel

45:18manning the pro, which is it's a thoughtful movement around velocity and acquisition of

45:27knowledge. Now let's steel man the con case. When these systems become big enough,

45:34there is no more room to experiment in an open-ended way because the implications have

45:42broad societal impacts that are not clear upfront. So let's take a different, less controversial

45:49example. If we said Lipitor worked well for all people except South Asians, and there's a specific

45:59immuno response that we can iterate to. And if we move quickly enough, we can run 10,000 experiments

46:05and we think the answer is in that space. Well, the problem is that those 10,000 experiments may

46:11kill 10 million people. So you have to move methodically. When that drug was experimental

46:18and it wasn't being given to 500 million people in the world, moving fast made sense because you

46:25could have a pig model, a mouse model, a monkey model. You could figure out toxicity, but we

46:30picked all that low hanging fruit. And so now these small iterations have huge impacts that need to be

46:37measured and implemented. Different example is like, if you work at Boeing and you have an

46:44implementation that gives you a 2% efficiency by reshaping the wing or adding winglets,

46:49there needs to be a methodical move slow, be right process because mistakes when they compound,

46:57when it's already implemented and at scale have huge externalities that are impossible to measure

47:03until after the fact. And you see this in the 737 max. So that's how one would steel man the

47:09con case, which is that when an industry becomes critical, you got to slow down.

47:14This makes me sad because some industries like Twitter and Facebook are a good example.

47:21They achieve scale very quickly before really exploring the big area of things to learn.

47:31So you basically pick one low hanging fruit and that became your huge success. And now you're

47:38sitting there with that stupid fruit. Completely. Well, so as an example,

47:43if I was running Facebook for a day, the big opportunity in my opinion was really not the

47:53metaverse, but it was actually getting the closest that anybody could get to AGI.

48:01And if I had to steel man that product case, here's how I would have pitched it to the board

48:06and to Zuck. I would have said, "Listen, there are three and a half billion people monthly

48:10using this thing." If we think about human intelligence very reductively,

48:15we would say that there's a large portion of it, which is cognitive. And then there's a large

48:20portion of it, which is emotional. We have the best ability to build a multimodal model

48:26that basically takes all of these massive inputs together to try to intuit how a system would react

48:33to all kinds of stimuli. That to me would have been a profound leap forward for humanity.

48:39Can you dig into that a little bit more? So in terms of, now this is a board meeting,

48:45how would that make Facebook money? I think that you have all of these systems over time

48:54that we don't know could benefit from some layer of reasoning to make it better.

49:02What does Spotify look like when instead of just a very simple recommendation engine,

49:10it actually understands sort of your emotional context and your mood and can move you to a body

49:16of music that you would like? What does it look like if your television, instead of having to go

49:23and channel surf 50,000 shows on a horrible UI, instead just has a sense of what you're into

49:31and shows it to you? What does it mean when you get in your car and it actually drives you to a

49:38place because you should actually eat there even though you don't know it? These are all random

49:43things that make no sense a priori, but it starts to make the person or the provider of that service

49:52the critical reasoning layer for all these everyday products that today would look very

49:57flat without that reasoning. I think you license that and you make a lot of money.

50:01In many ways, instead of becoming more of the pixels that you see, you become more of the

50:07bare metal that actually creates that experience. If you look at the companies that are multi-decade

50:14legacy kinds of businesses, the thing that they have done is quietly and surreptitiously move

50:20down the stack. You never move up the stack to survive. You need to move down the stack.

50:25So if you take that OSI reference stack, these layers of how you build an app from the physical

50:30layer to the transport layer, all the way up to the app layer, you can map from the 1980s,

50:36all the big companies that have been created, all the way from Fairchild Semiconductor and NatSemi

50:41to Intel to Cisco to 3Com, Oracle, Netscape at one point, all the way up to the Googles and

50:50the Facebooks of the world. But if you look at where all the lock-in happened,

50:54it's by companies like Apple, who used to make software saying, "I'm going to get one close.

50:59I'm going to make the bare metal and I'm going to become the platform." Or Google, same thing.

51:04I'm going to create this dominant platform and I'm going to create a substrate that organizes

51:09all this information that's just omnipresent and everywhere. So the key is, if you are lucky

51:15enough to be one of these apps that are in front of people, you better start digging quickly

51:21and moving your way down and get out of the way and disappear. But by disappearing,

51:28you will become much, much bigger and it's impossible to usurp you.

51:33Yeah, I 100% agree with you. That's why you're so smart. This is the depersonalization and

51:42the algorithms that enable depersonalization, almost like a operating system layer. So pushing

51:48away from the interface and the actual system that does the personalization. I think the challenges

51:53there, there's obviously technical challenges, but there's also societal challenges that

51:59it's like in a relationship. If you have an intimate algorithmic connection with

52:06individual humans, you can do both good and bad. And so there's risks that you're taking.

52:12So if you're making a lot of money now as Twitter and Facebook with ads, surface layer ads,

52:19what is the incentive to take the risk of guiding people more? Because you can hurt people, you can

52:27piss off people. I mean, there's a cost to forming a more intimate relationship with the users.

52:36In the short term, I think. You said a really, really key thing, which was a really great

52:41emotional, instinctive reaction, which is when I said the AGI thing, you said, well,

52:47how would you ever make money from that? That is the key. The presumption is that this thing would

52:52not be an important thing at the beginning. And I think what that allows you to do if you were

52:57Twitter or Google or Apple or Facebook, anybody, Microsoft, embarking on building something like

53:02this, is that you can actually have it off the critical path. And you can experiment with this

53:09for years if that's what it takes to find a version one that is special enough where it's

53:15worth showcasing. And so in many ways, you get the free option. You're going to be spending,

53:21any of these companies will be spending tens of billions of dollars in OpEx and CapEx every year

53:26and all kinds of stuff. It is not a thing that money actually makes more likely to succeed.

53:34In fact, you actually don't need to give these kinds of things a lot of money at all, because

53:40starting in 2023, right now, you have the two most important tectonic shifts that have ever

53:47happened in our lifetime in technology. They're not talked about, but these things allow AGI,

53:53I think, to emerge over the next 10 or 15 years where it wasn't possible for.

53:56The first thing is that the marginal cost of energy is zero. You're not going to pay for

54:01anything anymore. And we can double click into why that is. And the second is the marginal cost

54:06of compute is zero. And so when you take the multiplication or, if you want to get really

54:12fancy mathematically, the convolution of these two things together, it's going to change everything.

54:19So think about what a billion dollars gets today. And we can use OpenAI as an example.

54:25A billion dollars gets OpenAI a handful of functional models and a pretty fast iterative

54:32loop, right? But imagine what OpenAI had to overcome. They had to overcome a compute challenge.

54:41They had to strip together a whole bunch of GPUs. They had to build all kinds of scaffolding

54:45software. They had to find data center support. That consumes all kinds of money. So that billion

54:50dollars didn't go that far. So it's a testament to how clever that OpenAI team is. But in four

54:57years from now, when energy costs zero and basically GPUs, they're falling off a truck

55:02and you can use them effectively for free, now all of a sudden a billion dollars gives you some

55:08amount of teraflops of compute that is probably the total number of teraflops available today in

55:14the world. Like that's how gargantuan this move is when you take these two variables to zero.

55:21There's like a million things to ask. I almost don't want to get distracted by

55:25the marginal cost of energy going to zero because I have no idea what you're talking about there.

55:30It's fascinating.

55:30Can I give you the 30 seconds?

55:31Sure.

55:32Okay. So if you look inside of the two most progressive states, the three most progressive

55:37states, New York, California, and Massachusetts, a lot of left-leaning folks, a lot of people who

55:42believe in climate science and climate change, the energy costs in those three states are the

55:46worst they are in the entire country. And energy is compounding at 3% to 4% per annum. So every

55:53decade to 15 years, energy costs in these states double. In some cases and in some months, our

55:59energy costs are increasing by 11% a month. But the ability to actually generate energy

56:09is now effectively zero. The cost per kilowatt hour to put a solar panel on your roof and a

56:15battery wall inside your garage, it's the cheapest it's ever been. These things are the most efficient

56:20they've ever been. And so to acquire energy from the sun and store it for your use later on

56:26literally is a zero cost proposition.

56:28So how do you explain the gap between the cost going up?

56:31Great question. So this is the other side of regulatory capture, right? We all fight to build

56:37monopolies. While there are monopolies hiding in plain sight, the utilities are a perfect example.

56:43There are 100 million homes in America. There are about 1,700 utilities in America. So they have

56:49captive markets. But in return for that captive market, the law says you need to invest a certain

56:56amount per year in upgrading that power line, in changing out that turbine, in making sure you

57:02transition from coal to wind or whatever. Just as an example, upgrading power lines in the United

57:10States over the next decade is a $2 trillion proposition. These 1,700 organizations have to

57:16spend, I think it's a quarter of a trillion dollars a year just to change the power lines.

57:23That is why, even though it costs nothing to make energy, you are paying double every seven or eight

57:29years. It's CapEx and OpEx of a very brittle old infrastructure. It's like you trying to build an

57:36app and being forced to build your own data center. And you say, "But wait, I just want to write to

57:40AWS. I just want to use GCP. I just want to move on. All that complexity is solved for me." And

57:47some law says, "No, you can't. You got to use it." So that's what consumers are dealing with,

57:51but it's also what industrial and manufacturing organizations, it's what we all deal with.

57:56So how do we get rid ourselves of this old infrastructure that we're paying for?

58:00So the thing that's happening today, which I think is... This is why I think it's the most

58:06important trend right now in the world, is that 100 million homeowners are each going to become

58:13their own little power plant and compete with these 1,700 utilities. And that is a great...

58:19In the United States or globally?

58:21No, just deal with the United States for a second, because I think it's easier to see here.

58:25100 million homes, solar panel on the roof. And by the way, just to make it clear, the sun doesn't

58:30need to shine. These panels now work where you have these UV bands that can actually extrapolate

58:36beyond the visible spectrum. So they're usable in all weather conditions. And a simple system can

58:42support you collecting enough power to not just run your functional day-to-day life,

58:48but then to contribute what's left over back into the grid for Google's data center or Facebook's

58:54data center, where you get a small check. The cost is going to zero.

59:00How obvious is this to people? You're making this out?

59:03Not obvious.

59:03Okay. So because this is a pretty profound prediction, if the cost is indeed going to zero,

59:09that... I mean, the compute... The cost of compute going to zero, I can...

59:13So the cost of compute going to zero is simpler to see.

59:16I can kind of understand, but the energy seems like a radical prediction of yours.

59:20Well, it's just naturally what's happening, right? Now, let me give you a different way

59:25of explaining this. If you look at any system, there's a really important thing that happens.

59:31It's what Clay Christensen calls crossing the chasm. If you explained it numerically,

59:36here's how I would explain it to you, Lex. If you introduce a disruptive product,

59:39typically what happens is the first 3% to 5% of people are these zealous believers.

59:47And they ignore all the logical reasons why this product doesn't make any sense,

59:52because they believe in the proposition of the future and they buy it.

59:56The problem is at 5%, if you want a product to get to mass market, you have one of two choices,

60:03which is you either bring the cost down low enough, or the feature set becomes so compelling

60:09that even at a high price point. An example of the latter is the iPhone. The iPhone today,

60:15the 14 iPhone, costs more than the original iPhone. It's probably doubled in price over

60:19the last 14 or 15 years, but we view it as an essential element of what we need in our daily

60:25lives. It turns out that battery EVs and solar panels are an example of the former,

60:31because people like President Biden, with all of these subsidies, have now introduced so much

60:39money for people to just do this, where it is a money-making proposition for 100 million homes.

60:46And what you're seeing as a result are all of these companies who want to get in front of that

60:53trend. Why? Because they want to own the relationship with 100 million homeowners.

60:57They want to manage the power infrastructure, Amazon, Home Depot, Lowe's. Just name the company.

61:05So if you do that and you control that relationship, they're going to show you...

61:10For example, Amazon will probably say, "If you're a member of Prime,

61:13we'll stick the panels on your house for free. We'll do all the work for you for free. And it's

61:20just a feature of being a member of Prime, and we'll manage all that energy for you." It makes

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61:25so much sense, and it is mathematically accretive for Amazon to do that. It's not accretive

61:32for the existing energy industry, because they get blown up. It's extremely accretive for peace

61:38and prosperity. If you think the number of wars we fight over natural resources, take them all

61:43off the table if we don't need energy from abroad. There's no reason to fight. You'd have to find a

61:50reason to fight. Meaning, sorry, there'd be a moral reason to fight, but the last number of wars that

61:55we fought were not as much rooted in morality as they were rooted in... >> Yeah, it feels like

62:01they were very much rooted in conflict over resources, energy specifically.

62:06>> And then, sorry, just the last thing I want to say. I keep interrupting, apologies. But

62:09the chips, what people want to say is that now that we're at two and three nanometer scale

62:17for typical kind of like transistor fab, we're done. And forget about transistor density,

62:23forget about Moore's Law, it's over. And I would just say, "No." Look at teraflops,

62:27and really teraflops is the combination of CPUs, but much and much less important,

62:33and really is the combination of ASICs, so application specific ICs and GPUs.

62:37And so you put the two together. I mean, if I gave you a billion dollars five years from now,

62:43the amount of damage you could do, damage in good way, in terms of building racks and racks of GPUs,

62:50the kind of models that you could build, the training sets and the data that you could consume

62:54to solve a problem, it's enough to do something really powerful. Whereas today, it's not yet

63:00quite enough. >> So there's this really

63:02interesting idea that you talk about in terms of Facebook and Twitter that's connected to this,

63:08that if you were running sort of Twitter or Facebook, that you would move them all to like AWS.

63:15So you would have somebody else to compute the infrastructure. It probably, if you could explain

63:23that reasoning, means that you believe in this idea of energy going to zero, compute going to

63:28zero. So let people that are optimized in that do the best job. >> And I think that's, you know,

63:35initially in the early 2000s and the beginning of the 2010s, if you were big enough scale,

63:43oh, sorry, everybody was building their own stuff. Then between 2010 through 2020,

63:49really the idea was everybody should be on AWS except the biggest of the biggest folks.

63:54I think in the 2020s and 30s, I think the answer is actually everybody should be in these public

64:02clouds. And the reason is the engineering velocity of the guts. So, you know, take a simple example,

64:10which is, you know, we have not seen a massive iteration in database design until Snowflake,

64:15right? I think maybe Postgres was like the last big turn of the dial.

64:18Why is that? I don't exactly know, except that everybody that's on AWS and everybody that's on

64:26GCP and Azure gets to now benefit from a hundred plus billion dollars of aggregate market cap,

64:34rapidly iterating, making mistakes, fixing, solving, learning. And that is a best in class

64:43industry now, right? Then there's going to be all these AI layers around analytics so that app

64:51companies can make better decisions. All of these things will allow you to build more nimble

64:56organizations because you'll have this federated model of development. I'll take these things off

65:02the shelf. Maybe I'll roll my own stitching over here because the thing that where you make money

65:09is still for most people and how the apps provision an experience to a user. And everybody else can

65:15make a lot of money just servicing that. So they work in a really, they play well together in the

65:21sandbox. So in the future, everybody just should be there. It doesn't make sense for anybody,

65:27I don't think, because, you know, if you were to roll your own data centers, you know, for example,

65:32like Google for a long time had these massive leaps where they had GFS and Bigtable. Those are

65:37really good in the 2000s and 2010s. And this is not just to throw shade at Google. It's very hard

65:44for whatever exists that is the progeny of GFS and Bigtable to be anywhere near as good as a

65:49hundred billion dollar industry's attempt to build that stack. And you're putting your organization

65:56under enormous pressure to be that good. >> I guess the implied risk taken there is that you

66:01could become the next AWS, like Tesla doing some of the compute in-house. I guess the bet there is

66:10that you can become the next AWS for the new wave of computation if that level, if that kind of

66:20computation is different. So if it's machine learning, I don't know if anyone's won that

66:25battle yet, which is machine learning centric compute. >> Well, I think that software has a

66:30very powerful property in that there's a lot of things that can happen asynchronously so that

66:37real-time inference can be actually really lightweight code deployment. And that's why

66:42I think you can have a very federated ecosystem inside of all of these places. Tesla is very

66:48different because in order to build the best car, it's kind of like trying to build the best iPhone,

66:55which is that you need to control it all the way down to the bare metal in order to do it well.

66:59And that's just not possible if you're trying to be a systems integrator, which is what everybody

67:05other than this modern generation of car companies have been. And they've done a very good job of

67:11that, but it won't be the experience that allows you to win in the next 20 years.

67:16>> So let's linger on the social media thing. So you said if you ran Facebook for a day,

67:24let's extend that. If you were to build a new social network today, how would you fix

67:32Twitter? How would you fix social media? If you want to answer a different question,

67:38is if you were Elon Musk, somebody you know, and you were taking over Twitter, what would you fix?

67:44>> I've thought about this a little bit. First of all, let me give you a backdrop. I wouldn't

67:51actually build a social media company at all. And the answer is the reasoning is the following.

67:56I really tend to believe, as you probably got in a sense of sort of patterns and probabilities.

68:03And if you said to me, "Smath, probabilistically answer where are we going in apps and social

68:11experiences?" What I would say is, "Lex, we spent the first decade building platforms and getting

68:18them to scale." And if you want to think about it again, back to sort of this poker analogy,

68:23others' mistakes minus your mistakes is the value. Well, the value that was captured

68:28was trillions of dollars, essentially to Apple and to Google. And they did that by basically

68:35attracting billions of monthly active users to their platform.

68:42Then this next wave were the apps, Facebook, QQ, Tencent, TikTok, Twitter, Snapchat,

68:50that whole panoply of apps. And interestingly, they were in many ways an atomized version

68:58of the platforms, right? They sat on top of them. They were an ecosystem participant.

69:03But the value they created was the same. Trillions of dollars of enterprise value,

69:10billions of monthly active users. Well, there's an interesting phenomenon that's kind of

69:16hiding in plain sight, which is that the next most obvious atomic unit are content creators.

69:24Now, let me give you two examples. Lex Friedman, this random crazy guy, Mr. Beast,

69:30Jimmy Donaldson, just the two of you alone, add it up, okay? And you guys are going to approach

69:37in the next five years a billion people. The only thing that you guys haven't figured out yet is how

69:41to capture trillions of dollars of value. Now, maybe you don't want to, and maybe that's not

69:45your stated mission. >> Right, right. But let's just look at Mr.

69:47Beast alone because he is trying to do exactly that probably.

69:50>> Yeah, and I think Jimmy is going to build an enormous business. But if you take Jimmy and all

69:54of the other content creators, right, you guys are atomizing what the apps have done.

70:01You're providing your own curated news feeds. You're providing your own curated communities.

70:07You're allowed, you let people move in and out of these things in a very lightweight way,

70:12and value is accruing to you. So the honest answer to your question is I would focus on

70:16the content creator side of things because I believe that's where the puck is going.

70:21That's a much more important shift in how we all consume information and content and are

70:27entertained. It's through brands like you, individual people that we can humanize and

70:31understand are the filter. >> But aren't you just arguing against

70:37the point you made earlier, which is what you would recommend is the invest in the AGI,

70:41the depersonalization? >> Because they could still be a

70:46participant. In that end state, if that happens, you have the option value of being an enabler of

70:51that, right? You can help improve what they do. Again, you can be this bare metal service provider

70:57where you can be a tax, right? You can participate in everything that you do,

71:04every question that's asked, every comment that's curated. If you could have more intelligence as

71:09you provide a service to your fans and your audience, you would probably pay a small

71:13percentage of that revenue. I suspect all content creators would. And so it's that stack of services

71:20that is like a smart human being. It's like, how do you help produce this information? You would pay

71:24a producer for that. I mean, maybe you would. But so back to your question. So what would I do?

71:28I think that you have to move into that world pretty aggressively. I think that right now you

71:35first have to solve what is broken inside of these social networks. And I don't think it's

71:41a technical problem. So just to put it out there, I don't think it's one where there are these

71:47nefarious organizations. That happens. Brigading XYZ, that happens. But the real problem is a

71:55psychological one that we're dealing with, which is people through a whole set of situations

72:03have lost belief in themselves. And I think that that

72:15comes up as this very virulent form of rejection that they tried to put into these social networks.

72:20So if you look inside of comments on anything, you could have a person that says on Twitter,

72:25I saved this dog from a fiery building. And there would be negative commenters.

72:32And you're like, well, again, put yourself in their shoes. How do I steel man their case? I do

72:38this all the time. I get people throw shade at me. I'm like, OK, let me steel man their point of view.

72:44And the best that I can come up with is I'm working really hard over here. I'm trying. I played by all

72:50the rules that were told to me. I've played well. I've played fairly. And I am not being rewarded

72:56in a system of value that you recognize. And that is making me mad. And now I need to cope and I

73:03need to vent. So back in the day, my dad used to drink. He would make me go get things to hit me

73:09with. Today, you go to Twitter, you spot off, you try to deal with the latent anger that you feel.

73:15So a social network has to be designed, in my opinion, to solve that psychological corner case,

73:21because it is what makes a network unusable. To get real density, you have to find a way

73:28of moving away from that toxicity because it ruins a product experience. You could have the

73:33best pixels in the world. But if people are virulently spitting into their keyboards,

73:39other people are just going to say, you know what, I'm done with this. It doesn't make me feel good.

73:44So the social network has to have a social cost. You can do it in a couple of ways. One is where

73:51you have real world identity. So then there's a cost to being virulent and there's a cost to being

73:57caustic. A second way is to actually just overlay an economic framework so that there's a more

74:04pertinent economic value that you assign to basically spouting off. And the more you want

74:09to spend, the more you can say. And I think both have a lot of value. I don't know what the right

74:15answer is. I tend to like the latter. I think real world identity shuts down a lot of debate

74:21because there's still too much, you know, there's a sensation that there'll be some retribution.

74:27So I think there's more free speech over there, but it cannot be costless because in that there's

74:34a level of toxicity that just makes these products unusable. - Third option, and by the way, all these

74:41work together. If we look at this, what you call the corner case, which is hilarious,

74:47what I would call the human condition, which is, you know, that anger is rooted with the challenges

74:57of life. And what about having an algorithm that shows you what you see that's personalized to you

75:10and helps you maximize your personal growth in the longterm such that you're challenging yourself,

75:18you're improving, you're learning. There's just enough of criticism to keep you on your toes,

75:26but just enough of like the dopamine rush to keep you entertained and finding that balance for each

75:32individual person. - You just described an AGI of a very empathetic, well-rounded friend. - Yes,

75:38exactly. And then you can throw that person, even anonymous, into a pool of discourse. - 100%.

75:45- And they would be better. - I think you're absolutely right.

75:47That is a very, very, very elegant way of stating it. You're absolutely right. - But like you said,

75:51the AGI might be a few years away, so that's a huge investment. My concern, my gut feeling is

75:59this thing we're calling AGI is actually not that difficult to build technically, but it requires a

76:06certain culture and it requires certain risks to be taken. - I think you could reductively boil down

76:13the human intellect into cognition and emotion. And depending on who you are and depending on the

76:23moment, they're weighted very differently, obviously. Cognition is so easily done by computers

76:31that we should assume that that's a solved problem. So our differentiation is the reasoning

76:36part. It's the emotional overlay. It's the empathy. It's the ability to steelman the

76:40opposite person's case and feel why that person, you can forgive them without excusing what they

76:47did, as an example. That is a very difficult thing, I think, to capture in software, but

76:54I think it's a matter of when, not if. - If done crudely, it takes a form of censorship,

77:03just banning people off the platform. Let me ask you some tricky questions. Do you think

77:11Trump should have been removed from Twitter? - No. - What's the pro case? I'm having fun here.

77:18- Do you steelman each side? - Yeah. Let's steelman the get him off the platform.

77:25Here we have a guy who is virulent in all ways. He promotes confrontation. He lacks decorum. He

77:40incites the fervent believers of his cause to act up and push the boundaries bordering on

77:48and potentially even including breaking the law. He does not observe the social norms of a society

77:56that keep us well-functioning, including an orderly transition of power. If he is left in

78:01a moment where he feels trapped and cornered, he could behave in ways that will confuse the people

78:08that believe in him to act in ways that they so regret that it could bring our democracy to an end

78:17or create so much damage or create a wound that's so deep it will take years of conflict and years

78:24of confrontation to heal it. We need to remove him and we need to do it now. It's been too long.

78:31We've let it go on too long. The other side of the argument would be he was a duly elected person

78:39whose views have been run over for way too long. He uses the ability to say extreme things in order

78:49to showcase how corrupt these systems have become and how insular these organizations are in

78:57protecting their own class. If you really want to prevent class warfare and if you really want to

79:03keep the American dream alive for everybody, we need to show that the First Amendment, the

79:09Constitution, the Second Amendment, all of this infrastructure is actually bigger than any partisan

79:15view no matter how bad it is and that people will make their own decisions. There are a lot of people

79:24that can see past the words he uses and focus on the substance of what he's trying to get across

79:32and more generally agree than disagree. When you silence that voice, what you're effectively saying

79:38is this is a rigged game and all of those things that we were told were not true are actually true.

79:45If you were to look at the crude algorithms of Twitter, of course, I don't have any insider

79:50knowledge, but I could imagine that they saw the... Let's say there's a metric that measures

79:59how negative the experience is of the platform and they probably saw in several ways. You could

80:06look at this, but the presence of Donald Trump on the platform was consistently increasing how

80:13shitty people are feeling short-term and long-term because they're probably yelling at each other,

80:19having worse and worse and worse experience. If you even do a survey of how do you feel about

80:23using this platform over the last week, they would say horrible relative to maybe a year ago when

80:30Donald Trump was not actively tweeting or so on. So here you're sitting at Twitter and saying,

80:35"Okay, I know everyone's talking about speech and all that kind of stuff, but I kind of want

80:41to build a platform where the users are happy and they're becoming more and more unhappy. How do I

80:47solve this happiness problem?" Well, let's ban the sources of the unhappiness. Now, we can't just say

80:58you're a source of unhappiness, we'll ban you. Let's wait until that source says something

81:03that we can claim breaks our rules, like incites violence or so on.

81:09That would work if you could measure your construct of happiness properly. The problem is,

81:15I think what Twitter looked at were active commenters and got it confused for overall

81:19system happiness. Because for every piece of content that's created on the internet,

81:23of the 100 people that consume it, maybe one or two people comment on it.

81:27And so by overamplifying that signal and assuming that it was the plurality of people, that's where

81:34they actually made a huge blunder. Because there was no scientific method, I think, to get to the

81:40answer of deplatforming him. And it did expose this idea that it's a bit of a rigged game,

81:46and that there are these deep biases that some of these organizations have

81:52to opinions that are counter to theirs and to their orthodox view of the world.

81:57So in general, you lean towards keeping, first of all, presidents on the platform, but also

82:08controversial voices. All the time. I think it's really important to keep them there.

82:13Let me ask you a tricky one in the recent news that's become especially relevant for me. What

82:20do you think about if you've been paying attention to Kanye West, a recent controversial outburst on

82:26social media about Jews, black people, racism in general, slavery, Holocaust, all of these topics

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82:40that he touched on in different ways on different platforms, including Twitter. What do you do with

82:48that? And what do you do with that from a platform perspective, and what do you do from a humanity

82:54perspective of how to add love to the world? >> Should we take both sides of that?

83:01>> Sure. >> Option one is he is

83:04completely out of line, and option two is he's not. Just to simplify.

83:09>> Sure, right. >> So the path one is he's an incredibly

83:17important tastemaker in the world that defines the belief system for a lot of people.

83:24And there just is no room for any form of racism or bias or antisemitism in today's day and age,

83:33particularly by people whose words and comments will be amplified around the world. We've already

83:39paid a large price for that. And then the expectation of success is some amount of

83:46societal decorum that keeps moving the ball forward. The other side would say,

83:52"Life, I think, goes from harmony to disharmony to repair." And anybody who has gone through a

84:02very complicated divorce will tell you that in that moment, your life is extremely disharmonious,

84:11and you are struggling to cope. And because he is famous, we are seeing a person really

84:21struggling in a moment that may need help. And we owe it to him, not for what he said,

84:28because that stuff isn't excusable, but we owe it to him to help him in a way,

84:35and particularly his friends. And if he has real friends, hopefully what they see is that.

84:41What I see on the outside looking in is a person that is clearly struggling.

84:47Can I ask you a human question? And I know it's outside looking in, but there's several questions

84:55I want to ask. So one is about the pain of going through a divorce and having kids and all that

85:01kind of stuff. And two, when you're rich and powerful and famous, I don't know, maybe you can

85:08enlighten me to which is the most corruptive, but how do you know who are the friends to trust?

85:16So a lot of the world is calling Kanye insane, or has mental illness, all that kind of stuff.

85:26And so how do you have friends close to you that say something like that message, but from a place

85:33of love and where they actually care for you, as opposed to trying to get you to shut up?

85:40The reason I ask all those questions, I think, if you care about the guy, how do you help him?

85:47Right. I've been through a divorce. It's gut-wrenching. The most horrible part

85:54is having to tell your kids. I can't even describe to you how proud I am of and how

86:01resilient these three beautiful little creatures were when my ex-wife and I had to sit them down

86:06and talk through it. And for that thing, I'll be just so protective of them and so proud of them.

86:18It's hard. Now, I don't know that that's what he went through, but it doesn't matter. In that

86:24moment, there's no fame, there's no money, there's nothing. There's just the raw intimacy of a

86:28nuclear family breaking up. And that, there is a death, and it's the death of that idea.

86:34And that is extremely, extremely profound in its impact, especially in your children.

86:41It is really hard, really hard.

86:46Could you have seen yourself in the way you see the world being clouded during,

86:51especially at first, to where you would make poor decisions outside of that nuclear family? So,

86:58like, poor business decisions, poor tweeting decisions, poor writing decisions.

87:05If I had to boil down a lot of those, what I would say is that there are moments in my life,

87:11Lex, where I have felt meaningfully less than. And in those moments, the loop that I would fall

87:19into is I would look to cope and be seen by other people. So, I would throw away all of the work I

87:26was doing around my own internal validation, and I would try to say something or do something that

87:32would get the attention of others. And oftentimes, when that loop was unproductive, it's because

87:39those things had really crappy consequences. So, yeah, I went through that as well. So,

87:48I had to go through this disharmonious phase in my life and then to repair it.

87:53I had the benefit of meeting someone and building a relationship block by block

88:02where there was just enormous accountability, where my partner Nat has just incredible empathy

88:12but accountability. And so, she can put herself in my shoes sometimes when I'm a really tough

88:20person to be around, but then she doesn't let me off the hook. She can forgive me,

88:25but it doesn't make what I may have said or whatever excusable. And that's been really

88:32healthy for me, and it's helped me repair my relationships, be a better parent, be a better

88:38friend to my ex-wife, who's a beautiful woman who I love deeply and will always love her.

88:44And it took me a few years to see that, that it was just a chapter that had come to an end,

88:49but she's an incredible mother and an incredible businesswoman. And I'm so thankful that I've had

88:55two incredible women in my life. That's like a blessing.

88:58- But it's hard. So, with Nat, it's hard to find a person that has that. I mean,

89:03a lot of stuff you said is pretty profound, but having that person who has empathy and

89:08accountability. So, basically, that's ultimately what great friendship is, which is people that

89:15love you, have empathy for you, but can also call you out on your bullshit.

89:18- She's a LeBron James-like figure. And the reason I say that is I've seen and met so many people.

89:25I've seen the distribution on the scale of friendship and empathy.

89:29- She's the LeBron James of friendship.

89:32- She's a GOAT. Well, what's so funny is we have a dinner around poker,

89:37and it's taken on a life of its own, mostly because of her, because these guys look to her.

89:44And I'm like, "Whoa, whoa, whoa. She's taken, like... Her registers are already full. She's

89:51thinking of all kinds of crap with me." But it's a very innate skill, and it's paired with...

89:59But it's not just an emotional thing, meaning she's the person that I make all my decisions with.

90:06These decisions we're making together as a team, I've never understood that. You know,

90:10there's that African proverb, like, "Go fast, go alone. Go far, go together." And,

90:18like, since I was born, I was by myself, and I had to cope, and I didn't have a good toolkit

90:23to use into the world. And in these last five or six years, she's helped me. And at first,

90:28my toolkit was literally like sticks, you know? And then I found a way to... You know,

90:34she helped me sharpen a little rock, and that became a little knife, but even that was crap.

90:38And then she showed me fire, and then I forged a knife. And that's what it feels like, where now

90:43this toolkit is like most average people. And I feel humbled to be average, because I was here,

90:52down here on the ground. So it's made all these things more reasonable. So I see what comes from

91:00having deep, profound friendships and love to help you through these critical moments.

91:05I have another friend who I would say just completely unabashedly loves me,

91:12this guy Rob Goldberg. He doesn't hold me accountable that much, which I love. Like,

91:16I could say I killed a homeless person. He's like, "Ah, they probably deserved it."

91:19You know? Whereas Nat would be like, "That was not good, what you just did."

91:23But I have both. I mean, I have Nat every day. You know, Rob, I don't talk to that often. But

91:29to have two people, I had zero. I think most people, unfortunately, have zero.

91:37So I think what he needs is somebody to just listen. You don't have to put a label on these

91:45things. And you just have to try to guide in these very unique moments where you can just

91:51like de-escalate what is going on in your mind. And I suspect what's going on in his mind, again,

91:58to play armchair quarterback, I don't know, is that he is in a moment where he just feels lower

92:04than low. And we all do it. We've all had these moments where we don't know how to get attention.

92:11And if you didn't grow up in a healthy environment, you may go through a negative

92:16way to get attention. And it's not to excuse it, but it's to understand it.

92:22That's so profound, the feeling less than and at those low points going externally to find it.

92:33And maybe creating conflict and scandal to get that attention.

92:40The way that my doctor explained it to me is you have to think about your self-worth

92:47like a knot. It's inside of a very complicated set of knots. So it's like some people don't

92:54have these knots. It's just presented to you on a platter. But for some of us,

92:58because of the way we grow up, it's covered in all these knots. So the whole goal is to

93:05loosen those knots. And it happens slowly. It happens unpredictably. And it takes a long time.

93:11And so while you're doing that, you are going to have moments where when you feel less than,

93:16you're not prepared to look inside and say, "Actually, here's how I feel about myself.

93:21It's pretty cool. I'm happy with where I'm at."

93:26I have to ask on the topic of friendship. You do an amazing podcast called All In Podcast.

93:32People should stop listening to this and go listen to that. You just did your 100th episode.

93:37I mean, it's one of my favorite podcasts. It's incredible. For the technical and the human

93:46psychological wisdom that you guys constantly give in the way you analyze the world, but also

93:53just the chemistry between you. You're clearly—there's a tension, and there's a camaraderie

94:01that's all laid out on the table. So I don't know the two Davids that well, but I have met Jason.

94:08What do you love about him?

94:10I mean, I'll give you a little psychological breakdown of all three of these guys.

94:13Sure.

94:14Just my opinion. And I love you guys.

94:18Would they agree with your psychological breakdown?

94:22I don't know. I think that what I would say about J. Cal is he is unbelievably loyal to no end.

94:33And he's like any of those movies which are about the mafia or whatever, where something bad's going

94:43wrong and you need somebody to show up. That's J. Cal.

94:46So if you killed the said proverbial homeless person, he would be right there to help you.

94:51He'd bury the body.

94:51Yeah.

94:52But he's the one that he'll defend you in every way, shape, or form, even if it doesn't make

94:57sense in that moment. He doesn't see that as an action of whether it'll solve the problem. He sees

95:03that as an act of devotion to you, your friend. And that's an incredible gift that he gives us.

95:08The other side of it is that J. Cal needs to learn how to trust that other people love him

95:16back as much as he loves us. And that's where he makes mistakes, because he assumes that he's not

95:23as lovable as the rest of us. But he's infinitely more lovable than he understands. You have to see

95:29Lex. He is unbelievably funny. I cannot tell you how funny this guy is. Next level funny.

95:37Yeah, his timing, everything.

95:38Timing, charm, the care he takes. So he is as lovable, but he doesn't believe himself to be

95:46and that manifests itself in areas that drive us all crazy from time to time.

95:50Which makes it for a very pleasant listening experience. Okay, so what about the two Davids,

95:55David Sachs and David Friedberg?

95:57David Sachs is the one that I would say I have the most emotional connection with.

96:01He and I can go a year without talking, and then we'll talk for four hours straight.

96:07And then we know where we are, and we have this ability to pick up and have a level of intimacy

96:12with each other. And I think that's just because I've known David for so long now.

96:16That I find really comforting. And then Friedberg is this person who I think similar to me,

96:24had a very turbulent upbringing, has fought through it to build an incredible life for himself.

96:30And I have this enormous respect for his journey. I don't particularly care about his outcomes,

96:36to be honest, but I just have, I look at that guy and I think, "He did it." And so if I didn't do it,

96:43I would be glad that he did it, if it makes any sense. And you can see that he

96:52feels like his entire responsibility is really around his kids. And to give a better counterfactual

97:05and sometimes I think he gets that right and wrong, but he's a very special human being.

97:11On that show, the two of you have a very kind of, like from a geopolitics perspective,

97:18I don't know, there's just a very effective way to think deeply about the world,

97:25the big picture of the world.

97:27He's a very systems level thinker, which I really, really like.

97:30Yeah, very, very.

97:31Absolutely.

97:32Very systems level. So looking at everything.

97:34And he's very rooted in a broad body of knowledge, which I have a tremendous respect for. He brings

97:42all these things in. Sachs is incredible because he has this unbelievable understanding of things,

97:48but it has a core nucleus. So Freeberg can just basically abstract a whole bunch of systems and

97:54talk about it. I tend to be more like that where I try to kind of, I find it to be more of a puzzle.

97:59Sachs is more like anchored in a philosophical and historical context as the answer.

98:05And he starts there, but he gets to these profound understandings of systems as well.

98:10On the podcast, in life, you guys hold to your opinion pretty strong.

98:15What's the secret to being able to argue passionately with friends?

98:21So hold your position, but also not murder each other, which you guys seem to come close to.

98:28I think it's like strong opinions, weakly held.

98:31So I think that's the root.

98:34Wait, is that a haiku or is that, can you explain that please?

98:39Yeah, like look today, you and I, we steel man like the two sides of three different things.

98:46Now you could be confused and think I believe in those things. I believe that it's important to be

98:54able to intellectually traverse there, whether I believe in it or not. And like steel man, not

98:58strong man. That's a really-

98:59But we intro those things by saying, let us steel man this position. Sometimes you guys skip the-

99:05You're right. We edit those things out and sometimes we'll sit on either sides and we'll

99:09just kind of bat things back and forth just to see what the other person thinks.

99:14So that's how, like as fans, we should listen to that sometimes.

99:19Sometimes.

99:19So sometimes, 'cause you hold a strong opinion sometimes. Like for example, the cost of energy

99:25going to zero, is that, like what's the degree of certainty on that? Is this kind of like you

99:33really taking a prediction of how the world will unroll and if it does, this will benefit a huge

99:42amount of companies and people that will believe that idea. So you really, you spend a few days,

99:49a few weeks with that idea.

99:51I've been spending two years with that idea. And that idea has manifested into

99:56many pages and pages of more and more branches of a tree. But it started with that idea. So if

100:06you think about this tree, this logical tree that I built, I would consider it more of a mosaic.

100:11And at the base or root, however you want to talk about it, is this idea, the incremental cost of

100:16energy goes to zero. How does it manifest? And so I talked about one traversal, which is the

100:22competition of households versus utilities. But if even some of that comes to pass, we're going

100:29to see a bunch of other implications from a regulatory and technology perspective. If some

100:33of those come to pass, so I've tried to think sort of this six, seven, eight hops forward.

100:41And I have some, to use a chess analogy, I have a bunch of short lines, which I think can work.

100:47And I've started to test those by making investments, tens of millions over here to

100:53a hundred millions over there. But it's a distribution based on how probabilistic I

100:59think these outcomes are and how downside protected I can be and how much I will learn,

101:04how many mistakes I can make, et cetera. And then very quickly over the next two years,

101:09some of those things will happen or not happen, and I will rapidly re-underwrite.

101:13And I'll rewrite that tree. And then I'll get some more data. I'll make some more investments.

101:19And I'll rapidly re-underwrite. So in order for me to get to this tree, maybe you can ask,

101:25how did I get there? It was a complete accident. The way that it happened was I have a friend of

101:31mine who works at a great organization called Fortress. His name is Drew McKnight. And he

101:34called me one day and he said, "Hey, I'm doing a deal. Will you anchor it? We're going public.

101:38And it's a rare earth mining company." And I said, "Drew, I'm going to get tarred and feathered in

101:45Silicon Valley for backing a mining company." And he said, "Samath, just talk to the guy and learn."

101:49And the guy, Jim Latinsky, blew me away. He's like, "Here's what it means for energy. And

101:55here's what it means for the supply chain. And here's what it means for the United States versus

101:58China." But Lex, I did that deal. And then I did seven others. And that deal made money.

102:05The seven others did not. But I learned, I made enough mistakes where the net of it was I got to

102:12a thesis that I believed in. I could see it. And I was like, "Okay, I paid the price. I acquired

102:18the learning. I made my mistakes. I know where I am at. And this is step one." And then I learned a

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102:24little bit more. I made some more investments. And that's how I do the job. The minute that you

102:30try to wait for perfection in order to make a bet either on yourself or a company,

102:35a girlfriend, whatever, it's too late. So if we just linger on that tree,

102:41it seems like a lot of geopolitics, a lot of international military even conflict is around

102:48energy. So how does your thinking about energy connect to what you see happening in the next

102:5510, 20 years? Maybe you can look at the war in Ukraine or relationship with China and other

103:03places through this lens of energy. What's the hopeful, what's the cynical trajectory that the

103:09world might take through with this drive towards zero energy, zero cost energy?

103:14So the United States was in a period of energy surplus until the last few years, some number of

103:20years in Trump and I think some number of now the current administration with President Biden.

103:24But we know what it means to basically have more than enough energy to fund our own domestic

103:33manufacturing and living standards. And I think that by being able to generate this energy from

103:40the sun that is very capex efficient, that is very climate efficient, gives us a huge tailwind.

103:47The second thing is that we are now in a world, in a regime for many years to come of non-zero

103:54interest rates. And it may interest you to know that the really the last time that we had long

104:04dated wars supported at low interest rates was World War II, where I think the average interest

104:10rates was like 1.07% in the 10 year. And every other war tends to have these very quick opening

104:17closes because these long protracted fights get very difficult to finance when rates are non-zero.

104:24So just as an example, even starting in 2023, so the practical example today in the United States

104:30is President Biden's budget is about 1.5 trillion for next year. That's not including the entitlement

104:37spending, meaning Medicare, Social Security. So the stuff that he wants to spend that he has

104:43discretion over is about 1.582 trillion is the exact number. Next year, our interest payments

104:49are going to be $455 billion. That's 29% of every budget dollar is going to pay interest.

104:57So you have these two worlds coming together, right, Lex? If you have us hurtling forward

105:05to being able to generate our own energy and the economic peril that comes with trying to underwrite

105:11several trillion dollars for war, which we can't afford to pay when rates are at 5%,

105:16means that despite all the bluster, the probabilistic distribution of us engaging

105:23in war with Russia and Ukraine seems relatively low. The override would obviously be a moral

105:31reason to do it. That may or may not come if there is some nuclear proliferation.

105:38But now you have to steel man the other side of the equation, which is, well, what were to happen

105:44if you were sitting there and you were Putin? Let's steel man setting off a tactical nuke

105:48someplace. OK, I'm getting calls every other day from my two largest energy buyers, India and China,

105:57telling me, slow my roll. I have the entire world looking to find the final excuse to turn me off

106:07and unplug me from the entire world economy. The only morally reprehensible thing that's left in

106:13my arsenal that could do all of these things together would be to set off a tactical nuke.

106:18I would be the only person since World War II to have done that.

106:21I mean, it seems like it's a really, really, really big step to take. And so I think that

106:33X of the clamoring for war that the military industrial complex wants us to buy into,

106:39the financial reasons to do it and the natural resources needs to do it are making it very

106:47unlikely. That is not just true for us. I think it's also true for Europe. I think the European

106:54economy is going to roll over. I think it's going-- I see a very hard landing for them,

107:00which means that if the economy slows down, there's going to be less need for energy.

107:05And so it starts to become a thing where a negotiated settlement is actually the win-win

107:12for everybody. But none of this would be possible without zero interest rates. In a world of zero

107:19interest rates, we would be in war. >> So you believe in the financial forces

107:26and pressures overpowering the human ones? >> I believe in the invisible hand. I really

107:31do believe in the invisible hand. >> Even in international war?

107:34>> More so there. I think the invisible hand-- and by the invisible hand for the audience,

107:39I think really what it means is the financial complex and really the central bank complex and

107:46the interplay between fiscal and monetary policy is a very convoluted and complicated set of things.

107:53But if we had zero interest rates, we would be probably in the middle of it now.

108:01>> See, there's a complexity to this game at the international level where some nations

108:09are authoritarian and there's significant corruption. And so that adds from a game

108:17theoretic optimal perspective, the invisible hand is operating in the mud.

108:23>> Preventing war. The person that is the most important figure in the world right now is Jerome

108:30Powell. He is probably doing more to prevent war than anybody else. He keeps ratcheting rates.

108:35It's just impossible. It's a mathematical impossibility for the United States unless

108:39there is such a cataclysmic moral transgression by Russia. So there is tail risk that it is possible

108:44where we say, "Forget it. All bets are off. We're going back to zero rates. Issue a 100-year bond.

108:50We're going to finance a war machine." There is a small risk of that. But I think the propensity of

108:56the majority of outcomes is more of a negotiated settlement.

108:58>> So what about, I mean, what's the motivation of Putin to invade Ukraine in the first place?

109:04Financial forces are the most powerful forces. Why did it happen? Because it seems like there's

109:15other forces at play of maintaining superpower status on the world stage. It seems like geopolitics

109:25doesn't happen just with the invisible hand in consideration.

109:29>> I agree with that. I can't beg to know, to be honest. I don't know. But he did it.

109:35And I think it's easier for me to guess the outcome from here. It would have been impossible

109:42for me to really understand. It is what got him to this place. But it seems like there's an end

109:49game here, and there's not much playability. >> Yeah. I feel like I'm on unsteady ground

109:57because there's been so many experts at every stage of this that have been wrong.

110:01>> Well, there are no experts. >> Well, on this...

110:04>> There are no experts, Lex. >> I understand this. Well,

110:10let's dig into that because we just said Phil Hellmuth is the greatest poker player of all time.

110:17>> He has an opinion. >> Yeah.

110:18>> He doesn't... They would be mistaken... >> Phil, Ivey is an expert at poker.

110:22>> Phil has an opinion. Ivey has an opinion as well on how to play all these games,

110:26meaning an opinion means here's the lines I take, here are the decisions I make. I live and die by

110:32those, and if I'm right, I win. If I'm wrong, I lose. I've made more mistakes than my opponent.

110:37>> I thought you said there's an optimal. So aren't there people that have a deeper

110:43understanding, a higher likelihood of being able to describe and know the optimal set of actions

110:50here at every layer? >> Well, there may be a theoretically

110:55set of optimal decisions, but you can't play your life against a computer, meaning the minute that

111:04you face an opponent and that person takes you off that optimal path, you have to adjust.

111:08>> Yeah. Like what happens if a tactical nuke... >> It would be really bad.

111:17I think the world is resilient enough. I think the Ukrainians are resilient enough to overcome it.

111:22It would be really bad. It's just an incredibly sad moment in human history.

111:26>> But do you wonder what US does? Is there any understanding? Do you think people inside

111:31the United States understand? Not the regular citizens, but people in the military. Do you

111:37think Joe Biden understands? Do you think... >> I think Joe Biden does understand. I think that...

111:41>> You think they have a clear plan? >> I think that there are few reasons to let

111:47the gerontocracy rule, but this is one of the reasons where I think they are better adept than

111:52other people. Folks that were around during the Bay of Pigs, folks that hopefully have studied

111:58that and studied nuclear de-escalation will have a better playbook than I do. My suspicion

112:07is that there is an in an emergency break glass plan. I think before military intervention or

112:15anything else, I think that there are an enormous number of financial sanctions

112:23that you can do to just completely cripple Russia that they haven't undertaken yet.

112:29If you couple that with an economic system in Europe that is less and less in need of energy,

112:37because it is going into a recession, it makes it easier for them to be able to walk away,

112:44while the US ships a bunch of LNG over there. I don't know the game theory on all of this, but...

112:50>> Does it make you nervous that... Or we're just being temperamental? It feels like the world hangs

112:58in a balance. It feels like, at least from my naive perspective, I thought we were getting to

113:09a place where surely human civilization can't destroy itself. And here's a presentation of

113:13what looks like a hot war where multiple parties involved in escalation towards a world war is not

113:21entirely out of the realm of possibility. >> It's not. I would really, really hope that

113:28he is spending time with his two young twins. >> Well, this is part of what...

113:37>> I really hope he's spending time with his kids. >> Agreed, but not kids, not just kids,

113:44but friends. >> I'm not sure that he may not have friends, but it's very hard for anybody

113:51to look at their kids and not think about protecting the future. >>

113:55Well, there's partially because of the pandemic, but partially because of the nature of power,

114:02it feels like you're surrounded by people you can't trust more and more. I do think the pandemic

114:07had an effect on that too, the isolating effect. A lot of people were not their best selves during

114:13the pandemic. From a super heavy topic, let me go back to the space where you're one of the most

114:19successful people in the world. How to build companies, how to find good companies, what it

114:26takes to find good companies, what it takes to build good companies, what advice do you have

114:31for someone who wants to build the next super successful startup in the tech space and have a

114:37chance to be impactful like Facebook, Apple? >> I think that's the key word. If your

114:44precondition is to start something successful, you've already failed because now you're playing

114:48somebody else's game. What success means is not clear. You're walking into the woods. It's murky,

114:55it's dark, it's wet, it's raining. There's all these animals about. There's no comfort there.

115:01So you better really like hiking. And there's no short way to shortcut that.

115:09>> Isn't it obvious what success is? Like success is scale, so it's not what are the...

115:15>> No. I think that there's a very brittle basic definition of success that's outside in,

115:21but that's not what it is. I know people that are much, much, much richer than I am,

115:32and they are just so completely broken. And I think to myself, the only difference between you

115:42and me is outsider's perception of your wealth versus mine. But the happiness and the joy that

115:50I have in the simple basic routines of my life give me enormous joy. And so I feel successful,

116:00no matter what anybody says about my success or lack of success. There are people that live normal

116:07lives, that have good jobs, that have good families. I have this idyllic sense. I see it on

116:15TikTok all the time, so I know it exists. These neighborhoods where there's a cul-de-sac and these

116:20beautiful homes and these kids are biking around. And every time I see that, Lex, I immediately

116:26flashback to what I didn't have. And I think that's success. Look at how happy those kids are.

116:34So no, there is no one definition. And so if people are starting out to try to make

116:39a million dollars, a hundred million dollars, a billion dollars, you're going to fail.

116:43There's a definition of personal success, but is there's also some level of,

116:49that's different from person to person, but is there's also some level of

116:54the responsibility you have if there's a mission to have a positive impact on the world.

117:01So I'm not sure that Elon is happy. >> No. In fact, I think if you focus on

117:06trying to have an impact on the world, I think you're going to end up deeply unhappy.

117:09>> But does that matter? Like why is your own personal happiness matter?

117:14>> It may happen as a byproduct, but I think that you should strive to find your own personal

117:20happiness and then measure how that manifests as it relates to society and to other people.

117:26But if the answer to those questions is zero, that doesn't make you less of a person.

117:31>> No, a hundred percent. But then the other way, is there times when you need to sacrifice your

117:36own personal happiness for a bigger thing that you've created?

117:41>> Yeah. If you're in a position to do it, I think some folks are tested. Elon is probably

117:46the best example. And it must be really, really hard to be him. Really hard. I have

117:57enormous levels of empathy and care for him. I really love him as a person, because I just see

118:07that it's not that fun. And he has these ways of being human that in his position,

118:16I just think are so dear that I just hope he never loses them. Just a simple example,

118:21two days ago, I don't know why, but I went on Twitter and I saw the perfume thing. So I'm like,

118:29"Ah, fuck it. I'm just going to go buy some perfume." So I bought his perfume, the burnt

118:32hair thing. And I emailed him the receipt and I'm like, "All right, you got me for a bottle."

118:37And he responded in eight seconds and it was just a smiley face or whatever.

118:43Just deeply normal things that you do amongst people that are just... So nobody sees that.

118:48You know what I mean? But it would be... He deserves for that stuff to be seen because

118:53the rest of his life is so brutally hard. He's just a normal guy that is just caught in this

118:59ultra mega vortex. >> Why do you think there's so few Elons?

119:06>> It's an extremely lonely set of trade-offs. Because to your point, if you get tested...

119:15So if you think about it again, probabilistically, there's 8 billion people in the world,

119:20maybe 50 of them get put in a position where they are building something of such

119:25colossal importance that they even have this choice. And then of that 50, maybe 10 of them

119:32are put in a moment where they actually have to make a trade-off. You're not going to be able to

119:37see your family. I'm making this up. You're not going to be able to see your family. You're going

119:41to have to basically move into your factory. You're going to have to sleep on the floor.

119:44But here's the outcome, energy independence and resource abundance and a massive peace dividend.

119:51And then he says to himself, I don't know that he did because I've never had this...

119:57Yeah, you know what, that's worth it. And then you look at your kids and you're like,

120:01I'm making this decision. I don't know how to explain that to you.

120:05>> Yeah. >> You want to be in that position?

120:07There's no amount of money where I would want to be in that position. So that takes an enormous

120:12fortitude and a moral compass that he has. And that's what I think people need to appreciate

120:18about that guy. >> It's also on the first number you said, it's confusing that there's 50 people

120:23or 10 people that are put in the position to have that level of impact. It's unclear that that has

120:30to be that way. It seems like there could be much more. >> There should be. There's definitely people

120:35with the potential. But think about his journey. His mom had to leave a very complicated environment,

120:43move to Canada, move to Toronto, a small apartment just north of Bay and Bloor, if you've ever been

120:50to Toronto. I remember talking to her about this apartment. It's so crazy because I used to live

120:54like around the corner from that place and raise these three kids and just have to... So how many

121:00people are going to start with those boundary conditions and really grind it out? It's just

121:07very few people in the end that will have the resiliency to stick it through where you don't

121:15give into the self-doubt. And so it's just a really hard set of boundary conditions where you

121:23can have 50 or 100 of these people. That's why they need to be really appreciated. >> Yeah. Well,

121:29that's true for all humans that follow the thread of their passion and do something beautiful in

121:38this world. That could be on a small scale or a big scale. Appreciation is a gift you give to

121:45the other person, but also a gift to yourself. Somehow it becomes like this contagious thing.

121:49>> I went to this. You are so right. My brain just lit up because yesterday I went to

121:56an investor day of my friend of mine, described Brad Gerstner. And on the one very reductive world,

122:05Brad and I are theoretically competitors, but we're not. He makes his own set of decisions.

122:10I make my own set of decisions. We're both trying to do our own view of what is good work in the

122:15world, but he's been profoundly successful. And it was really the first moment of my adult life

122:23where I could sit in a moment like that and really be appreciative of his success and not feel less

122:29than. And so, a little selfishly for me, but mostly for him as well, I was so proud to be in the room.

122:36That's my friend. That guy plays poker with me every Thursday. He is crushing it. It's awesome.

122:41And it's a really amazing feeling. >> I mean, to linger on the trade-offs,

122:51the complicated trade-offs with all of this, what's your take on work-life balance

122:55in a company that's trying to do big things? >> I think that you have to have

123:06some very, very strict boundaries, but otherwise I think balance is kind of dumb.

123:13It will make you limited. I think you need to immerse yourself in the problem,

123:18but you need to define that immersion with boundaries. So, if you ask me, "What does my

123:25process look like?" It's monotonous and regimented, but it's all the time, except when it's not.

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123:33And that's also monotonous and regimented. And I think that makes me very good at my craft

123:41because it gives me what I need to stay connected to the problem without feeling resentful about the

123:49problem. >> Which part? The monotonous, all-in nature of it? Or when you say hard boundaries,

123:57essentially go all out until you stop, and you don't stop often? >> I'm in a little bit of a

124:05quandary right now because I'm trying to redefine my goals. And you're catching me in a moment where

124:12I have, even in these last few years of evolution, I think I've made some good progress,

124:19but in one very specific way, I'm still very reptilian. And I'm trying to let go,

124:27which was that exactly? If you can-- >> In my business, it really gets reduced to

124:32what is your annual rate of compounding? That's my demarcation. Steph Curry and LeBron James,

124:38Michael Jordan, it's how many points did you average, not just in a season, but over your

124:44career? And in their case, to really be the greatest of all time, it's points, rebounds,

124:50assists, steals. There's all kinds of measures to be in that pantheon of being really, really

124:58good at your craft. And in my business, it's very reductive. It's how well have you compounded?

125:05And if you look at all the heroes that I have put on a pedestal in my mind,

125:15they've compounded at above 30% for a very long time, as have I.

125:22But now I feel like I really need to let go because I think I know how to do the basics of my job.

125:31And if I had to summarize an investing challenge or investing, I think really it's when you first

125:38start out investing, you're a momentum person. You saw it in GameStop, just a bunch of people

125:43aping each other. And then it goes from momentum to you start to think about cash flows, how much

125:51profit is this person going to make, whatever. So that's like the evolution. This is the basic

125:56thing to this is a reasonably sophisticated way. Then a much smaller group of people think about

126:03it in terms of macro geopolitics. But then a very finite few crack this special code,

126:09which is there's a philosophy and it's the philosophy that creates the system.

126:13And I'm scratching at that furiously, but I cannot break through and I haven't broken through.

126:20And I know that in order to break through, I got to let go. So this is the journey that I'm in

126:25as in my professional life. So it is an all consuming thing, but I'm always home for dinner.

126:34We have very prescribed moments where we take vacation, the weekends. I can tell you about my

126:39week if you're curious, but it's like- I would love to know your week. It's since it's regimented

126:44and monotonous. I wake up at 6.45, get the kids, go downstairs. We all have some form of

126:57not super healthy breakfast. I make a latte. I've become in and the latte is like, I have a machine.

127:04I measure the beans. I make sure that the timer is such where I have to pull it for a certain

127:09specific ratio. Just so you know, 20 grams, I got to pull 30 grams with the water and I got to do it

127:15in 30 seconds, et cetera. So you're a coffee snob.

127:19It helps me stay in rhythm. Sure. Before I used to have another machine, I just pushed a button.

127:25But then I would push the button religiously in the exact same way. You know what I mean?

127:29Can I say actually on that topic, the morning with kids can be a pretty stressful thing.

127:38Are you able to find sort of happiness? Is that also that morning is a source of happiness?

127:44It's great. My kids are lovely. They're maniacs.

127:51I just see, and maybe I've never asked Friedberg this, but I'll just put my words. I see all of

127:59the things in moments where there was no compassion given to me. And so I just give him a ton of

128:08love and compassion. I have an infinite patience for my children, not for other kids.

128:13Yes, of course. But for kids. So anyway, so we have a breakfast thing.

128:20And then I go upstairs and I change and I work out from eight to nine.

128:26And that's like the first 15 minutes I walk up on a steep incline, 12 to 14%,

128:34three and a half to four miles per hour walk. And then Monday's a push day, Tuesday's front

128:44of the legs, Wednesday's pull, Thursday's back of the legs, eight to nine. Monday I always start,

128:52I talk to my therapist from nine to 10. So as soon as I finished working out, I get on the phone

128:56and I talk to him. And it helps me lock in for the week. And I'm just talking about the past.

129:06And it's just helping me. The recent past?

129:10Usually, sometimes the recent past, but usually it's about the past past. Something that I

129:16remember when I was a kid. Because that's the work about just loosening those knots.

129:21So I put in that hour of work, respect that hour. Then I'm in the office. And then it's like,

129:30I go until 12, 15, 12, 30, go home, have lunch, like a proper, go home, sit down, have lunch with

129:39Nat, talk, she leaves her work and we talk, how are we doing? Just check in. Our youngest daughter

129:45will be there 'cause she's one and she's making a mess. And then I'll have another coffee. That's

129:53it, my limit for the day. Oh, no more caffeine. That's it. And then I go back to the office and

129:59I'll be there till six, seven sometimes. And I do that Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday.

130:04Monday, Tuesday, Thursday, Friday, I'm allowed to have meetings. Wednesday, nothing, it's all

130:09reading, must be, unless it's a complete emergency. It has to be kind of a full reading. And reading

130:16is a bunch of blogs, YouTube videos. So no, try not to do any talking.

130:22No talking. It's like being in silence, being present, thinking about things.

130:27By the way, how do you take notes? Do you have a-

130:29A sketch, I have a pad and I write stuff down. Sometimes I go to my phone. I'm a little all

130:35over the place. Sometimes I do Google Docs. I don't have a, this is one thing I need to

130:40get better at actually. But typically what happens is I actually do a lot of thinking in my mind

130:45and I'm sort of filing a lot of stuff away. And then it all spills out and then I have to write.

130:51And then that gives me a body of work that I can evaluate and think about. And then I usually put

130:57it away. And a lot of the time it goes nowhere, but every now and then I come back to it and it

131:03just unlocks two or three things. And I have a sense of how else I'm thinking about things.

131:07And then Friday at the end of the day, Nat and I talked to a couples therapist

131:11and that's about checking out properly. So it's like, okay, now it's like focusing.

131:19The weekend is family, being present, being aware. And if there's email, obviously,

131:27if I have to do meetings from time to time, no problem, but there's boundaries.

131:32Checking out properly. Oh man, that is so powerful. Just like officially transitioning.

131:40Yeah. So these are really important boundaries so that I can be immersed. And what that means

131:49is like, look, on a Saturday afternoon, on a random day, she'll be like, "Where's Chamath?"

131:53And I'll be up in my room. And I've found a podcast talking about like,

131:59DSIS, which is like ductal cancer in situ, because I've been fascinated about breast cancer

132:04surgeries for a while and learning about that. And she's like, "What are you doing?" I'm like,

132:09"Listening to a podcast about DSIS." And she's like, "What's that?" And I'm like,

132:13"Ductal cancer in situ." She's like, "Okay." And so I have time to continue to just constantly

132:21learning, learning, putting stuff in my memory banks to organize into something. And that's a

132:28week. But then in these fixed moments of time, phone down, everything down, we go on vacation,

132:34we go on a boat, we go to whatever, where it's just us and the kids.

132:39Is there a structure when you're at work? Is there a structure to your day in terms of meetings,

132:44in terms of South Side of Wednesday? Because you're...

132:47Have to keep meetings to less than 30 minutes. Have to. And oftentimes meetings can be as short

132:54as like 10 or 15 minutes, because then I'm just like, "Okay." Because I'm trying to reinforce

132:59that it's very rare that we all have something really important to say. And so the ritual that

133:08becomes really valuable to get scale is not the ritual of meetings, but the ritual of respecting

133:13the collective time of the unit. And so it's like, "You know what, folks? I'm going to assume that

133:19you guys are also tackling really important projects. You also want to have good boundaries

133:24in this immersion. Go back to your kids and have dinner with them every night. It's not just for

133:28me, it's for you. So how about this? Why don't you go and do your work? This meeting didn't need to

133:32be 30 minutes, it could be five. And the rest of the time is yours." And it's weird because when

133:38people join that system at Social Capital, they just... It's like FaceTime and it's like, "Let me

133:43make sure and let me talk a lot." It's like, "I don't say anything." I respect the person that

133:48says nothing for two years and the first thing that they say is not obvious. That person is

133:53immensely more valuable than the person that tries to talk all the time. What have you learned from

133:57your... So after Facebook, you started Social Capital or what is now called Social Capital.

134:02What have you learned from all the successful investing you've done there? About investing

134:10or about life or about running a team? I'm very loath to give advice because I think

134:16so much of it is situational. But my observation is that starting a business is really hard,

134:21any kind of business. And most people don't know what they're doing. And as a result, we make

134:28enormous mistakes. But I would summarize this and this may be a little heterodoxical. I think

134:35there are only three kinds of mistakes. Because if we go back to what we said before, in the business,

134:39it's just learning. You're exploring the dark space to get to the answer faster than other people.

134:45And the mistakes that you make are three or the three kinds of decisions, let's say.

134:52You'll hire somebody and they're really, really, really average, but they're a really good person.

135:01Oh, yeah. You'll hire somebody and they really weren't candid with who they are.

135:09And their real personality and their morality and their ethics only expose them

135:15over a long period of time. And then you hire somebody and they're not that good

135:24morally, but they're highly performant. What do you do with those three things?

135:31And I think successful companies have figured out how to answer those three things because those

135:41are the things that, in my opinion, determine success and failure.

135:45So it's basically hiring and you just identified three failure cases for hiring.

135:50But very different failure cases and very complicated ones, right? Like the highly

135:54performant person who's not that great as a human being, do you keep them around? Well,

136:00a lot of people would err towards keeping that person around. What is the right answer? I don't

136:04know. It's the context of the situation. And the second one is also very tricky. What about if they

136:11really turned out that they were just not candid with who they are and it took you a long time to

136:14figure out who you were? These are all mistakes of the senior person that's running this organization.

136:18I think if you can learn to manage those situations well, those are the real edge

136:26cases where you can make mistakes that are fatal to a company. That's what I've learned over 11

136:31and a half years, honestly. Otherwise, the business of investing, I feel that it's a secret.

136:39And if you are willing to just keep chipping away, you'll peel back enough of these layers will come

136:47off and you'll see it. The scales will come off and you'll eventually see it.

136:51I really struggle with, maybe you can be my therapist for a little bit,

136:55with that first case which you originally mentioned. Because I love people, I see the

137:00good in people. I really struggle with just a mediocre performing person who's a good human

137:07being. That's a tough one. I'll let you off the hook. I think that those are incredibly

137:13important and useful people. I think that if a company is like a body, they are like cartilage.

137:20Can you replace cartilage? Yeah. But would you if he didn't have to? No. Okay, can I play devil's

137:27advocate? Yeah. So those folks, because of their goodness, make it okay to be mediocre.

137:36They create a culture where, well, what's important in life, which is something I agree in my personal

137:45life, is to be good to each other, to be friendly, to be good vibes, all that kind of stuff. When I

137:51was at Google, just the good atmosphere, everyone's playing, it's fun. Fun, right? But to me,

138:00when I put on my hat of having a mission and a goal, what I love to see is the superstars that

138:10shine in some way, do something incredible. I want everyone to also admire those superstars,

138:22perhaps not just for the productivity's sake or performing or successful company's sake,

138:28but because that too is an incredible thing that humans are able to accomplish, which is shine.

138:34I hear you, but that's not a decision you make, meaning you get lucky when you have those people

138:39in your company. That's not the hard part for you. The hard part is figuring out what to do with one,

138:44two, and three. Keep, demote, promote, fire. What do you do? This is why it's all about those three

138:52buckets. I personally believe that folks in that bucket one, as long as those folks aren't more

138:57than 50% to 60% of a company, are good. They can be managed as long as they are one to two degrees

139:05away from one of those people that you just mentioned. Because it's easy then to drag the

139:11entire company down if they're too far away from the LeBron James, because you don't know what

139:16LeBron James looks and feels and smells. You need that tactile sense of what excellence looks like

139:22in front of you. A great example is if you just go on YouTube and you search these clips of how

139:27Kobe Bryant's teammates described, not Kobe, but how their own behavior, not performance,

139:36because there was a bunch of average people that Kobe played with his whole career,

139:39but their behavior changed by being somewhat closer to him. I think that's an important

139:47psychological thing to note for how you can do reasonably good team construction. If you're

139:53lucky enough to find those generational talents, you have to find a composition of a team that

139:58keeps them roughly close to enough of the org. That way, that group of people can continue to

140:06add value, and then you'll have courage to fire these next two groups of people. I think the

140:11answer is to fire those two groups of people. Because no matter how good you are, that stuff

140:16just injects poison into a living organism, and that living organism will die when exposed to

140:22poison. - So you invest in a lot of companies, you've looked at a lot of companies. What do you

140:28think makes for a good leader? So we talked about building a team, but a good leader for a company,

140:34what are the qualities? - When I first meet people, I never ask to see a resume.

140:41And when I'm meeting a company CEO for the first time, I couldn't care less about the business,

140:49in fact. And I try to take the time to let them reveal themselves. Now in this environment,

140:57I'm doing most of the talking. But if this were the other way around, and you were ever raising

141:01capital, and you said, "Smath, I'd be interested in you looking at this business," I'd probably say

141:05eight to 10 words for hours. - You just listen. - Prod. I throw things out, prod, and I let you

141:12meander. And in you meandering, I'm trying to build a sense of who this person is. Once I have

141:19a rough sense of that, which is not necessarily right, but it's a starting point, then I can go

141:26and understand why this idea makes sense in this moment. And what I'm really trying to do is just

141:33kind of like unpack where are the biases that may make you fail. And then we go back to you.

141:41- The thing that Silicon Valley has the benefit of though, is that they don't have to do any of

141:47this stuff if there's momentum. Because then the rule book goes out the window and people

141:53clamor to invest. So one of the things that I do, and this is again, back to this pugilism that I

142:00inflict on myself, is I have these two things that I look at. Thing number one is I have a table

142:07that says how much did we make from all of our best investments? How much did we lose from all

142:13of our worst investments? What is the ratio of winners to losers over 11 years? And in our case,

142:19it's 23 to one on billions of dollars. So you can kind of like, you can see a lot of signal.

142:26But what that allows me to do is really like say, wait a minute, we cannot violate these rules

142:36around how much money we're willing to commit in an errant personality. The second is I ask myself

142:43of all the other top VCs in Silicon Valley, name them all, what's our correlation? Meaning

142:50when I do a deal, how often does anybody from Sequoia, Excel, Benchmark, Kleiner, you name it,

142:57do it at the same time or after and vice versa. And then I look at the data to see how much they

143:04do it amongst themselves. >> What's a good sign?

143:07>> I'm at zero, as virtually close to zero as possible.

143:11>> And that's a good thing. >> Well, it's not a good thing when

143:14the markets are way, way up because it creates an enormous amount of momentum. So I have to make

143:21money the hard way. I have to, you know, cause I'm trafficking in things that are highly uncorrelated

143:26to the gestalt of Silicon Valley, which can be a lonely business,

143:33but it's really valuable in moments where markets get crushed because correlation is the first thing

143:38that causes massive destruction of capital, massive. Because one person all of a sudden

143:44with one blow up in one company, boom, the contagion hits everybody except the person that

143:50was not. And so now those are like more sophisticated elements of risk management,

143:56which is again, this pugilism that I inflict on my, nobody asks me to do that. Nobody actually

144:01at some level when the markets are up really care that when markets are sideways or when markets

144:06are down, I think that that allows me to feel proud of our process. >> But that requires you

144:12to think a lot. >> A lot.

144:14>> Outside of the box, it's lonely because you're taking risks. Also, your public personality. So

144:20you say stuff that if it's wrong, you get yelled at for being, I mean, your mistakes aren't private.

144:29>> No. And that's something that has been a really, really healthy moment of growth.

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144:35It's like an athlete. If you really want to be a winner, you got to hit the shot

144:42in front of the fans. And if you miss it, you have to be willing to take the responsibility

144:49of the fact that you bricked it. And over time, hopefully there's a body of work that says you've

144:55generally hit more than you've missed. But if you look at even the best shooters, what are they? 52%.

145:01So these are razor thin margins at the end of the day, which is really, so then what can you

145:07control? I can't control the defense. I can't control what they throw at me. I can just control

145:13my preparation and whether I'm in the best position to launch a reasonable shot. >>

145:18You said that the world's first trillionaire will be somebody in climate change in the past.

145:24Let's update that. What's today, as we stand here today, what sector will the world's first

145:29trillionaire come from? >> Yeah, I think it's energy transition.

145:32>> So energy, so the things we've been talking about.

145:35>> Yeah. >> Really? So isn't it, okay.

145:37>> Well, I think the way that I think about- >> So this is a single individual,

145:40sorry to interrupt. You see their ability to actually build a company that makes a huge

145:46amount of money as opposed to this distributed idea that you've been talking about.

145:50>> Yeah, I'll give you my philosophy on wealth. Most of it is not you.

145:56An enormous amount of it is the genetic distribution of being born in the right

146:03place and blah, blah, blah, irrespective of the boundary conditions of how you were born

146:07or where you were raised, right? So at the end of the day, you and I ended up in the United States.

146:13It's a huge benefit to us. Second is the benefit of our age. It's much better and much more likely

146:21to be successful as a 46-year-old in 2023 than a 26-year-old in 2023. Because in my case, I have

146:29demographics working for me. For the 26-year-old, he or she has demographics working slightly

146:35against them. >> Can you explain that a little bit?

146:37What are the demographics here? >> In the case of me,

146:42the distribution of population in America looks like a pyramid. In that pyramid, I'm wedged in

146:51between these two massive population cohorts, the boomers and then these Gen Z and millennials.

146:56That's a very advantageous position. It's not dissimilar to the position that Buffett was,

147:02where he was packaged in between boomers beneath him and the silent generation above him.

147:09Being in between two massive population cohorts turns out to be extremely advantageous because

147:14when the cohort above you transitions power and capital and all of this stuff,

147:19you're the next person that likely gets handed it. We have a disproportionate likelihood to be...

147:25We are lucky to be older than younger. That's an advantage. Then the other advantage that has

147:32nothing to do with me is that I stumbled into technology. I got a degree in electrical

147:37engineering and I ended up coming to Silicon Valley. It turned out that in that moment,

147:42it was such a transformational wind of change that was at my back. The wealth that one creates

147:50is a huge part of those variables. Then the last variable is your direct contributions

147:59in that moment. The reason why that can create extreme wealth is because when those things come

148:09together at the right moment, it's like a chemical reaction. It's just crazy.

148:15That was part number one of what I wanted to say. The second thing is when you look then inside of

148:23these systems where you have all these tailwinds. In tech, I think I benefit from these three big

148:29tailwinds. If you build a company or are part of a company or a part of a movement,

148:34your economic participation tends to be a direct byproduct of the actual value

148:44that that thing creates in the world. The thing that that creates in the world

148:52will be bigger if it is not just an economic system, but it's like a philosophical system.

148:59It changes the way that governance happens. It changes the way that people think about all kinds

149:04of other things about their lives. There's a reason, I think, why database companies are worth

149:11X, social companies are worth Y, but the military industrial complex is worth as much. I think there

149:19is a reason why that if you, for example, were to go off and build some newfangled source of energy

149:26that's clean and hyperabundant and safe, that what you're really going to displace or reshape

149:34is trillions and trillions of dollars of worldwide GDP. The global GDP is, I call it, 85 trillion.

149:41It's going at 2% to 3% a year. In the next 10 years, we'll be dealing with $100 trillion of GDP.

149:48Somebody who develops clean energy in 2035 will probably shift 10% of that around, $10 trillion.

149:57A company can easily capture 30% of a market, $3 trillion. A human being can typically own

150:07a third of one of these companies, $1 trillion. You can get to this answer where it's like,

150:14"It's going to happen in our lifetime." But you have to, I think, find these systems that are so

150:20gargantuan and they exist today. It's more bounded because price discovery takes longer.

150:26In an existing thing, it's more unbounded because you know what it is. You know the tentacles that

150:30energy reaches. Of that $80 trillion of worldwide GDP, I bet you if you added up all the energy

150:37companies, but then you added up all of manufacturing, if you added up all of transport,

150:42you'd probably get to like 60 of the 80. >> Do you have an idea of which

150:47alternate energy, sustainable energy is the most promising?

150:54>> Well, I think that we have to do a better job of exploring what I call the suburbs of

151:02the periodic table. We're really good in Seattle, the upper Northwest. We're kind of good in Portland,

151:12but we're non-existent in San Diego, and we have zero plan for North Carolina through Florida.

151:17>> Yeah. Is that a fancy way of saying nuclear should be part of the discussion?

151:24>> I think nuclear, I mean room temperature semiconductors. I'm not convinced right now

151:30that the existing set of nuclear solutions will do a good job of scaling beyond bench scale.

151:35I think there is a lot of complicated technical problems that make it work at a bench scale level,

151:40even partially, but the energy equation is going to be very difficult to overcome in the absence

151:45of some leaps in material science. >> Have you seen any leaps? Is there

151:50promising stuff? You're seeing the cutting edge from a company perspective.

151:53>> Yeah. I would say not yet, but the precursor, yes. I have been spending a fair amount of time,

152:01so talking about a new framework that's in my mind, is around these room temp superconductors.

152:09And so I've been kind of bumbling around in that forest for about a year. I haven't really put

152:16together any meaningful perspectives, but again, talking about trafficking in companies and

152:23investments that are very lonely, but they allow me to generate returns that are relatively unique

152:29and independent. That's an area where I don't see anybody else when I'm there.

152:33I'll give you another area. We, I think, are about to unleash in a world of zero energy and

152:40zero compute costs, computational biology will replace wet chemistry. And when you do that,

152:50you will be able to iterate on tools that will be able to solve a lot of human disease.

152:57I think if you look at the head of the top 400 most recurring rare diseases,

153:03I think half the number, 200, is specific point mutation, is just the mismethylation between C

153:11and T. I mean, that's like, "Whoa, wait, you're telling me in billions of lines of code,

153:17I forgot a semicolon right there? That's causing this whole thing to miscompile? So I just got to

153:21go in there and boop, and it's all done?" That's a crazy idea. That was a C++ C throwback for people

153:28that don't know what I said. - There's two people who are clapping.

153:29- Two people there, everybody else is like, "What? This is not a pipe, what are you talking about?"

153:33- Makes perfect sense. - But, but...

153:35- So that, couldn't that be a truly, a source of a, if you, the computational biology unlocks,

153:41I mean, obviously medicine is begging for... - The thing with energy though is that the

153:46groundwork is well laid. And talking about sort of like the upper bound is well defined,

153:53the upper bound in medicine is not well defined because it is not the sum total of the market

153:59cap of the pharma industries. It is actually the sum total of the value of human life.

154:03And that's an extremely ethical and moral question. - Isn't there a special interest that are

154:10resisting moving, making progress on the energy side? So like governments and how do you break

154:18through that? I mean, you have to acknowledge the reality of that, right?

154:20- I think it's less governments. In fact, like I said, I think President Biden has done

154:24a really incredible job. Well, Chuck Schumer really has done a really incredible job because...

154:27So just to give you the math on this, right? Like back to this, so 3% of everything is of a market

154:34or zealots. But when you get past 5%, things tend to just go nuclear to 50, 60%. The way that they

154:43wrote this last bill, the cost, I'll just use the cars as an example. The cost of an average car

154:50is 22 and a half thousand. The cost of the cheapest battery car is 30,000. And lo and behold,

154:57there's a $7,500 credit. And it's like to think the invisible hand didn't know that that math was

155:02right, I think is kind of a little bit malarkey. And so the battery EV car is going to be the same

155:08price as the thing, and it's going to go to 40, 50%. So we're already at this tipping point. So

155:14we're kind of ready to go. In these other markets, it's a little bit more complicated because there's

155:20a lot of infrastructure that needs to get built. So the gene editing thing, as an example,

155:26we have to build a tool chain that looks more like code that you can write to.

155:33Facebook has written in, I think, PHP, originally.

155:36PHP, yeah.

155:37Which is, I'm still a big fan of. Sometimes you have to use the ugly solution and make it look

155:44good versus trying to come up with a good solution, which will be too late. Let me ask you,

155:51you consider a run for governor of California, then decided against it. What went into each

155:57of these decisions? And broadly, I just have maybe a selfish question about Silicon Valley.

156:03Is it over as a world leader for new tech companies? As this beacon of promise of

156:14young minds stepping in and creating something that changes the world?

156:19I don't know if those two questions are connected.

156:21So it's not over, but I think it's definitely, we're in a challenging moment because...

156:30So back to that analogy of the demographics, if you think about the, like if you bucketed,

156:38forget like our relative successes, but there's a bunch of us in this mid-50s to mid-30s cohort

156:47of people that have now been around for 20 years, 15 years to 25 years that have done stuff, right?

156:54From Andreessen to Zuck to Jack Dorsey, et cetera, Elon, whatever, maybe you throw me in the mix,

157:02David Sachs, whatever, okay? None of us have done a really good job of becoming a statesman

157:10or a stateswoman, and really showing a broad empathy and awareness for the broader systems.

157:19So Silicon Valley is to survive as a system. We need to know that we've transitioned from move

157:26fast and break things to get to the right answer and take your time if that's what it means.

157:30And so we have to be a participant of the system. And I believe that. And I think that it's

157:36important to not be a dilettante and not be thumbing your face to Washington or not push

157:43the boundaries and say, we'll deal with it after the fact, but to work with folks that are trying

157:49to do the best, again, steel men their point of view. Work with them, potentially run for office.

157:56So potentially understand the system. Be a part of their system.

158:01It makes me sad that there's no tech people or not many tech people in Congress and certainly

158:08not in the presidential level, not many governors or senators.

158:12Well, I think that we also have roughly, our rules will never allow some of the best and

158:17brightest folks to run for president because of just the rules against it. But if-

158:22Oh, you mean, yeah.

158:23I mean, look, I think David Sachs would be an incredible presidential candidate. Now,

158:27I also think he'd be a great governor. No, he was born in South Africa.

158:32You know, I think he'd be a great governor. I think he'd be a great

158:34secretary of state. I mean, he'd be great at whatever he wanted to do.

158:38Friedberg wasn't born here. So there's a lot of people that could contribute at different levels.

158:47And I hope that... By the way, the other thing I like about the pod is I also think it helps

158:52normalize tech a little bit because you just see normal people dealing with normal situations.

158:59And I think that that's good. You know, it is a really normative place. It's not the caricature

159:04that it's made out to be, but there is a small virulent strain of people that make it caricature

159:09like.

159:09Well, that's in one direction. What do you think about the whole

159:12culture of, I don't know if better terms, but woke activism? So sort of activism,

159:21which in some contexts is a powerful and important thing, but infiltrating companies.

159:26I'll answer this in the context of Rene Girard. So like he says that people tend to copy each other.

159:30And then when they're copying each other, they're really what they're fighting. What

159:34they're doing is they're fighting over some scarce resource. And then you find a way to

159:40organize against the group of you, against the person or a thing that you think is the actual

159:46cause of all of this conflict and you try to expel them. The thing that wokeism doesn't understand

159:52is that unless that person is truly to blame, the cycle just continues. And, you know, that was a,

160:00that was a framework that he developed that, you know, he's really conclusively proven to be true

160:06and it's observable in humanity and life. So these movements, I think the extreme left and the

160:13extreme right are trying to interpret a way to allow people to compete for some scarce resource.

160:21But I also think that in all of that, what they don't realize is that they can scapegoat whoever

160:28they want, but it's not going to work because the bulwark of people in the middle realize that it's

160:34just not true. Yeah, they realize, but they're still because in leadership positions, there's

160:40still momentum and they still scapegoat and they continue and it seems to hurt the actual ability

160:47of those companies to be successful. In fairness though, if you had to graph the effectiveness of

160:52that function, it's decaying rapidly. It's the least effective it's ever been. You're absolutely

160:57right. Being canceled five years ago was a huge deal. Today, I think it was Jordan Peterson on

161:04your podcast. He said, "I've been canceled and it was amazing." He said 38 times or 40. He said some

161:09number, which was a ginormous number, A, that he kept account of it and B, was able to classify it.

161:14I'm like, "What classifier is going on in his mind?" where he's like, "Ah, that's an attempt

161:18to cancel me, but this one is not." But my point is, well, it's clearly not working.

161:22So the guy is still there and the guy is putting his view out into the world.

161:27And so it's not to judge whether what he says is right or wrong. It's just to observe that this

161:33mechanism of action is now weakened, but it's weakened because it's not the thing that people

161:39think is really to blame. >>COREY: Yeah. You've been canceled on a small scale a few times.

161:44So that's not some, I'm sure it didn't feel small. Actually, it wasn't small. I'm trying to minimize.

161:49Did that psychologically hurt you? >>COREY: Yeah.

161:54>>BF: It was tough? >>COREY: Yeah. In the moment,

161:56you don't know what's going on, but I would like to thank a certain CEO of a certain well-known

162:02company. And he sent me basically like a step-by-step manual.

162:11>>BF: Does it involve mushrooms? No. >>COREY: No. And he was right.

162:17The storm passed and life went on. >>BF: I don't know if you can share

162:23the list of steps, but is the fundamental core ideas that just life goes on?

162:29>>COREY: The core fundamental idea is like, you need to be willing and able to apologize

162:38for what is in your control, but not for other people's mistakes.

162:41Your mistakes, yes. And if you feel like there's something, then you should take accountability of

162:48that. But to apologize for somebody else, for something that they want to hear,

162:54isn't going to solve anything. >>BF: Yeah. There's something about

162:58apologies. If you do them, they should be authentic to what you actually want to say

163:04versus what somebody else wants to hear. >>COREY: Otherwise it doesn't ring true.

163:09>>BF: Yeah. And people can see through that. >>COREY: And people can see through it. And also,

163:13what people see through is not just the fact that your apology was somewhat hollow,

163:17but also that this entire majority of people now walked away. The mob was like, "Okay, thanks."

163:21And then people are like, "Oh, so you didn't care at all?"

163:25And so then it reflects more probably on them. >>BF: Yeah. I know you said you don't like to

163:33give advice, but what advice would you give to a young person? You've lived an incredible life

163:40from very humble beginnings, difficult childhood, and you're one of the most successful people in

163:44the world. So what advice? I mean, a lot of people look to you for inspiration.

163:49Kids in high school or early college that are not doing good or are trying to figure out

163:59basically what to do when they have complete doubt in themselves.

164:03What advice would you give them? >>COREY:

164:12It is really important that if somebody that you respect, and I'm going to just for the purpose of

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164:18this put myself in that bucket, and if you're listening to this, I wish somebody had told this

164:24to me. We are all equal, and you will fight this demon inside you that says you are less than a lot

164:36of other people for reasons that will be hard to see until you're much, much older. And so you have

164:45to find either a set of people far, far away, like what I did, or one or two people really,

164:53really close to you, or maybe it's both that will remind you in key moments of your life

165:01that that is true. Otherwise, you will give in to that beast. And it's not the end of the world,

165:10and you'll recover from it. I've made a lot of mistakes, but it requires a lot of energy,

165:18and sometimes it's just easier to just stop and give up. So I think that if you're starting out

165:24in the world, if you've been lucky to have a wonderful life and you had wonderful parents,

165:28man, you should go and give them a huge hug because they did you such a service that

165:33most folks don't do to most kids, unfortunately. And it's not the fault of these parents,

165:38but it's just tough. Life is tough. So give them a kiss and then figure out a way where you can just

165:45do work that validates you and where you feel like you're developing some kind of mastery.

165:51Who cares what anybody else thinks about it? Just do it because it feels good. Do it because

165:55you like to get good at something. But if you're not one of those lucky people,

165:59you can believe in your friends or you can just believe in me.

166:04I'm telling you, preserve optionality. How you do that is by regulating your reactions to things.

166:13And your reactions are going to be largely guided in moments where you think that you are not the

166:20same as everybody else, and specifically that you are less than those people and you're not.

166:24So just save this part of this podcast and just play it on a loop if you need to. But that is my

166:33biggest learning is I am equal. I'm the same as all these other people. And you can imagine what

166:40that means to me to go out in the world, to see people and think, "Okay, I'm the same as this

166:44person. I'm as good as them." And you could imagine what you're probably thinking of what

166:49I'm thinking is not that thing. You're probably thinking, "Man, this guy, yeah,

166:53this guy, I'm so much better." No, I am fighting this thing all the time.

167:00Well, I've also met a bunch of folks who I think is a counter reaction to that. Once they become

167:07successful, they start developing a philosophy that they are better or even some people are

167:14better than others, which I understand. There's LeBron James versus other people and so on.

167:21But I always really resisted that thought because I feel like it's a slippery slope.

167:26They're not better. They have mastery in a thing that they've fallen in love with.

167:30Yeah.

167:32I'm trying to develop mastery in a thing that I love. I love investing. It's like solving puzzles.

167:38And I love that. I love trying to develop mastery in poker. I really love that. I'm learning how

167:46to be a parent to a teenager because I finally have one. It's all new stuff to me and I'm learning.

167:52That's what it's all about.

167:55Yeah. So you don't want to think you're lesser than and you don't want to think you're better

168:01than because those both lead you astray.

168:04I've never thought I was better than. I manifested better than

168:07because I was trying to compensate for feeling less than. My goal is just to feel like everybody

168:15else feels on the presumption that everybody had a normal life.

168:18Given your nickname is the dictator, do you trust yourself with power?

168:22If the world gave you absolute power for a month...

168:27No. No, because I think that I'm still riddled with bias. I don't deserve that position. And

168:35I would not want that weight on my shoulders. I had a spot actually where it was a very

168:42important and big poker game. And it was a spot where I was in the pot. And it was a really large

168:51pot. It was like a million dollar pot. And I had to make a ruling and the ruling was in my favor.

168:58And I was just beside myself. I play for the challenge. I like to get pushed to the limit

169:08of my capabilities. I want to see can I think at the same level of these folks because these

169:15guys are all experts. They're all pros. And I get enormous joy from that challenge.

169:20And I like to win, but I like to win just a small amount. You know what I mean? And then I never

169:28wanted to win in that way. But because it was my game, I had to make this call on a million dollar

169:35pot and I wanted to just shoot myself. I just was like, "This is gross and disgusting." And

169:41he was a complete gentleman, which made it even worse. So I do not want absolute power.

169:48Well, those are the people you do want to have power is the ones that don't want it,

169:52which is a weird system to have. Because then you, in that kind of system, don't get the leaders

169:59that you should have. Because the ones that want power aren't the ones that should have power.

170:05That's a weird, weird system. What do you think? Let me sneak this question in there.

170:09What do you think is the meaning of life?

170:11I don't...

170:14Why are we here? Give a look up at the stars and think about the big "why" question.

170:21I think that it's a chance to just enjoy the ride. I don't think it really... I don't believe

170:32in this idea of legacy that much. I think it's a real trap.

170:37So do you think you'll be forgotten by history?

170:41I hope so. I really, really hope so. Because if you think about it, there are two or three people

170:46that are remembered for positive things, and everybody else, it's all negative things. And

170:51the likelihood that you'll be remembered for a positive thing is harder and harder and harder.

170:56And so the surface area of being remembered is negative. And then the second, what will it

171:02matter? I'll be gone. I really just want to have fun, do my thing, learn, get better. But I want

171:13to reward myself by feeling like, "Wow, that was awesome." I've told this story many times, and

171:21I have put, again, my own narrative fallacy on top of this. But Steve Jobs's sister wrote this

171:29obit in the New York Times when he died, and she ends it by saying his last words were, "Oh, wow,

171:34oh, wow, oh, wow." That seems like an awesome way to die. You're surrounded by your friends and

171:39family, not the fact that he died, obviously, but in a moment where what I read into it was your

171:45family was there. Maybe you thought about all the cool shit that you were able to do.

171:52And then you just started the simulation all over again.

171:57And so just on the off chance that that's true, I don't want to take this thing too seriously.

172:03You know what I mean? Just enjoy it.

172:05So you're not afraid of it, the end?

172:07No. Could end tomorrow. Could end right now.

172:12So every day you can go and you're happy. You're happy with the things you've done.

172:17Yeah. There are obviously things I want to do that I haven't done,

172:24but there are no gaping things. I've really, really, really been in love.

172:29Total gift. There have been moments where I've really, really felt like everybody else.

172:38There have been moments where I had deep, deep, deep joy and connection with my children.

172:45There are moments where I've had incredible giggling fun with my friends.

172:51There's moments where I've been able to enjoy really incredible experiences, wine, food,

172:55all that stuff. Great. I mean, what more do you want? I could keep asking for more,

173:02but I would just be a really crappy human being at some point. You know what I mean? It's enough.

173:09It's enough. It's enough.

173:13This life is pretty beautiful if you allow yourself to see it.

173:17It's really great and it's better than it's ever been for most of us, actually.

173:24Yeah. It's pretty nice.

173:25And all of the millennials and Gen Zs, you're about to get a boatload of money from your parents.

173:33And you better figure out how to be happy before you get that money,

173:43because otherwise you will be miserable.

173:47Get a lot of Dairy Queen. No, that only worked the first time.

173:53It worked two times in grade five and grade six. My God, that next year.

173:57Oh, repeat.

173:57Flex, I worked my ass off. I'm like, but I could never bring myself to ask her.

174:02Yeah.

174:02And then she did it. And I was like, man, this woman's a Miss Bruni. This woman's a gem.

174:07Yeah. But the third time it faded. Isn't that the sad thing about life?

174:11You know, the finiteness of it, the scarcity of it.

174:15Without that, ice cream wouldn't be so damn delicious.

174:21Chamath, you're an incredible human. I definitely recommend that people listen to you on all

174:25platforms. We're very lucky to be able to get your wisdom.

174:30I've talked a lot about you with Andrej Karpathy, who's somebody I really respect.

174:36And he just loves the shit out of you in how much you, how deeply you understand the world.

174:42It's a huge honor.

174:43He's an incredible human being.

174:44On a different, yeah, speaking of semicolons, there's some human beings that understand

174:49everything at the very low level and at the very high level. And those people are also

174:54very rare. So it's a huge honor and also a huge honor that you would be so kind to me,

175:02just like in subtle ways offline, that you would make me feel like I'm worthwhile.

175:09Well, can I just say something as just a layman listener?

175:12What you do, just so I could give you my version, is that you take things and people,

175:22so ideas and people, that are mostly behind a rope and you demystify it.

175:31And what that does for all of us is it makes me feel like I can be a part of that.

175:39And that's a really inspiring thing because you're not giving advice, you're not telling us how to

175:44solve the problem, but you're allowing it to be understood in a way that's really accessible.

175:52And then you're intellectually curious in ways that some of us would never expect that we were,

175:59and then you end up in this rabbit hole. And then you have the courage to go and talk to people that

176:04are really all over the map. For example, when I saw your Jordan Peterson example, you went there,

176:13you talked about Nazism, and I was just like, "Man, this is a complicated argument these guys

176:18are going to tackle." It's really impressive. So I have an enormous amount of respect for what you

176:26do. I think it's very hard to do what you do so consistently. And so I look at you as somebody I

176:33respect because it just shows somebody who's immersed in something and who's very special.

176:41So thank you for including me in this. I'm going to play that clip to myself

176:44privately over and over, just when I feel low and self-critical about myself. Thank you so much,

176:50brother. This is incredible. Thanks, man. Thank you for listening to this conversation with

176:55Chamath Palihapitiya. To support this podcast, please check out our sponsors in the description.

177:01And now let me leave you with some words from Jonathan Swift.

177:04"A wise person should have money in their head, but not in their heart."

177:10Thank you for listening and hope to see you next time.

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